Hi I'm looking for a club buddy, to accompany me to Pandoras on theme nights,I'm male, prefer a fem partner, and purely a plantonic one, or maybe a guy,but one who wouldn't expect sex, unless I wanted it.
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I think you’ll struggle to find this by arrangement, it’s better to let it develop organically.
I don’t want to babysit someone all night when I don’t know how they’ll behave and if they’re able to be respectful. I don’t want to share a locker and bar tab with a stranger and from a practical point of view, many clubs now require couples membership and that’s more expensive, as is entry.
Saying that, I hope I’m wrong so good luck OP. |
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"I think you’ll struggle to find this by arrangement, it’s better to let it develop organically.
I don’t want to babysit someone all night when I don’t know how they’ll behave and if they’re able to be respectful. I don’t want to share a locker and bar tab with a stranger and from a practical point of view, many clubs now require couples membership and that’s more expensive, as is entry.
Saying that, I hope I’m wrong so good luck OP. "
This! Also, OP, why can't your wife/partner go with you?
Also, you'd like a woman to accompany you but just as a platonic "+1". What's the point? Why can't you go on your own? |
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I think your best way is to make freinds in scene first. Personally I wouldn't partner up with someone I didn't know just base of an online request. However there's definitely a few good freinds I've made on the scene (some who are purely platonic) who I'd happily go to a club with if they asked.
Also as a former single guy on the scene don't fear going as a single. Yes it can be a bit draughting and hard work but it's also really good just to doing things by yourself and stretch your comfort zone.
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""One who wouldn't expect sex unless I wanted it".
She gets no say in the matter ?"
I think that part of the comment was referring to a male "companion".
Anyway, OP, I just read your profile properly - well, checked the labels as I read your profile before. You identify as gay yet want a female partner to accompany you to Pandora's? Why? Is it because it would be cheaper than going as a single man, or there would be no restrictions regarding ratio/as a "couple", you could attend any event? |
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""One who wouldn't expect sex unless I wanted it".
She gets no say in the matter ?
I think that part of the comment was referring to a male "companion".
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Yes on re-reading it you are right. Apologies OP. |
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