If I’m trading Pokémon card, and I give you one of mine, I do t expect to just look at yours.  
Strange analogy, but some people might think like that, but me personally, I’m probably the most difficult person to ask, because as I always answer, it’s a mood thing. One day I might want to get involved, another day I might just want to be beside it and kiss the beautiful women involved. |
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We both prefer full swap, and so for harmony in our own relationship we probably wouldn't go for this.
On the other hand, we have occasionally split up at a club and gone our own ways. If that works for you it might make it easier to find what you're both looking for. |
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"As a couple at a club, would you happily play with another couple of one was soft swap only and the other happy with full swap or do you expect an equal experience?
Thank you"
Equal almost always, far too many looking to use the female of the couple and sideline the guy  |
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For us a hot time is a hot time. It doesn't need penetration for everyone to get off and enjoy themselves. With the right people we're soft or hard swap. So we really don't mind if couples are at different places/boundaries individually. If the chemistry is there we can work with that and all have a great time. |
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Equal almost always, far too many looking to use the female of the couple and sideline the guy "
We've had this happen a few times. But now a bit more experienced so don't fall for it. |
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We have played with a a fair number of couples in clubs and have only ever played soft swing and everyone always seemed to be more than happy. We now only play with bi couples so everyone is playing with everyone at the same time rather than swapping partners. When we did play with straight or bi fem couples, we did have one encounter that seemed asymmetric in that they were only into her, ( she was fairly disengaged in the whole thing) so we just stoppped because this is something we do together or not at all.  |
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It depends on how the situation comes about.
Our preference is all the same and everyone involved, either soft or full swap
We have experienced a few 3some, unicorn hunters, who are happy to take an F but not happy to share. If it was agreed beforehand we have no issue playing like this. On occasions we’ve experienced dishonesty before play which then quickly becomes apparent. We stopped play immediately.
Swinging is a team sport
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I think the above comments is why are keen to pick up on the 4 way chemistry before we steam off to a room together. Is there heat and flirting between Mr and the other Mrs? Is there genuine heat and flirting between Mrs and the other Mr (and other Mrs if also Bi). We like to gauge that feeling that if we go to a room everyone is hungry to get each others pants off and have each other (soft or hard swap).
And 4 chemistry is a hard thing. There has been occasions where there's not been a 4 way thing, just 3 way. We dont always play together so sometimes one of us will go and find our own mischief with others for a bit. We don't mind when things are open and honest. What is disingenuous and rude is when a couple pretend to be intrested in both but only intending to play with one half (especially if they know the other couple only play as a couple). Being squeezed out that way is horrible and silly because most couples won't stand for such behaviour. |
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"I think the above comments is why are keen to pick up on the 4 way chemistry before we steam off to a room together. Is there heat and flirting between Mr and the other Mrs? Is there genuine heat and flirting between Mrs and the other Mr (and other Mrs if also Bi). We like to gauge that feeling that if we go to a room everyone is hungry to get each others pants off and have each other (soft or hard swap).
And 4 chemistry is a hard thing. There has been occasions where there's not been a 4 way thing, just 3 way. We dont always play together so sometimes one of us will go and find our own mischief with others for a bit. We don't mind when things are open and honest. What is disingenuous and rude is when a couple pretend to be intrested in both but only intending to play with one half (especially if they know the other couple only play as a couple). Being squeezed out that way is horrible and silly because most couples won't stand for such behaviour."
This is such a great answer and what I came here to say.
We go with the flow but being squeezed out is an absolute no. |
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It wouldn't be for me, I'm half a couple and if I meet with my partner, we both want the full experience ie to swap with the opposite partner.
We don't mind soft swap, if everyone is doing it equally, but if it's unfair on one of us, it won't happen. |
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Absolutely not.
Swapping for us is equal, nothing less and nothing more.
Time and time again there's a situation where a couple aren't at the same point of the journey.
The man wants full sex with Cherry and his partner just wants to take it slow and maybe talk for a while.
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"As a couple at a club, would you happily play with another couple of one was soft swap only and the other happy with full swap or do you expect an equal experience?
Thank you"
When I was playing as a couple, we certainly wouldn’t look for that in an organised meet, we were looking to all play together to ensure we both got what we wanted/needed.
However, at clubs things were far less rigid and we would go with the flow more, knowing we may get a scenario like this with a couple we clicked with, and the bonus of if we played our cards right this was only part of the fun for the night, other opportunities could and did arise which meant we could get full satisfaction. |
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