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By *CExeCouple 6 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
Start by going for a drink with a guy while hubby stays at home. No naughtiness, just a social drink, and see how he handles any jealousy. Take things slowly. The last couple I was a 'bull' for were new to it. We had a couple of socials where hubby stayed in the car while wifey and I had a drink. Progressed to going to theirs one evening, all getting on before progressing to bedroom. It's great fun when it works and you've got the right guy and the right dynamic. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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The cuckolding side of the lifestyle is very different for all those involved.
It helps to have a really clear discussion with yourselves, and then others as to what you are seeking and the boundaries.
Communication is even more important in the hotwife and cuckold dynamics |
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks "
I love this . So naughty. You will find it really spices up your relationship to the next level to . As long as there is no jealousy 😈 |
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks "
We’ve been a cuckold couple for over 30 years, certainly something we’ve enjoyed and embraced and Dee especially has enjoyed some fun times with guys.
Our advice would be, take things at your pace and what you want to get out of it, you’ll be fine then. |
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks "
I’ve met several couples over the years, for varying degrees of cuckold experiences. Every couple is different, with what they each are looking for from the ‘situationship’, but I continue to be the exclusive lover to the wife of one couple, after almost 10 years now. She and I have even visited Chameleons swinger club in Darlaston, 3 times, as a couple in our right, while hubby stayed at home in Cumbria. Such is the trust we have built in our relationship over the years….😎👍 |
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By *CExeCouple 6 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks
Difficult when you block males ? "
They probably blocked them like we do to avoid getting 100 daft messages a day from horndogs, and made a thread instead so they can pick and choose anyone who catches their eye with an offer. |
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By *liandaCouple 6 weeks ago
london |
There are so many nuances to this - most people who have been to clubs have seen guys trying to persuade their wife or girlfriend to play with another guy, only to realise that they werent as into it as they thought they would be when the wife starts to really enjoy herself.
but if you are both into it, it really is fabulous. we started off as a swinger couple, to begin with i would arrange the guys and tell ali what i wanted her to do. it just changed slowly - i dont know exactly when it became cuckoldry rather than swinging - but if there was a single moment it was the first time she was fucking someone and i realised she wasnt looking at me. i asked her after, she said she decided she didnt care what i was doing, she was enjoying it so much.
i loved it! |
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
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Difficult when you block males ?
They probably blocked them like we do to avoid getting 100 daft messages a day from horndogs, and made a thread instead so they can pick and choose anyone who catches their eye with an offer."
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks "
Hello to you both. An experienced gentleman bull here with the previous privilege of meeting with Indian couples.
I would enjoy taking time to explore with you and welcome a message. |
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"Love the hand over - especially in public.
ali kissing me goodbye in the bar, with her guys hand on her arse, before she walks off hand in hand with him - to the lift or the front door"
She calls you from the room to allow you to hear her reactions to him……… |
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i guess buy trying you mean roleplay fantasy ? then thats pretty easy to find as its basically all sex based.
if you mean real life ie your partner cant please you then thats a process and part of the relationship that is as much mentally as is sexual.
most cuckolding is roleplay fantasy great fun for those who do it  |
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Mrs wrestled with guilt on the first couple of occasions & a couple of fine adjustments on the steering wheel have been required here & there in respect of solo meetings/overnights/frequency/same bull or one offs etc.
We’re both happy how it’s going though, no regrets  |
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You need to ensure that the guy you involve is totally respectful to you both. If he’s not, it’s a bit no no!
I go to a local naturist spa and get invited in to couples play time. Respect is vital and without it will be a long term problem. Not just from me but from the wife as well. Respect his feels. He may well want to watch you get fucked properly or suck a big cock but he also needs to reclaim you afterwards. The guy needs to leave you alone and thank you for allowing you both to accepting him into your relationship for the time your have fun
Set your guidelines before you start. |
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By *omRachCouple 6 weeks ago
Wirral |
Take as much time as you need finding the right guy for YOU BOTH. Make sure he fully understands what it is you are looking for as everybodys needs differ to a certain degree. Don't be rushed also, you are in charge here.
We have found some very good guys on this site. 2 of them were excellent and fully got what we were looking for, there will be somebody out there that is the right fit for your particular dynamic, you simply need to find him lol.
