the main thing is to really relax when receiving anal and not rushing,
butt plug will help start small and work up the sizes. use plenty of lube and clean before play.
i currently use lubido anal lube, water based but nice gel consistancy and really slippery (as with all water based lube it will get sticky, but this one seems to last a good amount of time before it does) and it is cheap on amazon 6.99 for 250 ml.
I used to use pjur back door anal lube, silicone based but too liquid imo and goes everywhere never dry out though but everything gets slippery and a nightmare to clean off. |
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"the main thing is to really relax when receiving anal and not rushing,
butt plug will help start small and work up the sizes. use plenty of lube and clean before play.
i currently use lubido anal lube, water based but nice gel consistancy and really slippery (as with all water based lube it will get sticky, but this one seems to last a good amount of time before it does) and it is cheap on amazon 6.99 for 250 ml.
I used to use pjur back door anal lube, silicone based but too liquid imo and goes everywhere never dry out though but everything gets slippery and a nightmare to clean off."
thanks for this. I like Lubido, but find it can go a bit tacky/sticky on toys.. although from what you’ve said, maybe the best of the bunch.
I’ve never trained someone before, so I think a variety of plugs may be first on the list.  |
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I’ve found the Lubido anal lube the best. I have different sized plugs as well. Make sure they have a sturdy base though as some of the flimsy silicone bases can bend up.
Makes pegging a whole lot easier |
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We have been using slikquid anal lube, it's amazing last a long time and doesn't go tacky. Try to avoid numbing lubes. Start with some small plugs/ dildos and work up around 1/4 inch diameter at a time anymore can be abit much. Anything else happy to help. |
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"We have been using slikquid anal lube, it's amazing last a long time and doesn't go tacky. Try to avoid numbing lubes. Start with some small plugs/ dildos and work up around 1/4 inch diameter at a time anymore can be abit much. Anything else happy to help. "
Can I just ask, why do you recommend NOT, using numbing lube? |
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"We have been using slikquid anal lube, it's amazing last a long time and doesn't go tacky. Try to avoid numbing lubes. Start with some small plugs/ dildos and work up around 1/4 inch diameter at a time anymore can be abit much. Anything else happy to help.
Can I just ask, why do you recommend NOT, using numbing lube?"
I’ve also been recommended this, I believe it’s to not cause damage to the partner receiving. Especially when new to anal. |
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"We have been using slikquid anal lube, it's amazing last a long time and doesn't go tacky. Try to avoid numbing lubes. Start with some small plugs/ dildos and work up around 1/4 inch diameter at a time anymore can be abit much. Anything else happy to help. "
thanks for this! Going to look for this lube and have a good look at plugs. I personally prefer metal ones, not sure if rubber are better for “new” participants?
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"Do people clean out before hand? I've had a few accidents beforehand haha its not pretty  . What's the best thing to use? "
I always deep clean before we play with strapon or with guys as makes it's more pleasurable with no mess but can take few hours to achieve with regular visits to shower before we start fun |
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"Do people clean out before hand? I've had a few accidents beforehand haha its not pretty . What's the best thing to use?
I always deep clean before we play with strapon or with guys as makes it's more pleasurable with no mess but can take few hours to achieve with regular visits to shower before we start fun"
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I started off with plenty of lube and a set of anal beads and worked myself up over a period of time on my own to accepting the largest bead, the went on to something closer to my own size.
I guess it also depends upon whether your going to use a smooth or textured attachment to the strap on as well. |
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"Hi all, after some advice.. what’s the best technique to anally train someone? And when using a strap on, what’s the best lube? Many thanks x "
Numbing lube is a great starter and be gentle and no big dinners prior to fun! |
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Never really anally trained anyone but being a bit larger you have to spend as much, if not more time warming someone up anally than vaginal. Maybe think what you like and apply it if pegging?
For me with women at least, having them relaxed makes anal easier so clit/vag orgasm/stimulation helps before moving around, (so if you're thinking about pegging OP, the same might apply). After that, maybe the first obvious is rimming, with good amounts of lube and increasing number of fingers. Nothing needs to be too rough or too deep. Toys need to be slim, and not too long as you can work your way up. Same applies with your vigour.
As a thought, go softer gel toys with a wider girth as you get more confident, as harder ones don't mould anally. I'd think too there is little point doing it once a week or once a month - maybe aim for once every 2nd or 3rd day where you explore but don't necessarily focus crazily on it (fingers one day, plugs the next, then fingers, then dildos, then plugs, then dildos - repeat - you don't throw the kitchen sink in first off). People have mentioned plugs but be a little careful as keeping them in for a fair amount of time without being moved makes them harder to pull out as you may know. (Just my thoughts)
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