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By *kn7991 OP Man 7 weeks ago
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Help a lad out get a bit more luck on here haha!
No good at writing these bios and things, no idea where to start…
I know first thing most of you are going to say is pics but I want to remain as discreet so any advice there is welcome aswell. |
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"Help a lad out get a bit more luck on here haha!"
You've been here seven months and not managed to get a meet verification yet. We'd worry that you'd be all up for chat and arranging a meet but then wouldn't show up.
Get to a club or organised social and get some verifications - that'll show that you do leave the house.
You've got two pics, but they lack any effort at all.
No profile pic - we'd not even open a message. |
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"Help a lad out get a bit more luck on here haha!
No good at writing these bios and things, no idea where to start…
I know first thing most of you are going to say is pics but I want to remain as discreet so any advice there is welcome aswell."
Grow a pair of tits, or let men suck your cock. Both of these options will guarantee you “more luck on here”.
You will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons, than you will in here mate. The odds are ridiculously stacked against single guys in here, just keep trying, and only message those you feel a genuine match with.
I enjoy far more success elsewhere on the internet, and just use Fab as a distraction from ‘real life’. Good luck though 😎👍 |
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The better the quality of your pics, the easier it is for others to know whether they find you attractive. Your profile shows how much you consider what they need and the extent you are willing to go, to give them this.
If in doubt, they move on to the next,who probably does it better.
It's about you showing what you bring to the engagement. Tell them. Cut out fuzzy words that say next to nothing |
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By *kn7991 OP Man 7 weeks ago
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Yeah I’ve struggled to get a meet so far as I don’t have any verifications, bit of a catch 22 hahaha, tough one but I understand it.
Would love to try a club/social but also abit nervous going for my first time as a single lad and not knowing anyone, need to just push my self out my comfort zone a little and give it a go I suppose.
Thanks for the advice though, appreciate it! |
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"Yeah I’ve struggled to get a meet so far as I don’t have any verifications, bit of a catch 22 hahaha, tough one but I understand it.
Would love to try a club/social but also abit nervous going for my first time as a single lad and not knowing anyone, need to just push my self out my comfort zone a little and give it a go I suppose.
Thanks for the advice though, appreciate it!"
The verifications thing only applies to Fab though. The other apps I use don’t have the ‘Trip Advisor’ aspect to them, and you really don’t miss it. In some respects, you’re probably better off without the veris thing, as the onus of “Oh, he’s not met anyone/he’s not met anyone for ages”, or “Omg, he met HER?” doesn’t come in to it. It’s all down to how you present your profile, and what you say in messages….
The contact apps choices is quite limited mate. The Fab site rules state you’re not allowed to promote other sites, but if I said ‘the usual suspects’, it shouldn’t take you too long to work out….😉 |
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"The verifications thing only applies to Fab though. The other apps I use don’t have the ‘Trip Advisor’ aspect to them, and you really don’t miss it. In some respects, you’re probably better off without the veris thing, as the onus of “Oh, he’s not met anyone/he’s not met anyone for ages”, or “Omg, he met HER?” doesn’t come in to it. It’s all down to how you present your profile, and what you say in messages…."
You must misunderstand why we insist on verifications. We don't care who someone sees and we don't even read the "review" verifications. All we're interested in is whether someone actually leaves the house for socials, clubs or meets. We have FAR too many guys lead us on, arrange and re-arrange meets and still don't turn up. |
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By *kn7991 OP Man 7 weeks ago
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You must misunderstand why we insist on verifications. We don't care who someone sees and we don't even read the "review" verifications. All we're interested in is whether someone actually leaves the house for socials, clubs or meets. We have FAR too many guys lead us on, arrange and re-arrange meets and still don't turn up."
I completely understand both points of it to be fair and how important the verifications can be. Just abit annoying being stuck in that loop of not getting much interest due to no veris therefore being unable to get any veris.
All part and parcel of it all while I find my feet within this scene I suppose |
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"The verifications thing only applies to Fab though. The other apps I use don’t have the ‘Trip Advisor’ aspect to them, and you really don’t miss it. In some respects, you’re probably better off without the veris thing, as the onus of “Oh, he’s not met anyone/he’s not met anyone for ages”, or “Omg, he met HER?” doesn’t come in to it. It’s all down to how you present your profile, and what you say in messages….
You must misunderstand why we insist on verifications. We don't care who someone sees and we don't even read the "review" verifications. All we're interested in is whether someone actually leaves the house for socials, clubs or meets. We have FAR too many guys lead us on, arrange and re-arrange meets and still don't turn up."
Speaking as a single guy in Fab, who has been let down by FAR too many single females and couples in here, and have been to several swinger clubs which had no single women in, and mostly couples who stuck to their little cliques, snapping at any single guy who approached them ("We're not interested in single guys!"), it's fair to say we all have our annoyances with this place....
The point I was making, which was brought up by the OP's comment about struggling to get meet verified and that being perceived by him, to be hindering his 'success' in here, is it only applies in Fab, not other places on the internet, which actually have ladies in them....   |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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You've been here seven months and not managed to get a meet verification yet. We'd worry that you'd be all up for chat and arranging a meet but then wouldn't show up."
I met a few guys without verification and they were more genuine than the ones with veris. Verification means nothing... |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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You've been here seven months and not managed to get a meet verification yet. We'd worry that you'd be all up for chat and arranging a meet but then wouldn't show up.
I met a few guys without verification and they were more genuine than the ones with veris. Verification means nothing... "
Actually veris makes them messing around more... |
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You must misunderstand why we insist on verifications. We don't care who someone sees and we don't even read the "review" verifications. All we're interested in is whether someone actually leaves the house for socials, clubs or meets. We have FAR too many guys lead us on, arrange and re-arrange meets and still don't turn up.
I completely understand both points of it to be fair and how important the verifications can be. Just abit annoying being stuck in that loop of not getting much interest due to no veris therefore being unable to get any veris.
All part and parcel of it all while I find my feet within this scene I suppose"
The reason you are not getting interest isn't because of your lack of verifications.. |
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By *kn7991 OP Man 7 weeks ago
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"Be more imaginative with your photos.
Go to a social and get some verifications
You smoke - that puts a lot of people off
Don’t say ‘just ask’ because people won’t - tell them stuff. "
Yep gonna work on that front haha, not the greatest when it comes to taking pics to be fair.
Definitely going to look at trying going to a social at some point when the opportunity arises.
Not much I can do about that one really (apart from the obvious of quitting 😂)
Yeah I admit can be perceive as a little vague haha, but once I’ve experienced abit more I’ll probably discover a lot more of what I am/am not into so that will improve over time I suppose |
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