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First time bi experience?

By *ickingdelight OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes, bedford

Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Equally not looking for a wham bang and a fair amount of guys on here are either seeking a wham bang meet, have 0-5% of their profile filled in or are just over the top with sending dick pics and fairly off putting messages.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

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By *hinyRavensWingMan over a year ago

Hastings

I was eighteen when I stayed over at a friends house and shared a bed. My pal reached over when I was asleep and wanked me slowly until I came.

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

My OH didn't have a clue he was bi until we spoke about swinging, he was as straight as they come. I asked him one day during one of many conversations about swinging would he ever suck a cock? I didn't get the reaction that I maybe expected!

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

So time went on and we found a guy on fab that was similar..had never done it and wanted to try, although I'm not sure his motives were actually genuine as it turned out to be very one way....anyway he came round and after alot of procrastination, nerves etc etc, he decided to suck this guys cock, I left them to it so they didn't feel pressured..they were in there for a good 40 mins deciding who would go first lol..anyway he shouted me through and I found the guy with his trousers down and my hubby sucking his cock...he loved it and found it a massive turn on, amd since then has sucked a further 4 cocks and has been sucked by those men, but that's as far as he will go with a man just now...he has no intrest in kissing a man on the lips, or anal...just mutual oral and wanking but he said in time the anal thing might change but certainly won't be kissing a man on the lips...ever..so I guess the moral of this is...you will only know how you feel when your in that moment, do it once and if you hate it..you wont do it again...but if you love it then crack on and have some fun....and lots of it...Good luck.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS over a year ago

Farnborough

My first experience was with another ‘girl’ a number of years ago. We enjoyed each other orally… it did seem very strange, and I will be honest I did gag quite a bit!! - lol

I had never thought of myself as anything but straight up to that point, and for a number of weeks afterwards felt a huge sense of guilt … that I’d actually ‘crossed the line’ as it were. I slowly overcame the guilt / hang ups, which I felt a number of times in the early days.

R x

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By *ornym66Man over a year ago

Col /ips

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple over a year ago

West Yorkshire

At 17 at a sleepover

My mate wanked and sucked me off

It was beautiful

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By *ornym66Man over a year ago

Col /ips

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

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By *ickedwillyCouple over a year ago

Bangor

Playing with a couple and he suddenly sucked my cock so returned the favour on his cock and been addicted ever since.

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan over a year ago

Derby

I’m the same, wanting to try it for the first time with a couple so it’s not the direct man on man, it can happen more naturally as part of the fun….but that’s not been easy to find!

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By *ickingdelight OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes, bedford

Thanks all for the responses particularly footprints; really summed up some of the feelings, thoughts, concerns and most likely the internal ‘taboo’ thoughts.

Agree with a couple and natural ‘play’ is probably the easiest but unlikely. Equally not wanting to overpromise and underdeliver so to speak.

Good to hear it’s not just me though which is nice to see/read

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By *ichard CockMan over a year ago

Ashby De La Zouch

I gave always been into balls and really wanted to meet another guy so we could play with each others balls squeezing pulling, some modest hit. It was only through the Internet 20 years ago that I was able to find a guy looking for the same. We agreed to meet up and get stripped off and then touch each other.

My first time erect with another man and able to touch. Taking hold of his hard cock and wanking him was awesome, it felt so different from my own. At the end of the session we wanked each other off.

From then I gradually wanted to do more and more and eventually had full sex with guys.

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By *omRachCouple over a year ago

Wirral

It was with a very good friend of mine who was also our 1st MFM partner.

Rach wasn't present at the time and we were just watching porn together and we both happened to be naked together.

I had always thought that he had a great looking cock and I just wondered what it would feel and taste like - so I asked if I could try and he said yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d been curious about sucking a guy off for ages and then found myself in Adam and Eves club one Friday with just one other guy.

We were wanking next to each other so I just took the plunge and asked. He said yes so I went in and OMG what a rush

It felt amazing to have a guy in my mouth and I realised I’m actually not too bad at it ?? Then another guy came in who enjoyed watching so I wanked him off. think it was his first guy experience too.

Had plenty of meets since both in clubs and homes but it’s a real challenge to just find a nice guy and not some “fuck my man pussy” idiot.

Haven’t graduated to anal yet but very very keen to try.

Biggest thing is it’s nice to have options in a club where we all know it’s always 10 blokes to 1 woman if we’re lucky

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By *eyeYCouple over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Mr is yet to experience any bi play, although he's very open to it in the right scenario and I am aching to see it happen!!

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By *pentoall555Man over a year ago

benfleet

I had been curious for a while so when I saw an advert for a massage for my guy that was in the shop window when cards used to be put in windows, I phoned up and we set a date and time. The massage was great. It was great to have his hands over me. Then he started to touch my balls, cock and moved his body to put his cock in my mouth

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By *ingle ex cuckMan over a year ago

chester

My first experience was lying underneath my then girlfriend when her fb took her doggy style

I had never met him before but new about him as I dropped he off at his and picked her up many times.

My job on this occasion was to lick her as he fucked her .

His cock was too long to slip out of her but he kept doing it purposely to let it fall over my face , I think he was testing me

Until he eventually forced it into my mouth for a second .

I was too submissive to reject and he repeated and repeated forcing me to suck a him a bit longer each time before he filled her pussy.

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By *J_SpiceyCouple over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn, NORFOLK. Not

Is it because we are told sex with the same gender is wrong?

Is it then the porn industry exposed woman on woman playing and how horny that was for the majority of its target audience (men)?

Is it then man on man is described as gay rather than bisexual, yet two women is they are exploring their bi side.

I like girl girl play, but need cock to be sexually satisfied.

I like bi guys over straight guys sexually within swinging groups. I think there is a confidence about them and not selfish within play. More adventurous and playful.

Bi play is not for everyone. But, If it turns you on thinking about it, or it turns your partner on, which in turn, turns you on…you may just find you have been missing out on some very horny fun just because we were told it was wrong when growing up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine was as a teen with a couple older boys, remembered as a fun time and kept me curious to the point of wanting to explore again.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan over a year ago

Portsmouth

My introduction came when I was 20. Cuck in his late 60's cleaning me off after I'd fucked his mrs.

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By *lippersXXXMan over a year ago

North Central london

My first time was in a public toilet many years ago. Me 16 he in his 50s. I realised this guy was ogling me. I never had any inkling for cock. But something stirred and I got aroused. I got wanked and gladly took him in my mouth. It was heaven I must admit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was eighteen when I stayed over at a friends house and shared a bed. My pal reached over when I was asleep and wanked me slowly until I came. "

That is so incredibly hot. Did the experience change your tastes moving forward? Unlock something in you? What was your initial reaction?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it because we are told sex with the same gender is wrong?

Is it then the porn industry exposed woman on woman playing and how horny that was for the majority of its target audience (men)?

Is it then man on man is described as gay rather than bisexual, yet two women is they are exploring their bi side.

