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By *sm225 OP Man 34 weeks ago
hull |
Anyone know how to as a guy meet singles and couples with wanting to keep discreet , I keep wanting to branch out and meet new people but feel due to not having public photos this might be causing issues wondered if anyone has any advice or had got past this issue  ? |
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By *sm225 OP Man 34 weeks ago
hull |
I have lots of tattoos and I’d say they are quite distinctive , so I have never been to keen on the idea of having public photos as even if it was from the neck down I’d be pretty recognisable |
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Unless you’re sending photos with messages, you’ll find it very hard to connect with others. Physical attraction isn’t everything but it’s a key starting point.
I will say I find it interesting that you are extremely cautious about your own privacy, but you have a video on your profile where a woman’s face and tattoos are visible enough to identify her at several points.
I mention the video because it may well not be doing any favours. The first thing many people think when they see similar videos is, does she even know she’s on here? |
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By *sm265Woman 34 weeks ago
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The lack of public pics certainly wont be helping.
The video would also put me off, as per the reasons mentioned above.
I usually look at a profile before I even open a message. If there isnt enough on the profile to capture my interest then, unless Im really bored at the time, I'm unlikely to engage with the message.
Looking at your profile I know that woman is blonde (possibly not entirely naturally), pretty, I have an idea of her body shape and size, i can tell she has false eyelashes and is enthusiastic about sucking cock. I actually know far more about what she looks like than I do you.
Having said all that, you've multiple verifications so youre doing far better than a lot of the single men on here. |
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By *sm265Woman 34 weeks ago
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"I have lots of tattoos and I’d say they are quite distinctive , so I have never been to keen on the idea of having public photos as even if it was from the neck down I’d be pretty recognisable "
Plenty of people have clothed pictures on their profiles if youre concerned about showing your tattoos. |
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By *sm225 OP Man 34 weeks ago
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Thanks for the advice and I will take it on board she is one of the verification and is on here and is happy to have the video on there as have discussed this , but your points are still valid I am heavily tattooed so that’s why the reason why the no public photos as it would be quite easy to but I guess I could find a way with some clothed photos |
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"I have lots of tattoos and I’d say they are quite distinctive , so I have never been to keen on the idea of having public photos as even if it was from the neck down I’d be pretty recognisable
Plenty of people have clothed pictures on their profiles if youre concerned about showing your tattoos. "
This, a nice suit to show off your build, with your head cropped or use an app to cover /blur the tattoos.
Most ladies won't engage with a shadow, as theres no way of knowing if they'd be attracted etc and there's tonnes of other profiles with pics on op. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Personally, I won’t entertain a profile with no photos. I get wanting to protect privacy but if someone recognises you on here, they’re on here too, I doubt they want to shout about that.
If you still want to protect your privacy, put some photos of yourself on but with clothes. I’ll reply to a headless suited man, but won’t reply to a photoless man. |
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