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Hi all, I was wondering what people had to say or any feedback about my profile. I get a lot of people visiting my profile then no contact after.
Is my profile shit, am I ugly or maybe it’s my body that people don’t like or my height?!
I’d appreciate peoples comments, be brutal I don’t mind! |
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By *harAndBryCouple 6 days ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Honestly, if you were closer to us we might message you as there's not really anything wrong with your profile, except....
The dick pic isn't doing you any favours at all, and you have no verifications. First is an easy fix, second just means getting out to a club or two or some organised socials and get some in-person verifications that show you do leave the house.
You're at a disadvantage being so far away from most of the UK, though.
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I think when someone makes a thread, possibly others will have a look at the profile to be nosey.
Your profile, my opinion only, is...
Header is generic
Age limits section isn't completed
Pics could be creative with angles and using a timer
Bio is detailed on what you want/enjoy which is too sexual for me and maybe some others, it's not all that you are, ya know, personality isn't coming across because I can't get past the sexual stuff.
Plus the time you've been here is only a minute in the fab universe
I wish you good luck because, well, your a good looking dude and I like chest hair  |
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"I think when someone makes a thread, possibly others will have a look at the profile to be nosey.
Your profile, my opinion only, is...
Header is generic
Age limits section isn't completed
Pics could be creative with angles and using a timer
Bio is detailed on what you want/enjoy which is too sexual for me and maybe some others, it's not all that you are, ya know, personality isn't coming across because I can't get past the sexual stuff.
Plus the time you've been here is only a minute in the fab universe
I wish you good luck because, well, your a good looking dude and I like chest hair "
That is much appreciated, thanks for taking the time to write that. |
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I actually think you have a really decent profile OP.
For me personally it’s not being a verified that would be a no. But that’s just me!
I’d recommend finding some local socials to mingle and meet others as well as getting some verifications. |
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By *r Bond.Man 6 days ago
Moving Around the Midlands |
"Hi all, I was wondering what people had to say or any feedback about my profile. I get a lot of people visiting my profile then no contact after.
Is my profile shit, am I ugly or maybe it’s my body that people don’t like or my height?!
I’d appreciate peoples comments, be brutal I don’t mind! "
People will describe your profile as your shop window to sell yourself to people.
Using that analogy you might get a lot of people just looking at what you have on offer and then moving onto the “next shop”
From the comments above, you aren’t doing much wrong. Just keep plugging away and hopefully things will change for you
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I don't think theres anything wrong with your profile op.
It tells us about you and has personality.
Fab is swamped with men though gh,so it can be tough for blokes to stand out.
If you're sending a decent message, I don't know why you're not getting replies. |
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OP, I actually like your profile.
If I was looking to meet men and was in your area, I would certainly respond to a decent message.
The only minor criticism, is that you haven't amended your age limits. Would you really meet an 18 year old or an 80 year old? Some might see it as a bit desperate or being willing to shag anyone. |
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I can only assume you've made amends based on the feedback given so far. It's not a bad profile. You come across as a decent fellow with a decent profile and a gentlemanly smile. It's all good.
You need to correct the lopsided photograph; it doesn't help your profile. Also, as brutal as it sounds, your height: most women, despite their lip service assurances, have a penchant for 'taller' men. I can say this because I'm not tall either and I've had to refine my profile and my persona in other departments to make up for it. Obviously you can't change your height but it can (sadly) be a limiting factor for us all.
People are nosey and perceptive, they look at details in photographs, rightly or wrongly: sort out your bed, sheets and whatnots...and then take another photograph. Put the focus back on yourself and not the background or the juxtapositions.
With all said and done I like your profile. Good luck, OP.
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As others have said, we quite like the profile! Pictures could be a bit better but by god we’ve seen a lot worse 😂 The bio is detailed and tells people lots about you. Unfortunately, being 100% straight isn’t our thing but that’s us and don’t change who you are.
Fab takes time and patience, someone like you would do well at a social or in a club environment so perhaps that’s an avenue worth exploring, good luck OP. V&K x |
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I think it’s a great profile….especially for a single guy!
I really would suggest trying to go to a couple of arranged group socials so you can get some verifications, that will absolutely help.
Donna |
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"I actually think you have a really decent profile OP.
For me personally it’s not being a verified that would be a no. But that’s just me!
I’d recommend finding some local socials to mingle and meet others as well as getting some verifications."
Thanks for the post in forum, honestly much appreciated. You look great btw. |
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"Hi all, I was wondering what people had to say or any feedback about my profile. I get a lot of people visiting my profile then no contact after.
Is my profile shit, am I ugly or maybe it’s my body that people don’t like or my height?!
I’d appreciate peoples comments, be brutal I don’t mind!
People will describe your profile as your shop window to sell yourself to people.
Using that analogy you might get a lot of people just looking at what you have on offer and then moving onto the “next shop”
From the comments above, you aren’t doing much wrong. Just keep plugging away and hopefully things will change for you
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Much appreciated thank you |
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"I don't think theres anything wrong with your profile op.
It tells us about you and has personality.
Fab is swamped with men though gh,so it can be tough for blokes to stand out.
If you're sending a decent message, I don't know why you're not getting replies. "
Much appreciated that’s very kind of you to reply, thank you. |
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"OP, I actually like your profile.
If I was looking to meet men and was in your area, I would certainly respond to a decent message.
The only minor criticism, is that you haven't amended your age limits. Would you really meet an 18 year old or an 80 year old? Some might see it as a bit desperate or being willing to shag anyone."
I’ll go and set the age limits, thank you for the comment, much appreciated x |
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"I can only assume you've made amends based on the feedback given so far. It's not a bad profile. You come across as a decent fellow with a decent profile and a gentlemanly smile. It's all good.
You need to correct the lopsided photograph; it doesn't help your profile. Also, as brutal as it sounds, your height: most women, despite their lip service assurances, have a penchant for 'taller' men. I can say this because I'm not tall either and I've had to refine my profile and my persona in other departments to make up for it. Obviously you can't change your height but it can (sadly) be a limiting factor for us all.
People are nosey and perceptive, they look at details in photographs, rightly or wrongly: sort out your bed, sheets and whatnots...and then take another photograph. Put the focus back on yourself and not the background or the juxtapositions.
With all said and done I like your profile. Good luck, OP.
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Cheers for the message, I appreciate you taking the time. |
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"As others have said, we quite like the profile! Pictures could be a bit better but by god we’ve seen a lot worse 😂 The bio is detailed and tells people lots about you. Unfortunately, being 100% straight isn’t our thing but that’s us and don’t change who you are.
Fab takes time and patience, someone like you would do well at a social or in a club environment so perhaps that’s an avenue worth exploring, good luck OP. V&K x"
Honestly I can’t tell how appreciative I am that you’ve taken the time to comment and reply thank you. |
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"I think it’s a great profile….especially for a single guy!
I really would suggest trying to go to a couple of arranged group socials so you can get some verifications, that will absolutely help.
Donna "
Thank you for taking the time and thanks for the help. |
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"There are plenty springing up, where are you based
I’m in Exmouth x
Ah can’t help you in that direction but may be worth looking for some on here. Some are profiles and some post events "
Really appreciate your help x |
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