I like girl girl play, but need cock to be sexually satisfied.

I like bi guys over straight guys sexually within swinging groups. I think there is a confidence about them and not selfish within play. More adventurous and playful.

I’ve always known I’ve had a bi side just never acted on it or had the chance to. I remember crushing hard on a girl at college x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The curiosity was there for me to have abit of mutual oral with a guy from in my 20s, so about 15 years ago i met a guy through a chat site o2 chat i think it was who was local and looking for the same, so went round to his and we both just got out cocks out and started wanking eachother then sucking, i was so nervous but once i got started my cock was solid and cum like a fountain

its something i really enjoy now, and may giving a guy some anal in the future

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By *ammy_xMan over a year ago

Reading

I've not had any experiences to date but am a little curious.

Very interesting reading all these experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had a by chance meet up in woods for mutual masturbating. Really eye opening!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still waiting for mine to happen

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

The difficulties that some/many men present in their profiles here is true for everyone wishing to find and select them. But it is possible to find some who stand out.

I'd recommend focusing on what it is that you want to explore with a man, so you can find the right match. It's very common that a lot of guys will enjoy something sexual with another man but have zero attraction to him. A lot of bi couples get fully straight men pretending to have bi interests, so they get access to the woman. This is obviously a big issue for them.

I think you could consider having a very brief meet with 1 or more guys, so that you at least get through that barrier. You could also consider bi events, so you get to know others and potentially have some action. Luton is 1 possible place to look, that's fairly close. A little further afield, VanillaAlternative and other clubs have great events. Some clubs demand membership, others don't.

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By *ansexualPandaMan over a year ago

Your Bed

I've spoken about this a number of times before. I really should write a post in the stories and fantasies about it.

A long story short: went home with a girl and her mate. Got fucked with a strap-on for the first time and liked it. The following morning her boyfriend came home and instead of beating me up, he fucked me in front of her and her mate while they played with each other.

I was pretty young and it opened my eyes to other sexual possibilities.

My suggestion to see if the bi-life is for you is to go to some bisexual club nights or a male spa. You'll soon know if it really is or isn't for you when confronted with the reality of being with another man.

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By * New YorkieMan over a year ago

Leeds

Met a bi couple here 6 years ago. Slowly got more comfortable the more bi couples I met. I do prefer bi couple mmf to str8 ones now.

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By *ure2PureMan over a year ago

Suffolk

Met a guy with similar background and experience to me in my early 30's. We agreed to have some mutual fun. Was absolutely petrified at first, but as soon as the boxers came off and I was confronted with his cock the nerves went. Been playing bi ever since. On the scale I'm like 70 % women 30% guys..

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By *ilver_StarMan over a year ago

Southam

I had my first experiences with a friend when we were in our teens. Talking about wanking led to showing one another how we did it. This led to mutual masturbation which was really erotic. I still get that sense of erotic excitement when wanking with other guys as there is something shared that is explicit.

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By *ppydayzzMan over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

Met a guy in his car supposedly to become wank buddies, first time I’d done that. Thinking it might just be a one off when he suggested we wank eachother off I thought why not just for the experience and soon we were sucking haha

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

If you find that certain couple where you've been catching to a while and all get on . That would be a good start... trust without feeling presured or embarrassed

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By *llo_alloMan over a year ago

London

I find it odd that 50% of the guys that contact me have ‘straight’ on their profile, but then say I’m bi really…. Likewise 90% of couples have bi females and only 10% bi males on their profile

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By *achel SmythTV/TS over a year ago

Farnborough

"I find it odd that 50% of the guys that contact me have ‘straight’ on their profile, but then say I’m bi really…. Likewise 90% of couples have bi females and only 10% bi males on their profile

‘Real men’ …. Clearly frightened to admit what they really are … seen it all before!

R x

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By *achel SmythTV/TS over a year ago

Farnborough

I love the ones that are straight, and part of a couple …. but the wife isn’t playing currently and wants to meet!!

…. or couple where the wife contacts me and asks if I will meet and play with her partner … she wants to arrange it as a surprise for him.

Bless ‘em!! …. ROFL!!

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By *oupletobewatched99Couple over a year ago

north west

We’re the same. Dying to see D sucking cock

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By *un guy 2020Man over a year ago

near you

Was in a mmf she wanted her hubby to suck my cock she was good fuck and wanted to fuck her again so thought fuck it and have the go ahead for her hubby to suck my cock as she sat on my face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to meet at Couple, do you suck dick for my first time at front of the wife

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

first bi experience for me (Liz) was a friend who lived in the next street. Swimming pool changing room, it was normal for us to dry each other with the towels but one day we both realised we were both getting rather excited... thought we better behave in a public area so rushed home and played most of the afternoon... it became a regular thing after that until the parents found out and made it clear it had to stop.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really xx

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Really xx"

yup.

Still talk with her today,

some 50 years later

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By *ogzzMan over a year ago

plymouth

Loved sucking cock for the 1st time x

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By *heswanMan over a year ago

Mansfield

Many moons ago when I was 16 I used to babysitt for a couple from across the road,

They would come home pissed and I sucked his cock on many occasions x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi sorry

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By *ndtheswingersMan over a year ago

colchester

A friend told me about Chatroulette. I used to spend hours on there chatting hoping to find girls while avoiding blokes who were just wanking.

I realised I quite enjoyed watching, then wanking with them.

After a few months I decided that I really wanted to try and wank and suck someone else.

I met a bloke on another site, we met, watched some porn and he asked if I was ready to touch him.

I told him that was why I was there for. Within a few minutes I was sucking my first cock in my mid 40s!

I love mmf meets as much for the cock as for the girl x

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By *dward_TeagueMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

My first was in a public toilet, one of those old underground Victorian ones, all cold tiles and porcelain. I’d been to a cinema in Birmingham that showed soft porn, think confessions of a window cleaner - they were tame really - and on my walk back to the bus stop I saw the toilets and my teenage horn made me go down the steps and into a cubicle.

I shut the door and started to wank. I was oblivious to everything else until a voice from above my head asked if I wanted a hand, I said yes so I let an older guy who looked like a bank manager or solicitor into the cubicle and he sucked my cock.

I became a regular visitor to those toilets and graduated from being sucked to wanking another cock before sucking one. It feels fantastic and I love the pulse of a hard cock just before they cum.