Good Luck |
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People think jealousy on the part of the cuckold is a big problem however the wife falling for her lover is one of the biggest problems. If you are certain she won’t then I can be a very rewarding part to your lives for all involved |
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks "
Communication is key. Getting to know who the right person is for the dynamics in play here. Socials should never be off the table especially for building chemistry. Rushing the moment often spoils everything |
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We are a cuckolding couple and have been for years. Cuckolding can be very different for each of the 3 people involved. We all have out reasons for doing it, that is the key to understanding why.
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We wish you all the best.
Rachel paul |
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"We are a cuckolding couple and have been for years. Cuckolding can be very different for each of the 3 people involved. We all have out reasons for doing it, that is the key to understanding why.
We also have some true writings about us you may be intrested in;
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1774975
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1744616
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1744883
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1774972
We wish you all the best.
Rachel paul"
Definitely the real deal in cuck couples !! |
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By *evlishduncMan 5 weeks ago
north suffolk south norfolk |
I see it so often- someone using a term and possibly not understanding what’s wrapped up in it. I would say, have a fully open, safe conversation: describe what each of you would like and then distill that into a request. That way you will be able to understand each other’s desires and communicate them to your potential third.
What some people describe as a cuckold relationship may well be a stag/vixen relationship.
Enjoy your exploration! X |
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Assess your potential Bull. GET his face picture and ask him to call you as a voice gives an indication of being genuine,
Arrange a social meet for all three and after female has settled leave them for an hour before returning,
Then leave any future arrangements entirely to
them. With you only hearing from Female any progress, as she must be in charge totallyxx |
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From personal experience, finding the right guy is incredibly difficult. Of 100 blokes who say they are "bulls", almost 99 will have no real experience beyond wank fantasies. The biggest Red Flag is anyone who claims to have bulled for many couples, which is about as believable as claiming they found £50 in the street many times.
Cucking is also a very broad church, so beware of anyone who makes assumptions about what you're into before asking you. DM me if you'd prefer. |
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Start with a mfm 3sum, invite a guy over. But maybe for part of it just get your man to sit and watch, see how he feels just watching you play with another guy.
We're starting to explore this side of things. I'm not ever gonna be a full time cuck but I get off seeing her with other men. We've had meets where a guy comes over, I use my mouth to get him hard and then I just sit back and watch.
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"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
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Hi.
Experienced bull here with introduction to newbie couples as well.
Its all a case about communication, understanding each other, as everyone pleasure is important. Happy to go slow and build things up. Have been involved in previous long term cuckold relationships. |
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I am part of a stag/vixen couple, the hardest thing is to find a bull that understands our dynamic, most think we are Cuckold as she is a hotwife, just because I enjoy seeing vixen have fun doesn’t mean I want to be a cuck.
Communication is so important, between each other and also potential bulls, take things slowly and enjoy the journey |
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Advise is let your bloke decide your meet get him feeling involved also start of slow so you can see his reactions some like the idea until they see another man enjoying thier women and jealousy can take over, social is always good idea first so everyone knows what they are getting in to |
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By *ohnysteMan 5 weeks ago
newcastle under lyme |
"Hello.. my husband recently started thinking about cuckolding… need someone to show us the ropes
Thanks "
Take it at YOUR pace. Don't do anything you dont want to & have a safe word only you two know so you can protect each other. Remember even in swinging no means NO. |
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So many many lucky couples replying to this post I’m very jealous of each and every husband that the wife treats him this way thank you all for sharing what you have you’ve made me very jealous indeed  |
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"So many many lucky couples replying to this post I’m very jealous of each and every husband that the wife treats him this way thank you all for sharing what you have you’ve made me very jealous indeed "
me too!! |
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Now that the concert we were going to at the AO Arena in Manchester has been cancelled (Sammy Hagar),
We now have 3 full nights to fulfill my wife's sexuall desires for black cock gangbangs
Disappointed regarding concert but excited for my wife's fun. |
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"two main types one is lifestyle cuckolding where cuck is cuck for real reasons and fantast roleplay ..most are roleplay and bnoth are very different"
As a lifestyle cuckold couple ourselves, I’d say the split is probably 50/50 from cuckold couples we’ve chatted to and yes the dynamics are generally very different. |
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"Its interesting as Mr does like the idea of seing Mrs with another guy but not the humilation aspect that cucking often comes withProbably more stag vixen?"
