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"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then?  "
bi-curious, hete exible, etc...yeah. Women touch me ands I feel nothing. I have no arousal when I touch women.
My brain only like penis. Not interested in someone else's boobs or pussy at all.
Even if I play with a pre-op transwoman, my brain still thinks it's a man with long hair. which is awkward.
Transmen are hot but I get nothing from a pussy. I still want a real cock.
It's just brain wiring. |
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By *ofuMan 10 weeks ago
london |
"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then?
bi-curious, heteexible, etc...yeah. Women touch me ands I feel nothing. I have no arousal when I touch women. Lucky you finding femme trans women
My brain only like penis. Not interested in someone else's boobs or pussy at all.
Even if I play with a pre-op transwoman, my brain still thinks it's a man with long hair. which is awkward.
Transmen are hot but I get nothing from a pussy. I still want a real cock.
It's just brain wiring."
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "
I’d say there’s loads of guys like this, stuck in limbo lol
Some will go on to realise they’re bi, some back to straight after some experimenting. Some doomed to wander the earth n a state of perpetual confusion.
My advice is, don’t worry about labels, especially from other people trying to impose their own worldview on anyone who’ll listen. Just enjoy what you enjoy |
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It doesn't make you anything you don't want to be.
If a meat eater goes to a vegan restaurant a couple of times a year, it doesn't make them a vegan.
You set the parameters for your own identity : no one else.
If you do decide you'd like to officially join the LGBT Team - We'd be glad to have you, but it's fine if not too  |
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I've been in a threesum where he was not bi but seeing his wife suck he big cock got me horny I don't like men so I then years later had my cock sucked by a bloke it was good I would like to try cock in a bi threesum tho |
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"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "
Maybe or bi-curious at least. I wouldn't get hung up on it - just enjoy it. |
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You can be whatever you want to be. Regardless how you feel or how anyone else wants to label you.
If you want to be bi, so be it, straight, gay or a purple dinosaur. It's just a label.
Go have fun. |
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Hard to say i started off that way but as i got more and more comfortable i started admitting to myself that i was actually attracted to some men, i think someone called it internalised homophobia, I know im bi because i still find women attractive and enjoy having sex with both men and woman. I think you just need to find your what your comfortable and ignore the labels for now while you work things out, and have fun with it while you do because whats the point otherwise? |
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Genital preference and labels of sexuality are all subjective.
Whatever you understand yourself to be, that’s cool.
A particular set of genitalia doesn’t always speak for the gender of the person that has them when you consider trans people too. |
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"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "
Erik is exactly the same. He can appreciate a good looking man, or a good physique, but he doesn't swoon for them like he does a woman.
Put a nice dick in front of him though and you visibly see him get horny looking at it lol!
Whatever that is, is what he is.
Freyja x |
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I agree to certain extent about labels but if you can nor even put bi or bi curious on your profile.I just wonder what else are you lying about if you can not get the basics right.Yes I know some women do not like bi men and that is probably the reason why they put straight. |
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I only find females attractive, I've only dated women, I've never had a Dom or met a man alone I therefore class myself as straight....however whilst in cuckold relationships my role included being a service submissive I sexually pleasured my gf on demand and her bulls as required.
I wouldn't be too hung up on labels, especially these days .
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By *iHungMan 10 weeks ago
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Agree with all those saying to forget about labels, I find a good chest & cock a turn on but don’t find myself attracted to men in general. Would love to try a bi MMF or maybe a male on male massage m. |
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I know so many lads who are the same….don’t fancy men but love cock fun…..I have one lad who just loves sucking a cock nothing else
Also have an older guy who is straight but loves to be seen naked |
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"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then?
Erik is exactly the same. He can appreciate a good looking man, or a good physique, but he doesn't swoon for them like he does a woman.
Put a nice dick in front of him though and you visibly see him get horny looking at it lol!
Whatever that is, is what he is.
Freyja x"
This is me to a T. I see some cocks and to my astonishment - considering I've always thought of myself as hetero - my cock reacts and I definitely want to touch and feel and suck; in fact just TYPING that is arousing. I so want to find a couple to play with on that basis. |
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Sexuality and desire can be such a broad spectrum that simple labels often don't do it justice. I (mr) consider myself bisexual in the most typical sense, as I find men and women attractive and play with both equally. We have found many straight guys that we've played with are curious to try things when in an environment that they feel comfortable enough expressing it, and a lot of the time it's nothing more than a desire to try sucking, I wouldn't consider them bisexual, more bi-friendly. But at the end of the day, the label is nothing more than an indication what you prefer and should only matter to yourself and those you wish to share that side of yourself with. |
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I started off like this really. Seeing cock in porn. Wanting to experience it. I do find some men attractive but mainly I like a nice cock.