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By *eadjeyecMan over a year ago

Bucks/London

I’ve not had the experience yet but curious about trying it

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By *immySplashMan over a year ago

Coventry

I started sucking cock a few years ago and very much enjoyed it. I was extremely curious and went for it. I've never gone further than a bj but am willing to try. Just very nervous

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By *umplayerMan over a year ago

Chester

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that"

I’m exactly like this too, wife and I have spoken about swinging and we had mff experiences but recently we spoke about me sucking cock and the thought really turns me on, but only in a mmf scenario and definitely no kissing! I don’t feel attracted to guys at all but I would love to suck a nice cock

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By *irwolf20Man over a year ago

Nuneaton

My first time was giving and receiving a blowjob with a guy over 20years ago. I was walking home after a late night lock-in at my local pub and this lad stops me asks me the time, then out of blue asks if I wanted a blowjob.. I laughed it off & said no & walked off... then I just thought why the hell not . So I turned and went after him and we went behind some bushes and he gave me my first bi blowjob and I returned the favour. Over the years I more or less forgot about it & never did anything like that again till 2019 and while talking to the woman I was seeing about fantasies, i recalled it, So for my 50th, she arrange a MMF with a mutual friend, as she knew it was something i wanted to experience again. after that we set up a joint account on here and both had some fun meets.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple over a year ago

Preston

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

Very similar to us, good luck op x

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By *achel SmythTV/TS over a year ago

Farnborough

"I love the ones that are straight, and part of a couple …. but the wife isn’t playing currently and wants to meet!!

…. or couple where the wife contacts me and asks if I will meet and play with her partner … she wants to arrange it as a surprise for him.

Bless ‘em!! …. ROFL!! "

This is the latest one from a couple where the man is straight!!! …. and the lady bi-curious!!

‘You l@@king to meet a couple for fun??

Wife wants to see a guy or TV suck my cock for starters....’ I do smile

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By *ornagainchristianMan over a year ago

all over the UK

I’m the same, not attracted to guys but like the idea of fun. That’s why I look for wank meets so we can both flock through pics of hot girls we know or watch porn and both blow our loads over it

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By *oomerangbobMan over a year ago

stanhope

If and when I find a bi couple to have such an experience I will say what it was like… don’t hold your breath though

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By *achel SmythTV/TS over a year ago

Farnborough

"If and when I find a bi couple to have such an experience I will say what it was like… don’t hold your breath though

It is lovely!

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By *rontmanMan over a year ago

Derby and often London

I can’t relate to that, I was ideally looking for a hot couple myself as was too nervous to meet a guy 1 on 1, however one faithful night about 2 years ago I happened to post a couple of pics on here, I was soon complimented by a guy and we got talking, had had a few drinks so I was certainly feeling frisky, and a little more brave, turned out we was in the same hotel! Next thing he was in my room sucking and wanking me, i reciprocated and sealed my first load, very much enjoyed it and have now had about 5 more experiences to similar effect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can i suggest you visit a gay sauna. If it happens then go with the flow. If it doesnt then you will know. That was my 1st experiance and althow i didnt play then i knew i wanted to go back. It was probably my 3rd visit that i played. And found out i loved it. Cant keep me away now

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By *oomerangbobMan over a year ago

stanhope

"If and when I find a bi couple to have such an experience I will say what it was like… don’t hold your breath though

It is lovely!

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then I shall look forward to it

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By *ickingdelight OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes, bedford

I can understand why guys have ‘straight’ yet want to explore, as they may not be sure but open to exploring. No different to straight girl’s typical on a night out that start kissing their mate.

I have mine as bi curious but like many not interested in kissing or sexual attraction but sexually curious to explore.

Again nice to see so many in similar boat though. And 100% agree with the statement of some guys on here come across as overbearing had many a message which is literally along lines of ‘will suck you off now’ not even a hi! Haha

Had a bad experience in a sauna when I was 19 had similar mindset, but it was practically empty. Enjoyed naked sauna/pool almost like a naturist retreat. And an old guy got too excited that he was going to try fucking a bi/straight guy he came in a condom as he put it on. He got embarrassed and left quickly

But felt like a piece of meat in the sauna so wasn’t a fan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We went a gangbang party n I’d ad initial thoughts of going with a woman before but never acted on them. I always preferred men. Anyway at the party I went with a woman hubby n her mine n wen we were upstairs we just kinda started kissing n that led to more.

It wasnt bad but prefer dick lol so if it occurred again I wouldn’t stop it but equally I’m not looking

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By *hisismeXXXMan over a year ago

Welsh Wales

Was a long time ago now!

I’d been involved in sexual antics, involving cross dressing and swapping partners etc with my ex, was single at the start of the century, found a site that some may remember, Swing 2 Us, and created my first single male profile.

Open minded and curious, I was having some success, when I had a message off a couple from Porthcawl around the same age about 15 miles away. We got chatting, they were up front about looking for bi males and I just thought why not try it, if I don’t like it I just won’t do it again.

I told them it would be my first time trying bi so they promised to take it easy on me!

Met them in Porthcawl for a social, we got on well and they invited me back to theirs. Mrs kicked things off, we were naked snogging when husband asked did I mind it he sucked my cock? I gave him the go ahead and to be honest he was brilliant and the whole experience was mind blowing.

The two of them really made it easy and a great experience for me, almost fantasy like, focussing on me. They clearly got off on that.

A bit later, after they’d seen to me, she was sucking him off and asked if I wanted a taste. She held it for me, feeding me, guiding me, and I took to it better than I thought he would.

Eventually, together, we brought him off over her face. I didn’t get brave enough to taste his cum etc at that point but we met again a few times and before long I was a happy cum slut on clean up duties.

It was a great experience with two fantastic people and certainly lit a spark for me. Never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi xx

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By *ndi37Man over a year ago

Manchester

My first experience was with a straight guy I used to work with. We were both very flirty people with everyone. One day on our break, he was going in the loo and I made a joke 'do you need a hand' and he said yes. From that day on for over a year I used to give him a regular BJ. Got me addicted to cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had two or three meets from fab with guys for them to suck me. That lead to my partner and I inviting a guy who had sucked me over for an MMF. He was the first guy I sucked in return and that was when I changed my profile from straight to bi.

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"I’m the same, wanting to try it for the first time with a couple so it’s not the direct man on man, it can happen more naturally as part of the fun….but that’s not been easy to find! "

You will be hard pushed to find a couple that will let a man into the dynamic who says they want to "try" it but never have, alot amd I mean alotnof men try this one, we have been stung in the past so we don't invite men who have never tried it in.

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

My hubby will look at a guy and think I could suck his cock lol. But he isn't attracted to them like he is women..he has pondered meeting a guy for solo mutual sucking and wanting but he has decided its not for him at the moment, that might change so he is only happy to take part if all 3 or more are playing, I think there should be a category for bi playful for these scenarios in fab. But we stay away from the guys who say they want to try it because they are curious 9.times put of 10 they are just trying to get into my knickers.

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By *rontmanMan over a year ago

Derby and often London

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

I relate to that, I’ve actually had 4 or 5 one on ones now to be fair, but I can honysay I’ve not been “attracted” to the guys in that way, don’t get me wrong I’m choosy and would just get naked with any old bloke so to speak, but I do enjoy cock and the experience of a guy sucking/playing with me, I’d even fuck and be fucked at some point, but the fact still remains I’m not attracted to guys! And yes I’m sure you do get the guys trying it on loads lol, what you should do is meat on a guys only play while you watch scenario, that will out the guys only interested in pussy!!

