Given the heat, we’d opened a couple of doors that are ordinarily closed and we’d made use of a downstairs room as it was cooler.
Very late into the evening, I’m sat on the sofa and she’s between my legs sucking amazingly when I noticed a shadow outside one of the doors!
Now here’s the thing, it was my imagination or it could only have been one neighbour given the set up of each house; he’s a quiet guy but recently divorced post her cheating!
I’m convinced he was watching us for a good half an hour as the shadow moved several times, she was oblivious and I didn’t want to say anything as it’d have freaked her out.
I love being watched so it worked for me, she’s really into him but wouldn’t make the first move.
So, how do I approach the neighbour to literally ask him if he was watching without freaking him out or sounding like a dick!?! |
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Just tell him your wife has the hots for him, he will take it as a compliment, from his reaction you may be able to gauge if he is interested. The chances of him not being interested are highly remote. |
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Just a quick update to publicly reply re feedback I’ve had from several people.
This wasn’t a consent issue or me denying consent, simply a spur of the moment situation which may have been my imagination at the time; I wasn’t sure and still unsure.
I have mentioned it her since posting on the forum and she smiled hoping he’d enjoyed the show; she’s perfectly fine with how it played out.
No drama, thanks for the feedback; always a gift. |
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" she’s really into him but wouldn’t make the first move.
So, how do I approach the neighbour to literally ask him if he was watching without freaking him out or sounding like a dick!?! "
Why do you need to ask him if he was watching ? Why not just say sorry you've split up. Would you like to join us for a drink one evening. Then maybe mention how much she's into him. |
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Is a neighbour able to see though one of your doors? Would they need to be in your back garden? We're in our living room now and occasionally the light changes, as in a shadow. It's the clouds moving in the sky, if you didn't see anyone then then clouds are a likely explanation. |
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