"She has these restraints that hook around your bed and wants me to blindfold and restrain her, what should I do when I have her restrained, I need some ideas"
Start by surprising her with where and how you touch her. Vary the contact and the pace. Use different sensations like fingers, toys, feathers, ice, even the end of a belt lightly dragged over the skin. Tease more vulnerable areas like the neck, stomach and inner thighs, and pay attention to how she reacts. When something clearly gets a response, stay with it and build on it.
A blindfold can make everything feel more intense because she can't anticipate what's coming next, so sound, touch and timing matter even more. Contrast is nice, a more gentle touch followed by something firmer. When you can't see, you focus more on the other senses, so it can heighten the feeling of what someone does.
If she wants restraint, I'd talk first about what kind of experience she wants from it. Does she want teasing, control, intensity, helplessness, praise, a bit of fear, or to feel pushed slightly out of her comfort zone in a way that still feels safe? Agree limits first, maybe have a safeword, and then play confidently within that space. |