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Thanks all for the responses particularly footprints; really summed up some of the feelings, thoughts, concerns and most likely the internal ‘taboo’ thoughts.

Agree with a couple and natural ‘play’ is probably the easiest but unlikely. Equally not wanting to overpromise and underdeliver so to speak.

Good to hear it’s not just me though which is nice to see/read"

Your welcome, it can be scary territory, bit you have to find someone that will understand or be in the same situation as yourself.

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

Oh yes, we have proposed this to many men lol, would you be happy to have half an hour or so with my husband without me in the room, most of them soon disappear lol, bit also many men think it would be easier to do it for the first time with the female present and to be honest in reality for some men they just can't get and stay hard, causing them embarrassment and awkward, but this also happens when they stupidly say they are bi, and that they have had experiences yet they can't get or stay hard..we had to learn the hard way lol.

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By *arry HornhillMan over a year ago

Outside Belfast

I was in a gay club and an absolute tanned Australian, 10/10 hunk had smiled at me a few times during the night. So I go to the toilet and go into a cubicle and push the door behind me. But before I lock it, Australian hunk pushes the door open and comes in behind me...

"What are you doing pal?"

"I've seen you look at me tonight."

"Yeah you're a very good looking guy but I'm not gay."

"How do you know? Have you ever tried it before?"

I pause and think about it and don't really have an answer for that so we both smile and he says,

"Wanna try it now? You might like it."

So in the moment with this stunner, I thought fuck it and kissed him for quite some time. I enjoyed it but as soon as he started reaching for my cock, I instantly backed away and was like wooooo no thank you. I didn't want it so it was confirmation in my head that gay sex does absolutely nothing for me. I can fancy and appreciate guys but that's the height of it.

It was a nice moment and gone in a flash as he left and never seen him again. Forever in the memory though haha

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By *rontmanMan over a year ago

Derby and often London

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

Haha yes another good way to see who’s really up for it, I think the idea of having time alone in another room is pretty hot too

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By *ouplecu2015Couple over a year ago

Reading

I was 16 years old in a public toilet with 16 years old boy

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By *eautifully-TwistedWoman over a year ago

Telford

I love having sex with women

I prefer a couple scenario as I do love a cock haha. Toys are great and fun but they don't feel the same.

Women are lovely to be with though,very different to men and I like the contrast.

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By *ungry guy 2021Man over a year ago

Ambleside

Mine was in my teens with a school friend lads watching porn together led to wanking together. Then next ended up with my mate sucking me I'd never thought of it before but once I tried sucking cock I new it was for me .

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By *orthernMonkey67Man over a year ago

Rhondda Cynon Taff

My first time was with a couple, she asked if she could watch her fella suck my cock, i was really relaxed with them so said yes... It REALLY turned me on seeing the look in her eyes as her man sucked my cock, i asked if i could suck him... Her eyes lit up & i found it a huge turn on sucking a nice cock... Waz amazing & apparently im good at it, 2nd time was another couple, a bi couple as i wanted to experience bi fun again... Was gutted though as he was tiny, i mean REALLY tiny.... Lol... Found out im a bit of a size slut.... Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love having sex with women

I prefer a couple scenario as I do love a cock haha. Toys are great and fun but they don't feel the same.

Women are lovely to be with though,very different to men and I like the contrast.

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hi

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

Haha yes another good way to see who’s really up for it, I think the idea of having time alone in another room is pretty hot too

It really is, infact I can safely say that feom all the msgs we've had from guys saying they want to Tey or that they are bi none of them have actually said yes that would be fine lol...it really does sniff out the rats..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am fine with it

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

"I was eighteen when I stayed over at a friends house and shared a bed. My pal reached over when I was asleep and wanked me slowly until I came. "

Mine was the same. Then another time he sucked my cock.

We never spoke about it and I always pretended to be asleep.

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By *ony 529Man over a year ago

coventry

Obviously, because I dress they progressed from there …, but the first time I was with a couple, and the wife held her husbands, cock, and said … do you know do you want to? Very special couple, and a lovely way to start my journey

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By *rontmanMan over a year ago

Derby and often London

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

This how I am, have been sucked but I think I wanna try cock suckin that's it no kissing mite do anal do know yet on that

Haha yes another good way to see who’s really up for it, I think the idea of having time alone in another room is pretty hot too

What shame you’re so far away, I’d have been happy be a test subject

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

"Mr is yet to experience any bi play, although he's very open to it in the right scenario and I am aching to see it happen!!

I find it very much a turn on when in a threesome we all play together both sucking hubbys cock and vice versa

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

Mine was the 'teen sleepover' experience too! My cousin was staying over and we were to sleep in the living room. We were sneakily watching Eurotrash on TV in the dark after everyone else had gone to bed.

I could see him with his hand in his pants, enjoying Lolo Ferarris boobs so I thought I'd do the same. A minute or so later, I felt his hand slide into my pants and grab my cock. I returned the favour and we sat there wanking each other, not saying a word.

I think we both lasted less than a minute before coming in our pjs.

I pretty much repressed that encounter for the rest of my teens and 20s. 'gay' was still one of the harshest insults at that time. It wasn't until a year into swinging that it even occurred to me to be something I actually wanted to explore. There's a lot of social conditioning to dig through but it's a fun (if not a little confusing) journey!

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By *DecentGuy.Man over a year ago

West Bridgford

I remember when I was in my late teens I was watching some cum shot porn and realised that I actually quite liked the look of a guys shaven cock,

I eventually agreed to meet a guy who came over and ended up giving me a blow job and to be honest, at the time, I didn't like it, I wanted it to be over so I managed to cum and he went, weeks went on and I grew more and more curious as to how he enjoyed doing it, took me a year to build the courage up to sucking one myself, I've only had one guy release in my mouth and I nearly threw up, but the throbbing feeling between my lips was amazing, it felt great that I could give a guy the pleasure I have when I'm cumming.

Since then. I've sucked a few guys and very much enjoyed it, but again, I'm strict in my tastes, has to be smooth shaven, not much pubes and smell clean.

Good luck with trying and I really hope you find someone understanding and patient with you to try with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in my mid twenties and met visiting men in their hotel rooms through Craigslist and vivastreet. Initially just lay back and let them suck/rim me before eventually meeting for mutual kissing, wanking and sucking. I've found I love it so much that I've subsequently had fully versatile bi sex in mm mmf and mmm scenarios several times.

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By *ackG1996Man over a year ago

Gateshead

Mine was in college, I was helping out at a open evening and I had just broke uo with my then GF. A guy in the year above was chatting too me about his gf and he said he was bi and is into sucking guys but no one knew. He offered and I said no at first, spoke to him a couple times after that and he would always jokingly offer and one day I was just mega horny and agreed so he sucked me in the college toilets and I started meeting him regularly after then for a bj when we had free lessons ir lunches together and he wasn't worh his gf. That was my first experience.

