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By *heffbi OP Man 10 weeks ago
Sheffield |
Still very new to being cucked and slowly taking small steps into it. Weve discussed the possibility of a much older man but concened there could be the issue of an older man wanting to take advantage rather than work with us and take things slow. Does anyone else have experience with this sort of thing? |
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You are much more likely to encounter the arrogance of youth! and I don't say this to be horrible, but out of experience.
When I was first in the situation of playing with a cuckold couple I was still a teenager and as far as I was concerned it was all about me!, now at 55 (today) I realise that actually my feelings and wishes are somewhat unimportant to those of the couple.
of course, you can have bad experiences with anyone you choose, but I would say maturity helps lessen the chances. |
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Older man here . Just have plenty of chat prior to meeting . Say what you want from it then you both know what to expect . I found my meeting went well because of plenty of chat . I knew what they both wanted. Even a good chat afterwards with cuck making me a cuppa |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"With an older man you will benefit from their confidence not arrogance, experience, respect and understanding that the experience is about 3 people enjoying the cuckold kink. "
Yes this is accurate. As an older man I see it as a privilege and definitely not a right. |
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"Still very new to being cucked and slowly taking small steps into it. Weve discussed the possibility of a much older man but concened there could be the issue of an older man wanting to take advantage rather than work with us and take things slow. Does anyone else have experience with this sort of thing?"
Always the faceless single male accounts |
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Many years ago when I was married I was cuckolded by my wife with older men. She had a thing for them. She was mid thirties and her lovers were much older guys. I couldn’t satisfy her but men in their fifties and sixties could. It added to my shame to see a much older alpha male give here what I couldn’t. I think older men have a lot to offer and are usually more trustworthy. And she’s less likely to leave you for them. If the bull is similar age to her then she could end up leaving the cuck for him. That’s what happened to us when she started to have a bull who was similar age |
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An older man will probably consider himself a guest within your relationship, will probably understand the dynamics of the situation more and be more respectful of you both.
I dont want to do youngsters a dis service, but they may want to take over your relationship and have no regard for the cuck or his desires |
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"Definitely feel better about older guys after these comments "
I'd love to build up a relationship with you both, taking it at your pace. I'm normally based in Doncaster so not far from you, but am having a break on the Isle of Wight at the mo. If you'd like to chat about meeting up socially at first to see how we get on, then message me and we can arrange a meeting when I'm back home in April.
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By *omRachCouple 9 weeks ago
Wirral |
We've always had better fun with older guys than younger ones. We have found that the latter tend to be more brawn than brain and have been kinda selfish in terms of satisfaction generated.
The older guys we have met have all tended to put our needs/wants before their own. |
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We have experienced both ends of the scale being a cuckold couple for over 30 years.
Even in our more ‘mature years’ we still find older guys are more focused on ensuring our cuckold dynamic is respected and the hotwife gets the pleasure she needs and to be honest at times more dirtier minds for more extreme fun. |
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"We have experienced both ends of the scale being a cuckold couple for over 30 years.
Even in our more ‘mature years’ we still find older guys are more focused on ensuring our cuckold dynamic is respected and the hotwife gets the pleasure she needs and to be honest at times more dirtier minds for more extreme fun."
Totally agree with this wife won’t meet anyone under 40 , and we have found the same thot the older the more respectful they are to our relationship and leads to more enjoyment for all  |
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"Still very new to being cucked and slowly taking small steps into it. Weve discussed the possibility of a much older man but concened there could be the issue of an older man wanting to take advantage rather than work with us and take things slow. Does anyone else have experience with this sort of thing?"
Starting this game as a young man fucking other men’s wives this was all about me & her up to a point. As you grow older you learn from experience so I think your fears are unfounded. Now as the game has almost gone full circle I’d definitely avoid noticeably younger guys but would also consider that age brings a better understanding so feel you’re fears are possibly unfounded. |
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"What about cukcked with younger men? No age discrimination right ? "
It's their choice who they meet. It's not discrimination just a preference. The fact you feel entitled to be part of something that they don't want is possibly the reason they are looking for older men. |
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Just reading through this... I think an older man, like myself, would bring something extra to a sharing relationship. The experience of time helps you appreciate good sex, and good sex is anything but rushed. The fruit is tastier left on the tree to ripen... |
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"We have experienced both ends of the scale being a cuckold couple for over 30 years.
Even in our more ‘mature years’ we still find older guys are more focused on ensuring our cuckold dynamic is respected and the hotwife gets the pleasure she needs and to be honest at times more dirtier minds for more extreme fun.
Totally agree with this wife won’t meet anyone under 40 , and we have found the same thot the older the more respectful they are to our relationship and leads to more enjoyment for all "
Totally agree, older guys tend to take the time out to get to know you and flirt, etc which builds up to the actual sex not being seedy just part of the experience. |
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We started cuckold whilst at uni, and after the initial few months my gf always chose older bulls , we found them more reliable, discreet. Another bonus was their experienced which we certainly needed in the begining. |
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