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Black cocks - bareback or Safesex
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"Always safe here" | |||
"I think most the photos ur seeing they know at guy or regular I know clubs it depends on the woman but most do safe sex " Ok, good to know. | |||
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"We prefer bb and have never encountered any issues playing that way in clubs. I struggle to understand how a club could actually enforce a bb ban? " Not a ban. It is in the club’s rules that you use condoms other than with partner. Ofcourse no can check what happens in the private rooms. | |||
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"I think this is a very dangerous take, I’ve seen just as many bb pics and vids with white guys I don’t think skin colour has anything to do with it. Especially the black demographic on here is MUCH less it doesn’t make sense. " | |||
"The age old subject lol The ex wife and I were swinging, mostly with men, for 40 years. Never met another couple, whether on meets, parties or groups, that used condoms. We started while still in Africa, never saw her with anyone using a condom." Looking back now do you think it was irresponsible? | |||
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"The age old subject lol The ex wife and I were swinging, mostly with men, for 40 years. Never met another couple, whether on meets, parties or groups, that used condoms. We started while still in Africa, never saw her with anyone using a condom. Looking back now do you think it was irresponsible?" Any random sex is irresponsible if you pick at it. So many things we do in life is irresponsible. Would I change it, no way at all. | |||
"We prefer bb and have never encountered any issues playing that way in clubs. I struggle to understand how a club could actually enforce a bb ban? " We are a bare couple too and our profile states that, however we still get some surprised when we tell them bb only | |||
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"Hi xxx, I have been looking at the pictures in Fabs and I see bareback sex is quite common with black guys and it seems many women love it. What do the ladies and couples love mostly?? Is it bareback with creampies or safe sex?? How is it in Club setups? Some clubs in Europe would not allow BB sex at all. I have had mostly safe sex and BB very few times.. Would love to hear your opinions. Let us not be Judgmental about preferences of others "The Ex wife and I started when we were in the southern end of Africa. Never met a black guy willing to use a condom and it suited us. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple she enjoys playing with guys bare and natural, for me as a cuck there’s nothing better than having watched her be fucked and satisfied, the guy withdrawing and his cum leaking out her pussy, especially a BBC where there is that colour contrast. " We are very similar to yourselves Just make sure no alcohol is involved, we stupidly mixed drinks and sex for a full week in Lanzarote and my wife forgot to take her pill on a number of days due to too much wine and gin. We now have a mixed race son, due to a few nights of foolish fun | |||
"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm." agree with this. | |||
"As a cuckold couple she enjoys playing with guys bare and natural, for me as a cuck there’s nothing better than having watched her be fucked and satisfied, the guy withdrawing and his cum leaking out her pussy, especially a BBC where there is that colour contrast. " Absolutely agree to this | |||
"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm.agree with this." Sounds fabulous but getting 6 sounds impossible  | |||
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"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm.agree with this. Sounds fabulous but getting 6 sounds impossible "That was in the days we were in Africa. Plenty of them out there. We were also part of a secret group of whites that loved black cock, so plenty of opportunity there. | |||
"There’s a large number of couples who seem to have little care about sexual health. Almost every message I receive from a couple mentions bareback and a direct offer to meet without even seeing my face, asking me any questions about myself etc. Pretty shocking. That’s why I hardly meet anyone now. My health is important to me " There are also a large number of people on fab who naively believe that condoms provide a kind of all around force field. Total immunity. Regardless of how haphazardly the condom is used. On the other hand bareback couples often only meet people with recent verifiable std checks and get them regularly themselves. Neither provides a 100% guarantee of safety but the safety line is just drawn differently. I will accept criticism from a person in a monogamous relationship but find it insufferable from another swinger. | |||
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"There’s a large number of couples who seem to have little care about sexual health. Almost every message I receive from a couple mentions bareback and a direct offer to meet without even seeing my face, asking me any questions about myself etc. Pretty shocking. That’s why I hardly meet anyone now. My health is important to me There are also a large number of people on fab who naively believe that condoms provide a kind of all around force field. Total immunity. Regardless of how haphazardly the condom is used. On the other hand bareback couples often only meet people with recent verifiable std checks and get them regularly themselves. Neither provides a 100% guarantee of safety but the safety line is just drawn differently. I will accept criticism from a person in a monogamous relationship but find it insufferable from another swinger." I agree. I find people that play raw get tested more and more than happy to share recs TS test Vs people that use condoms and when I ask for a test, it's always a struggle. I have my next round this Monday and always show off when talking | |||