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By *azmar62Couple over a year ago

Hinckley

We’re a very open minded bisexual couple. We only play with guys who literally play 100% bi. If it’s a solo guy, he has to know that it’s no hole barred, we both love to suck cock and swallow every drop. As for bi couples, the approach has to be different, we always respect their boundaries. But always talk, if they’re genuine, they’ll always tell you what they want. Happy bifabbing xx

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By *ember101Man over a year ago

London

This is a fantastic thread.

Mine was in a back of a cab with a couple. All three of us on the back seat with the Mr’s hand down my pants and on my cock while I had my hand on his wife’s arse.

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By *ereforgigglesMan over a year ago

Scotland

I love these threads... Guaranteed to have me cumming as I read

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By * New YorkieMan over a year ago

Leeds

"I love these threads... Guaranteed to have me cumming as I read

I agree. Gets my mind racing, visualizing how you all started. Yumm Anyone need repeats?

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By *otleyMan over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

I have quite a lot of experience these days but still want to have a first fully bi MMF. My ideal scenario would be for me and the guy to be together in a room playing and the lady to walk in.

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By *andT1970Couple over a year ago

Worcester Park

We have both done it with the same sex .....Me ( the male) has probably sucked around 8-10 cocks,have a couple of regulars....I could never look at a man and fancy him but love Oral sex,being rimmed by one.....I've dobe it front on my GF and she loved it.

our next step is to share a big cock !

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By *aulhornyladMan over a year ago

Sunderland

You're both lucky to have found such an understanding partner

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By *ohn4567891122Man over a year ago

Mine was when I was 20, I had just split up with my gf.

I was sat in KFC and out of intrest put my bluetooth on. It can up a mobile number and just said txt me.

I was thought what the hell the shopnis full of hot collage females.

I sent the txt and went back to my fies lol. 2 mins later a txt came through saying "I am in the upstairs toilets if you want a bj" I txt back are you male or female?

2 mins later txt back saying "48 male and want to suck a hard cock".

I had never even thought about a nale sucking me, at this point my cock was rock hard, I wasnt from the area and though fuck it.

I went up and went in, one of the doors were close so I started to wash my hands then the door opend and he told me to come in.

He told me to stand on the toilet and pulled down my trousers.

I could not stop shaking, to this day its the best bj I have ever had, I came so hard it filled his mouth.

I felt so bad and dirty after it, but since that day on I have met a few guys

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By *tr4455Man over a year ago

nr wigan

I've forgot what it's like to suck a cock ha ha .. It's been that long ago lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yet to have mine

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By *rooMan over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Yet to have mine

Am sure when you find the right other you will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still waiting to suck my first cock

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By *urganguyMan over a year ago

around

"I love these threads... Guaranteed to have me cumming as I read

Also here enjoying the read

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Hi OP.

I think his answer shocked him as much as it did me, he said he would give it a go once and then if he didn't like it then its not for him obv.

Can identify.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I Jay am curious orally, as S is with a fem.

We hope one day to bring a guy in with us.

Will update if we ever get that far lol

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By *otleyMan over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

My first actual time was as an experimental youngster. Then after uni got the urge after chatting in the yahoo chat rooms. Found a guy very near by so we arranged to meet and ended up have a lovely oral session. Been hooked again ever since.

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago

"Intrigued to hear others and their first time bi experience.

It’s something I’m looking to explore, but have the whole nerves, ambiguity and slight unease.

Not helped that I’m not as sexually turned on vs female anatomy.

Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience

Much the same as myself, really getting turned on by the idea of it but worried about a few things. Wife finding out for one although she might like it! Ideally like it to be with someone the same as me as in limited experience of very safe/careful. Don't really want a promiscuous guy, risk of disease etc

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By *mooth4uMan 52 weeks ago

Kings kynn

I personally love bi sex , my ex initially was all for it we had mmf , mmff , and other combinations. She got pissed off as sometimes the guy didn’t want to shag her , it eventually lead to us splitting up .

It’s fucked my head up and she’s now with a guy that wanted to shag her daughter and she knows that

Life never goes how you expect , my confidence is shot to hell and I doubt I will ever have sex again , sorry for the depressing tale but it’s my life currently

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By *mooth4uMan 52 weeks ago

Kings kynn

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By *arc678Man 49 weeks ago

Wicklow

Mine was in an adult cinema in soho in the 80’s. Guy sat beside me and after a while I could feel his hand moving onto my leg. I didn’t do anything. Soon his hand moved to my trousers fly…my heart was racing too much to stop him. He then unzipped my fly and moved his hand in….I froze completely as he went inside my jocks….I was only semi but I came very very quickly….no words spoken….I quickly left …huge adrenaline rush…

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

A fb and I both wanted a bi MMF - me as my first experience with a guy, she wanted to watch us. So we met a bi guy for a MMF.

We started off with us in our boxers undressing her, kissing her neck, playing with her tits.

Then I left him doing that, dropped to my knees and slid down his boxers and started to suck on his lovely thick cock. It was amazing ??

We took turns sucking each other while she wanked, then we both fucked her.

In the end I came in his mouth, while he came in hers. She didn't swallow it, but came over and kissed me, sharing his cum with me.

Bloody fantastic introduction to bi life for me and a hot 3sum too!

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple 49 weeks ago

Bristol

My first experience was the classic teenage school friend experiment, as many have described here.

Staying over at his, talking about girls we fancied and sneakily watching porn.

We would help each other out while the other covered their eyes.

That progressed to some blowjobs (just to see what it felt like) etc

No emotion whatsoever, just horny lads doing it as it felt good.

Several years before I thought about doing anything again.

Would play with toys and watch trans and bi porn.

When with Mrs R I always thought that if I wanted her to try anything sexually I would need to be up for doing it myself, otherwise I would feel hypocritical.

So before asking for anal I would play with a toy. Before asking for her to finish me in her mouth I would try my cum, that sort of thing.

So by the time we came to swinging I was quite open-minded and was past the usual hangups and curiosity meant I wanted to try a bi guy in an MMF.

Kissing was a big hurdle, I get why guys aren't keen but when I thought it over it just seemed totally stupid that I would suck a guy but not kiss! I'm past that now though and open to it.

I don't meet guys alone though, but then again I don't meet ladies alone either as we always play together.

Last hurdle now is probably full sex with a guy, be that giving or receiving. I've had the strap! But never a real cock.

Probably some way away, but I think it will eventually happen as my brain will be curious until i do!

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

I was 17 - my first relationship was with a girl, so it just developed naturally there.

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By *mizhereMan 49 weeks ago

Thame area

I was on holiday with older cousin sharing a bed

He showed me a porn mag and we discussed the women

Naturally both got excited and he suggested we play with each other

I’d never done it before

After a coupon of nights we were sucking each other off

I didn’t play again until I was 27 with my ex when we got into swinging God I wasted too many years lol

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By *ryton 123TV/TS 33 weeks ago

Chatham

I join not so long ago, I occasionally crossdress and thought about play with other cocks since I was young so decided to try it and I'm glad I did.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple 33 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

D*unken sleepover at 17

It was beautiful

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan 33 weeks ago

Rotherham

After working up to 24/7 chastity in my first cuckold relationship my gf encouraged me to fucklick and suck her bulls.