I guess so year but hard to explain that to some folks! |
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"Its interesting as Mr does like the idea of seing Mrs with another guy but not the humilation aspect that cucking often comes withProbably more stag vixen?
I guess so year but hard to explain that to some folks!"
That can be the case unfortunately. But when you meet someone who does take the time to understand what you both like, it can be great fun! |
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"Its interesting as Mr does like the idea of seing Mrs with another guy but not the humilation aspect that cucking often comes withProbably more stag vixen?
I guess so year but hard to explain that to some folks!"
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I have a lot of experience with cuckold couples over the years and as others say each couple are different
My approach is always the same I always initially message/speak to the male because ultimately I am in effect borrowing his wife.
I set various scenarios along with what he wants from the experience and go from there.
This way by seducing the mind the males imagination takes over.
The male has to be fully on board at all times.
Then similar with the lady.
Next stage is speak on phone to both because it is easier to get idea of personality of them and and vice versa.
I stick to the above because one time I met a couple at theirs both lovely people, at one point as me and the lady were making love and out of the blue hubby came over and bear in mind the i was inside his wife blew up into a full on argument between them.
He had a go at her then me as he thought she was enjoying it too much even accused us of having affair it was first time we had met. He stormed off we got dressed and spoke about what happened and him after he calmed down he admitted he got jealous I suggested that cuckolding may not be for them in particular for him.
This is why from then I stick to the same approach mentioned above.
I kept in contact with them but explained I would not meet again due to what happened whilst it can be great my safety is important. |
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I started meeting a couple, that led to mfm, then myself and wife with him just watching. This was over a year or so.
But the wife started to develop more feelings for me and I just couldn't take his wife away from him so ended it.
I've had other interactions with couples but none that developed into full cuckoldry.
In my marriage I would have been happy for her to continue her first lesbian relationship but she ended it between us. Hohum |
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"Luv to hear from any cucks "
I enjoyed being a cuck but I always wanted to share my Mrs so it came easy to me and encouraged it, ironically my Mrs preferred to fuck my best mate and I became a cuck inadvertently in the relationship!!! |
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"There are so many nuances to this - most people who have been to clubs have seen guys trying to persuade their wife or girlfriend to play with another guy, only to realise that they werent as into it as they thought they would be when the wife starts to really enjoy herself.
but if you are both into it, it really is fabulous. we started off as a swinger couple, to begin with i would arrange the guys and tell ali what i wanted her to do. it just changed slowly - i dont know exactly when it became cuckoldry rather than swinging - but if there was a single moment it was the first time she was fucking someone and i realised she wasnt looking at me. i asked her after, she said she decided she didnt care what i was doing, she was enjoying it so much.
i loved it!"
I know how you feel there I’ve had that too.
Asked my wife how it was and she told me she loved it and then to put me in my place she said “Honestly I’d forgotten at some point you were even in the room” I was enjoying it so much. Sorry hubby lol.
My heart rate went through the roof - massive turn on !! |
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I have met lots of cuckold couples over the years home and abroad for private meets or in clubs or adult cinema’s and when it comes to cuckolding how far you want to take it. I met one Indian cuckold couple and you will see by my pics and videos and he took the photos and videos of my time with his hot Indian slut wife who just loved cock and he just loved watching his hot Indian wife being a slut in front of him or for her to meet other guys alone. And there was another cuckold couple where the hubby would look after there son while she came to mine for me to play and fuck her and the would send pics and videos to his phone and then I decided to push her boundaries and took her to the attic day cinema in Derby and I got him to get her dressed to my liking and bring her to my car and he did and she was dressed in a little pink dress, no bra and you could see her nipples sticking though her dress plus a little black thong and stockings and his only ask was to drop her off later smelling of sex and full of cum, so me and a few other guys enjoy her body and some wanked over her while me and a few others took her bareback and filled her pussy with cum. I dropped her back home for hubby to fuck her and to clean up her cum filled pussy. So yes there is lots of cuckold hubbies out there that get off letting other men fuck there wives or girlfriends and watching them enjoying another man’s cock or cocks .
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Hi all, experienced bull here with over 15yrs meeting cuckold and hotwife couples. Am happy to chat with GENUINE couples and hotwives, use my experience to help guide you through your cuckolding fantasies.
Unfortunately most are dreamers and just the husband wanking over the idea.
Any GENUINE ladies or couples feel free to get in touch! |
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