So I will shorten the situation a little as it’s too long to go into detail.
I would like serious advice or thoughts on this but obviously I will get the sarcasm too, that’s fine but make it interesting lol.
So a associate of my mums past who lives near recently started popping into my mums, she had lost her husband a few years before and had an accident where she now has dizzy spells and some short term memory loss but not bad. My mum had been diagnosed with serve illness so I would say they had a little bond.
I knew this lady from young but only who she was, she had 4 children, 2 younger than myself.
Anyway I would pop in and started seeing her around my mums more often. Just chat like usual, then one day she slapped my leg hard, out of the blue what I thought was strange but put it down to she wasn’t thinking ect. Few weeks later same thing but squeezed my leg hard above the knee.
Anyway she asked if I could look at a radiator that wasn’t getting hot, so I went around after work, bleed it, checked the vale and it started heating, this was in a spare room. She sat on the bed chatting about why I’d didn’t work ect, I sat on the bed waiting to see if it heated up. Then she started saying it was her lodgers room, she had just changed the bed and wanted it nice for him. He stays 3 nights a week. Ect.
Then as we was still sitting she said her kids think there is something going on with her and the lodger. I replied, does it mater, it’s your life do what you like.
With this I got up and said it seems ok and let me know if it plays up. She was straight up off the bed following in me out saying he is half her age how could the think that. I replied if you’re both having fun it’s between you both. I exerted the house with a goodbye like a normal thing.
My question is am I looking into it to much or was there a motive there. Recently she contacted my mum to ask if I could look at her fire to find a part number. I haven’t been around but would like people’s opinion, especially from lady’s in say mid 60’s. Also I’m early 40’s.
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Dont overthink it, it could be nothing and you would make a situation weird if you act and there is nothing there.
Just carry on being yourself and if she makes a move then do whatever feels right. As you said about the lodger, your both adults... |
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It sounds as if the woman had a head injury of some sort if she has dizzy spells and short term memory loss. Do nothing, she's vulnerable and sometimes a head injury can change someone's personality. Avoid being alone with her if you can. |
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