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By *irexMan 33 weeks ago

Hertford

I was late 30s and used to stay in London overnight for work, a guy contacted me on a forum and I met him at his flat - i’ll always remember two girls stood outside his flat, who said ‘what a waste’ as I entered! After introducing ourselves we got naked and he rimmed me for a while, which was a massive turn on. Then he sat on the sofa and took all my 8” cock in his mouth and gave me the best sucking I’d ever had.

After that we alternated between him sucking me and me fucking him, he wanted to swallow my cum each time and I gave him 6 good loads which he loved. I saw him a couple of more times but he was too ‘sub’ for me and after he wanted me to piss over him and in his mouth I called it a day.

I’ve now moved on to getting more engaged with a partner but haven’t yet managed the deep throat skills he demonstrated!

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By *ohnboy64Man 33 weeks ago

Blackpool

Mine was around 20 years ago in a B&B while working away. Landlord walked in on me while I was showering one evening. I had asked him for some more tea bags for my room. Anyway, he's wearing a short bathrobe and stands chatting to me while I'm stark naked in the shower. I actually felt quite turned on,so just stepped out the shower and let him have a good look while I got dried.After a minute or so he opened his robe to reveal a big fully erect shaved penis. Ended up sucking each others cocks on the bed. Still don't really fancy men but I do enjoy mutual wanking and cock sucking with another "clean" guy. Probably sucked at least 10 now.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan 33 weeks ago

The wrong side of the tracks.

Was bored at home as a 19 year old saw the adverts for gay sex lines on sky tv. Thought it was worth a go and better than just wanking to MTV

Decided to give it a go, a guy in the next town about 30 contacted me so I went over to his. He was wearing trackie bottoms and a shirt. I sat on his sofa and he pulled down his trackies and I went down on him. I went down for ages and he came in my mouth. I swallowed it then he sucked me off finishing by having me cum on his arse.

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By *orthampton jamesMan 33 weeks ago

Northampton

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By *dawkesMan 33 weeks ago

Gosport

At age 14 friend and I were reading girly mags and we got our cocks out and started wanking. Very quickly with in a few days iended up wanking him then sucking him loved the bi side of things ever since. Ever since have always loved the feel of a cock in me.

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By *angler 321Man 33 weeks ago

Hereford

It was about 18 years ago, it had never dawned on me before to even try anything with a guy, but I found porn became quite boring and I'd spend hours looking for something different to get me off, then I stubbled across a bi mmf video, it was awesome! So then I thought, I wonder what it's like to suck a cock. So I plucked up the courage to go to a gay sauna, and the rest is history!

I still to this day don't particularly fancy men, but really appreciate the sight of a nice cock, and certainly like to indulge, especially in a mmf scenario.

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By *cnugatugMan 33 weeks ago

Chatham

My first time bi experience was with a couple was incredibly nervous on my way there got there the hubby made a cuppa we all sat down chatted drank our teas and then it came to the fun at first I wasnt sure of where to be but after about 5 minutes of me just watching awkwardly the female motioned for me to come and join in I nervously started by caressing her tits I all of a sudden feel a hand on my manhood thinking it was her I was wrong and it was him stroking it he then moved from between her legs started sucking my cock as the woman and I started kissing things just happened naturally after that still would love to re visit that night as it was genuinely incredible

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By *iverscuMan 32 weeks ago

Berkshire

This thread is incredibly horny!

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By *usie pTV/TS 32 weeks ago

taunton

I must have been curious most of my life spent at least 30 years peeping through glory holes in those old roadside toilets but for some reason the cocks looked massive thought mine was the smallest ever lol, any way after several years of no sex with my wife I got up the courage and poked my cock through one, someone touched it and I came instantly, I ran out of there so ashamed of myself swearing never to do such a thing again but of course a few days later I was back.

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By *ony 529Man 32 weeks ago

coventry

Omg I am loving this as well. Takes me back.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple 32 weeks ago

Hyde

So, before my current partner (Mrs J) I never even thought about being with a guy in any way shape or form, that was until we started talking about swinging and the conversations it stems. During our first couple meet up after he fucked his partner he pulled out and put his cock in my mouth and ended up using my throat to cum down. Short lived.

Fast forward to a couple of months ago, we had a Bi male around. While Mrs J was tied, blindfolded on the bed with earphones in... I had him come in and I recorded myself sucking him and making him hard by her side without her knowing until he left. Later on in the evening he came on both of our faces and I tasted more of his cum than Mrs did. Definitely turns me on being orally bi but I've never been any further than that.

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By *itaminMan 32 weeks ago

Felistowe

I was 17/18. he was like 60... He had the biggest cock I've seen, still not seen bigger since, the girth on it was something to behold.

He was a neighbour of a friend, I was house sitting, he came by to borrow something and it was obvious he was swinging for the other side.

He said he had a little budgie in his apartment, would I like to see, I did. While saying hello to the bird in its cage, he had dropped his shorts and boxers behind me...

Turning around, I saw it and jeez I was shocked lol... Couldn't help but want to get closer to it and feel it etc...

I hadn't thought much of other guys cocks up till then. But it's an experience I'll never forget, really wish I had made an effort to visit him again now. Sadly at the time, after the fact, I felt guilty or embarrassed maybe by it all. I don't know why.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple 32 weeks ago

Hyde

Sounds like a good way to be introduced to it

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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago

Sounds like you need to get off fab and go on a 'date' with a guy! Or plan to go to a club which is hosting a bi-night and talk to guys and couples there - with at least the intention of being with a group of people who you trust and feel comfortable with to 'see where things'.

I am sorry to hear about your whole nerves, ambiguity and unease about it - I have felt that way and so have many other guys, and truth be told you are going to feel more nervous.

And you are absolutely right about the fair amount of guys on fab on here - although you are not alone... I am pretty sure all guys and girls on here have similar experiences... messages with both "hi" as the subject and the message body (eurghhh the worst)... repetitive messages if you don't reply within a minute... then unsolicited photos of a dick just over a toilet (okay actually this is just the worst)... or literally a "meet now or never" attitude, which ofc comes with threats and abuse.

Why do men have to make it so hard! (no pun intended).

As for my first experience? I was a young curious 19 year old who wanted to explore at least my feelings and downloaded an app one evening. I would chat to guys, then delete the app, then re-install. I am sure we all know that approach aha. I thought I was very discreet, never gave anything away, had a faceless body photo (a classic). One evening I was recognised by my ex-gf's dad

. He ended up picking me up that evening I gave him head in his car. Met him a few more times, post-breakup, but fizzled out with uni. Not the best intro haha.