Try playing with a guy, see if you like it..if not don't do it again. |
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"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "
I’d personally say that’s hetexible, I would define bisexuality more like would you be in a romantic relationship with both genders?
In your case it doesn’t sound like it, whereas hetexible would indicate your open to doing things with your own gender if the mood is right which can be occasionally or as often as you like
But maybe that’s just me? |
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I don't fancy men or want a relationship with guys .
happy to have a few beers instead watch football .
but I do love to watch bi mmf porn .
I've never sucked cock but would love to during mmf meet . |
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By *B GamesCouple 2 days ago
Bristol/Plymouth |
I (Minky) think that for some men it is linked to the excitement of seeing their own cock in an aroused state. When they see another hard cock they get the same wave of excitement and arousal, despite having zero interest in the male it is attached to. Sort of like Pavlov's dog (classical conditioning).
Are you Bi? Maybe not, are you cock obsessed? Probably! |
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"I (Minky) think that for some men it is linked to the excitement of seeing their own cock in an aroused state. When they see another hard cock they get the same wave of excitement and arousal, despite having zero interest in the male it is attached to. Sort of like Pavlov's dog (classical conditioning).
well said Micky
Are you Bi? Maybe not, are you cock obsessed? Probably! "
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I always find it interesting how we try to label everything!
I am bi. I enjoy sex with men and women (preferably at the same time)
for ease of things i would say that any male who likes to play with cock is bi. but there is a scale |
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By *s-two-75Couple 2 days ago
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Do you find every woman you see attractive?
Don’t maybe you’ve just not seen the guy that ticks your boxes yet 😜
Don’t presume if someone is bi they fancy every member of the same gender, same as you wouldn’t find every woman attractive as a straight person
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See I’m the opposite, I love to look at a woman, love to kiss a woman, love looking at breasts but no interest in looking at a pussy or pussy pics do nothing for me at all?! Still will play with one for her pleasure but I’m more top Bi.
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I am happily married husband and find my wife incredibly sexy. I love the hotwife and cuck scenarios which we roleplay and I fantasise eating another mans cum from her pussy after she enjoys herself.
I see it as a massive turn on and my mind tells me that tasting his cum mixed with her juices is just me experiencing the situation and being part of her enjoyment and pleasure.
In the heat of the moment and being turned on watching them cum, I would see no issue in lickiing her juices off his cock and possibly sucking him clean too.
It would be all part of the moment.
I wld also lick her to get her wet for him and suck him to get him hard for her and then hold his cock to guide him in. All in the name of her pleasure.
I don't find guys sexually attractive, but watching a cock cum or being wanked or sucked is a turn on I have to admit.
So I don't want to label myself other than a husband who would enjoy the shared experience of watching his wife being pleasured for her enjoyment and then cleaning up both after.
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"I am happily married husband and find my wife incredibly sexy. I love the hotwife and cuck scenarios which we roleplay and I fantasise eating another mans cum from her pussy after she enjoys herself.
I see it as a massive turn on and my mind tells me that tasting his cum mixed with her juices is just me experiencing the situation and being part of her enjoyment and pleasure.
In the heat of the moment and being turned on watching them cum, I would see no issue in lickiing her juices off his cock and possibly sucking him clean too.
It would be all part of the moment.
I wld also lick her to get her wet for him and suck him to get him hard for her and then hold his cock to guide him in. All in the name of her pleasure.
I don't find guys sexually attractive, but watching a cock cum or being wanked or sucked is a turn on I have to admit.
So I don't want to label myself other than a husband who would enjoy the shared experience of watching his wife being pleasured for her enjoyment and then cleaning up both after.
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Wow that’s hot and what a lovely husband you are to her  |
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I count myself as bi. I prefer women for partner / wife and prefer sex with a woman. I don't fancy men and would not want a relationship with one, but I do enjoy wanking and sucking a nice cock and find it very satisfying |
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I’m not attracted to men in the slightest but I love the look of a strong, powerful hard cock and I’ve sucked a few guys which was really horny and erotic.
Don’t really care what it makes me, it’s just something I’ve done and enjoyed |
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Is there anything hotter than letting a couple suck your cock together? Zero interest in guys however i do enjoy some cock play in a threesome. Especially if it turns the lady into a puddle of lust |
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