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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Struggling after returning to fab to make connections and even get message replies.
Any advice on how my profile looks and reads would be much appreciated. Also any advice from seasoned members on introductory messages would also be welcomed |
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I think the profile is ok. The pics are nice as well.
You have only been here for 4 weeks, I'm not sure you have given it enough time. Especially with the male to female ratio.
As for first message. No one can help you. We are all different and want different things. You can't be all things to all people. So don't try. Be real. There is no magic formula |
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Your profile is fine though we dislike the "been here before". It's often a lie.
Your problem is that you are 1 of many 1000s.
Many people, like us, won't meet unverified. Chicken and egg situation? Oh yes, sadly.
As for your opening message. Make it interesting and obvious you've read the profile of the recipient. Do no mail people you do not fulfill the requirements of. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Noted thank you, I will change that line on my profile 
I do always read profiles, and try to be as personal as possible, using people names if they list them and mentioning specific interests or part of their profile, as you said I’m one of many and pretty new to the site so best to stick at it and keep plowing on (no pun intended )
Thanks for you advise x |
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It’s not bad.
You describe who you are, what you want and the sort of scenario you enjoy.
Some people will be put off by the”cheating housewife “ scenario and may assume you are in the same situation, as you want to meet during the day. Equally some people will be more interested.
The number of single men on here is huge compared to all the other categories. Your profile is already better than most (except forumites, who generally have excellent profiles)
But it’s still going to be difficult. Happy fabbing
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