But since then, amazing sex and meets and times with women, men, couples.. The main advice I would give from my experiences is that I have found being open and honest to myself and my interests have made me a lot happier and fulfilled with life

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By *oomerangbobMan 32 weeks ago

stanhope

Still waiting for mine

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS 32 weeks ago

Bristol.

"I was eighteen when I stayed over at a friends house and shared a bed. My pal reached over when I was asleep and wanked me slowly until I came. "

In a consensual way, naturally lol

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By *ister_EMan 32 weeks ago

Hayling Island

I was 20 and I was living with a cuckold couple. At first I would just make love to her and then leave for my be_room him to reclaim her. Gradually he started watching inside the room, then he slowly began getting involved at her instruction. Eventualy instead of leaving I would watch him licking her clean and then fucking her.

She was masterful in the way she manipulated us and before long he was licking her out as we fucked guiding me into her and cleaning my cock afterwards. And it was his job to suck me hard again after he'd had his sloppy seconds.

By the time we parted company I was fucking both of them and ocasionaly sucking him off for her pleasure.

It all progressed so inceimentaly and smoothly that I couldn't pinpoint the actual moment I discovered I was bi

I just know I went into that relationship thinking I was 100% str8 a d came out fucking guys and sucking cock

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By *heeky trucker100Man 32 weeks ago

barnsley

My first bi experience was with a childhood best friend

He was a bit of a stud and was on at least his third gf

I was very naive and shy had no interest in boys though I did wank like crazy thinking about girls.

We used to go wild camping about 8 of us been doing it since we was 12.

We shared a tent and had a lot of Buckfast and we got to talking about girls and he said he got off thinking about my Aunt I said your dick and mentioned the same about his sister.

Cant tell you guys how much I fancied hell loved her we all grew up together.

We must have fell asleep and later I woke up and I could hear him wanking

I wasn't turned on just curious I could see it was pitch black but he was moaning I said stop wanking about my Aunt he stopped and said he was thinking about my cock.

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By *ilkey69Man 32 weeks ago

Barnsley

We're friends from school.

Sat in his be_room looking at porn Mags.

He starts wanking and i did too he sucked me off and that was that.

He have been seeing each other ever since at every chance we get

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

It's something I have thought about for a long time. So this has been a interesting read. I've had some interest here on fab. Haven't leapt in yet though. Quite a lot of the Pvt messages, the way men approach making contact have been, well..A little too aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

Still waiting for mine….

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By *aked_fungiMan 30 weeks ago

reading

Hi all - so, I’m currently looking for my first bi experience but don’t seem to be having any joy what so ever. My messages either get deleted or just ignored with zero response.

So for some context- I am looking to pop my bi cherry with a couple with a bi male, I’ve tried many different approaches/messages but none seems to do the trick.

Any advice people can give would be greatly appreciated.

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By *dward_TeagueMan 30 weeks ago

wolverhampton

"Hi all - so, I’m currently looking for my first bi experience but don’t seem to be having any joy what so ever. My messages either get deleted or just ignored with zero response.

So for some context- I am looking to pop my bi cherry with a couple with a bi male, I’ve tried many different approaches/messages but none seems to do the trick.

Any advice people can give would be greatly appreciated.

Have you thought about attending a club on bi nights?

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By *orthampton jamesMan 30 weeks ago

Northampton

Be back later mmmmm

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By *aked_fungiMan 30 weeks ago

reading

I’ve not actually, I didn’t even know that was a thing, but will certainly look into that. Thank you

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By *artyboysomersetMan 30 weeks ago

frome

"I’ve not actually, I didn’t even know that was a thing, but will certainly look into that. Thank you "
I am in the same position and would love a chat

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By *ust RachelTV/TS 30 weeks ago

Eastbourne

My first experience was with another tgirl. We kissed each other, our hands exploring each other. Before I mafe the move to sit her down and wanted to suck her cock, I loved the feeling of her getting hard, how the head of her cock felt in my mouth. The feeling of it in my hand, as I stroked her.

I enjoyed her sucking my cock, that I nearly cam in her mouth.

Sadly due to me getting cramp in my hip, we couldn't fuck for very long. But it was a nice feeling to be filled by a cock.

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By *laytime432Man 30 weeks ago

Swindon

Great question. Id wanted to try giving head for years. Finally took the plunge, and omg never looked back. Have a video if anyone wants to hit me up and rate me. Just gutted i didnt do it sooner haha

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By *ylonfan73Man 30 weeks ago

west yorkshire

i had some same sex fun as a young man, wanking, a little anal play and sucking, i repaid the favour, and longing to try again in a bi mmf scenario.

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By *rooklands BiMan 30 weeks ago

Cheshire

Porn cinema Birmingham

Couple came in and sat down on the same row

Wife asked me if I liked men or women, I replied both

Wife said if you suck my husband I'll reciprocate

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan 30 weeks ago

Norwich

"Hi all - so, I’m currently looking for my first bi experience but don’t seem to be having any joy what so ever. My messages either get deleted or just ignored with zero response.

So for some context- I am looking to pop my bi cherry with a couple with a bi male, I’ve tried many different approaches/messages but none seems to do the trick.

Any advice people can give would be greatly appreciated.

Same here

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By *bwlover1971Man 30 weeks ago

Lowestoft

My first experience was in my mid teens.

It wasn’t in the most glamorous of places.

I was in a public toilet cubicle and got turned on by the graffiti on the back of the door. I was slowly wanking my cock as I was reading. I suddenly noticed a peep hole in the door with an eye staring at me. There was no lock on the door and my pervy peeper pushed the door open and swiftly entered the cubicle closing the door behind him.

He took my cock in his hand then without warning, went down on me. It felt amazing, better than I’d previously fantasised about.

He stood up, got his hard cock out and without any thought I took it in my hand. He asked me to suck him and I just did it.

His cock was massive and also the first I’d ever sucked. I was hooked. He was in his late 60s and I saw him regularly at his flat for 5 years until he moved up north.

He taught me a lot.

I’m totally Bi and love cock just as much as pussy.

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By *UNCHBOXMan 30 weeks ago

folkestone

First bi experience was at a swingers house party. I opened a closed door in one of the be_rooms looking for my friend but they weren’t in there. One of the guys was sucking another guy and he said I could stay in the room if I got naked and curiosity got the better of me and got naked on the bed. One of the guys asked if was ok to suck my now hard cock and I said yes. Ended up sucking my first cock as well.

Now class myself as bisexual and have fucked a trusted guys.

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

Well into my sixties and decided to try bi so met a nice guy who was the first to fuck me. Now enjoy cock.