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"There’s a large number of couples who seem to have little care about sexual health. Almost every message I receive from a couple mentions bareback and a direct offer to meet without even seeing my face, asking me any questions about myself etc. Pretty shocking. That’s why I hardly meet anyone now. My health is important to me " After reading your profile you state your looking for any couple... We are the opposite, we first built Trust and friendship then eventually protected sex, and continue seeing and building trust, so that we can enjoy unprotected sex knowing they only see us, and we only see them Trust, and friendship allows this, rather than a one off meet with someone you just pull out of a hat. | |||
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"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe' "I totally agree ! I only do oral w/o and swallow for men we know and trust - the list is very short 😂 Otherwise it’s protected too. | |||
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"We have alternated down the years. When I could get pregnant always safe sex. Then went thru a period if BB and guys cumming in me -what woman doesn’t prefer that ! But eventually went back to safe sex coz of the stress of chasing guys for current - not historic ! - STD tests So now, much as I prefer everything about BB sex, we always use condoms. Although they are the thinnest I can find to make it feel as natural as possible. I would rather have sex for years with condoms than catch something and have to go through all the stress of treatments etc As for blk guys - yes my preference is sex with blk guys thru choice. Lots of reasons inc the so-called urban myth - which the ladies here could confirm or otherwise lol Interestingly I have found blk guys cum tastes sweeter somehow and is much nicer to swallow as a result - another reason for my preference I guess Em x " Thanks for the appreciation of taste of black cum | |||
"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe' "You’re much less likely to catch something from oral though. | |||
"Agreed that probably everyone would ideally prefer BB, but only if you were assured that participants are clean." I think that we need to stop referring to clear of STIs as "clean" Get checked, treatment for anything that is needed. Take responsibility for our sexual health. It is not somehow unclean,dirty or clean. | |||
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"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm." Longing to find a wife to live this lifestyle with. So hot. | |||
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"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe'
You’re much less likely to catch something from oral though. "Some of us use condoms for oral too  (clubs only gal).
Not for guys I date | |||
You have to grin when reading some of the comments. The ignorance of the subject on STI's is fascinating albeit very worrying.
There is only ONE safe sex act and that is one partner and no others. Even for those who suggest condoms for oral as well | |||
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You have to grin when reading some of the comments. The ignorance of the subject on STI's is fascinating albeit very worrying.
There is only ONE safe sex act and that is one partner and no others. Even for those who suggest condoms for oral as well "Hence I said “safer” and not safe
It’s worrying you think 1 partner is a safe sex act given you can’t 100% control their behaviour
Actually, the only safe sex act is abstinence | |||
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"Hello everyone: Having being involved with a sexual health charity on a voluntary basis (with no racial bias) BB sex has risks regardless of colour or race. At the time (20 years ago) Men from sub-saharan Africa had the highest HIV transmission rates and were thought to be the highest risk group. Quite clearly with mass immigration amongst other factors since then; things have changed but the stigma clearly has not. Regardless of the colour of someones skin-Play safe xx" Then practice what you preach Barebacking some woman on your profile??? Fcks sake. | |||
"The ex and I joined a club while in Oz. Strange set up as they said they run on a few very strict rules. 1: Club meets at various houses was only for meeting each other, no sex only meet and arrange for later. 2: No BB sex. (We had been told it wasn't checked so BB was normal) 3: No one was allowed to talk to another mans wife without the express permission from her husband. The meets were set up so the men were always naked and the women were dressed sexy/slutty. Half way through the night, the ex had gone into the lounge where there were some sitting around watching porn on a TV. I was outside talking with a couple and some woman came out and told me the club chairman and another man were chatting up my wife in the lounge without asking me first. So I went in for a look and they were both standing on either side of her with their hands up her skirt and she had hold of their cocks. When they saw me walk in they both quickly removed their hands and pretended not to be guilty lol. I walked over to them and said, you might want to be a bit discreet as someone had reported it to me and I walked back outside. The couple asked me what had happened so told them and they said, they have probably gone into one of the bedrooms and should we go spy on them. They took me round the back of the house and peeped through one of the bedroom window to see the 2 of them doing the ex BB. Both I and the other husband got hard watching so his wife bent over to be spit roasted by us while watching my ex being fucked. "love reading this. group sex and watching others is hot | |||
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"what ever the colour its condoms for us" Indeed. And flavoured condoms are all different colours so you can have whatever colour cock you fancy. Even match it with your outfit. Green or blue perhaps!😂 Of course, we all prefer the feel of BB but for us the risk far outweighs the reward. | |||
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"what ever the colour its condoms for us Indeed. And flavoured condoms are all different colours so you can have whatever colour cock you fancy. Even match it with your outfit. Green or blue perhaps!😂 Of course, we all prefer the feel of BB but for us the risk far outweighs the reward. " Never thought of that -I use them too. Flavours soon wear off tho lol | |||
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