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By *uckmykissMan 29 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

i’m exactly the same but can’t seem to find a couple willing to play in an open and slow way, im either getting nowhere or bi couples will only play if you go in fully bi and will do anything the guy wants :s

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 29 weeks ago

Central

"i’m exactly the same but can’t seem to find a couple willing to play in an open and slow way, im either getting nowhere or bi couples will only play if you go in fully bi and will do anything the guy wants :s"

It's common for bi men in mf couples to have limited sexual activity interests with another man, rather than expecting any and everything to be experienced. Some are oral only, for example. If you're honest and open about what you'd like to enjoy, then it could help to filter out the incompatible.

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By *penbicoupleCouple 29 weeks ago

Northampton

"Ideal would be a bi couple meet, but that’s another challenge of no experience "

Well, Northampton's not that far away!

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By *oomerangbobMan 29 weeks ago

stanhope

Still waiting

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By *i4bicplsMan 29 weeks ago

Darwen

I first started in my teens. Exploring mainly, then in my 20s went to meet a guy I'd spoken to on line. Which developed into a bi mmf 3some which was loads of fun. Sadly that only happened the once.

Then I met another guy online and he had the biggest cock I'd ever sucked and had so much precum I thought he'd cum in my mouth. Carried on seeing him on and off over the years.

Since then I've been to various clubs for bi nights and saunas for my cock sucking fix. My desire is always for bi mmf fun as it's the best of both.

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By *wingersimonMan 29 weeks ago

Birmingham

My first time bi experience came via a meet on a phone dating / contacts line in the late 90s. I was mid-20s and for some reason I just felt I had to try cock. Until then, I was completely straight but increasingly my wanking fantasies involved me playing with cock. Anyway, I had used a contacts line to meet a couple of women so tried the same with guys. Didn’t take long before I was arranging to meet a gay guy nearby. I told him I’d had a little experience just so he wasn’t put off. He was my age and we had a fun hour kissing, wanking and sucking.

Loved it. Couldn’t get enough of cock after that. I then discovered all those lovely bi couples out there in the swinging world and I was in heaven! Lol.

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By *icememberMan 26 weeks ago

Worcester

I had met this couple and had fucked his wife, he immediately knelt between her legs and inserted his cock into her pussy that was filled with my spunk. I was playing with her clit, he kept slipping out of her, and I just took hold of his hard cock and guided him back inside her, I had never touched a guys cock before this. he slipped out a few more times and i guided him back in giving it a little wank each time. I then felt his hand on my now hardening cock and looked down to see him walking me.

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By *HX_1138Man 26 weeks ago

Greenwich

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By *HX_1138Man 26 weeks ago

Greenwich

Mine was when I was growing up and used to wank with my best mate in the room and used to help each other out!

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By *sheffMan 26 weeks ago

Sheffield

I waited far too long for mine. Had been chatting to men for years and loved getting horny with them and sexting. Could have met so many men on fabguys, one day I just thought fuck it and went out in the car, logged in on my phone and started chatting. Within an hour I was driving to an older fellas house, he told me no pressure. Still a bit scared, I knocked on the door and as soon as I shut it behind me I leant in to kiss him. Felt so comfortable from this point on. We didn't actually make it to the be_room but plenty was done on his sofa.

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By *ndy1956Man 26 weeks ago

Derby

I was 63 when I had a mmf with a couple I had known for a while

She had her bum in my face .

I was enjoying a very good bj not by her but hubby

As she moved away I came

Into her hubby's mouth not hers it felt natural as we were all enjoying ourselves

he then dribbled it over her bum so it tricked down between her cheeks and slid his cock into her

After he came out I joined his wife licking his cum covered cock

Seemed natural as we just enjoyed ourselves

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By *xtrafetishCouple (FF) 24 weeks ago

London

Good morning

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By *ony 529Man 24 weeks ago

coventry

"I was 63 when I had a mmf with a couple I had known for a while

She had her bum in my face .

I was enjoying a very good bj not by her but hubby

As she moved away I came

Into her hubby's mouth not hers it felt natural as we were all enjoying ourselves

Exactly. I couldn’t put it better myself there is something special about sharing your husband with a wife.

he then dribbled it over her bum so it tricked down between her cheeks and slid his cock into her

After he came out I joined his wife licking his cum covered cock

Seemed natural as we just enjoyed ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

I woke up to my cousin wanking me off it felt so wrong but so nice at the same time but wen he felt me move he stopped little did he know I was going to unbotyon my trousers to help me finish

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By *leepwalkerMan 24 weeks ago

greater Manchester

When I was 14 in gents toilet many years ago

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By *heonixrising500Man 24 weeks ago

Barnsley

Laid naked and milked out of curiosity

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By *he swinglersCouple 24 weeks ago

Birmingham

I havnt yet had My first female bi experience. Have plenty of fantasys about it though. I would love to take the leap and do it but my nerves take over

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

Pm to hear about mine

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By *ony51963Man 24 weeks ago

Liverpool

I was 19 and seduced by an older guy, a friend of my fathers social circle. I never complained and met with him many times ….

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By *ensible lady 1960Woman 24 weeks ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

I met a gay guy a few years ago. Lets say.he aint gay anymore.

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By *ereforgigglesMan 24 weeks ago

Scotland

"I met a gay guy a few years ago. Lets say.he aint gay anymore."

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By *emptation6580Couple 24 weeks ago

playa de ingles

Gloryholes are great for the first time!

Wife and I were in one with a locked door.

Minutes later- three cocks we’re poking through the wall.

Very nervous at first but the look on her face said it was the right thing to do- wanking them at first then sucking on them together. Had a fantastic fukk with her wanking them while I fukked her !

Done it many times again!

Big smiles all round!

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By *heelz69Man 24 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm still waiting for my 1st PM if interested

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By *rlowslungMan 24 weeks ago

Warwick

What a great thread. Very enjoyable read. I’ll contribute my own “first” later

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan 24 weeks ago

Rotherham

My first bit experience was whilst still at uni , I was in a cuckold relationship and as soon as I had transitioned from part time to full time chastity my gf encouraged me to fluff and clean up at every opportunity.

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By *enleywoodsCouple 23 weeks ago

Stourbridge / Oxford

I'm about to try for the first time (apart from teenage mutual wanking) so in a similar position. We are setting up a threesome with another guy. We've discussed what could happen and limits which is important. He will wank me but not suck, I am looking forward to sucking him and making him cum. Neither of us wants to go any further. Tuppence is also looking forward to being fucked by him, mustn't leave her out.

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By *elshie69Man 23 weeks ago

Feltham

"Hi all - so, I’m currently looking for my first bi experience but don’t seem to be having any joy what so ever. My messages either get deleted or just ignored with zero response.

So for some context- I am looking to pop my bi cherry with a couple with a bi male, I’ve tried many different approaches/messages but none seems to do the trick.

Any advice people can give would be greatly appreciated.

Perhaps try changing your profile to accept messages from single guys, or change your profile to say you’re bi-curious rather than straight..??

Just a thought

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By *immySplashMan 23 weeks ago

Coventry

I had a man suck my cock to completion first. A few years ago.

Now I've started thinking of having sex with a man.

I'm always thinking of including a man with a female too.

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