Following on from my previous post “First time Cuckold story and questions”, we’re preparing for our third meet with “our guy” TONIGHT! 😬🎉
At some point over the next few days I’ll put together a proper write-up of how it all went, if there’s still some interest 😂
After the last post, we ended up having some really good conversations with a few people on here, plus quite a few private messages (one in particular stands out), and it’s been genuinely interesting speaking to others who are in a similar place to us. Realising there’s an actual community around this has been a bit of an eye-opener.
After a lot of thinking, reading, and some very long message exchanges, we’ve actually decided to move away from the “cuckold” label. Along with that, there are a few other terms we’ve found we don’t really like either, things like “bull” and “humiliation” just don’t sit right with us anymore. We’ve naturally started replacing them with things like “our guy” and focusing more on the teasing and dynamic itself.
We’ve also taken on board the importance of taking things slowly, not rushing anything, and really understanding what works for both of us as we go. The whole idea of aftercare has become a much bigger focus for us too, as well as being aware of things like sub-drop and how that can affect the mind in the hours afterwards.
Tonight we’ve made a conscious effort not to mentally overbook the meet, and not have too much of a rigid plan. The only thing we’ve really set is that she’ll go upstairs alone again, while I try to beat my previous “high score” of 9 minutes 😅
We’ve also spoken about introducing a bit more denial into it, things like being pushed away or told to stop touching, just to start exploring that side of the dynamic a bit more. As for me, I won’t be having sex with her until he’s finished… the rest we’ll just see how it unfolds 🤷♂️
Looking forward to updating you all. I’ll probably post a follow-up over the next few days once we’ve had time to process it properly. 👍 |
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Very much there is interest! I hope it goes really well for you both this evening, it sounds like you are taking care and thinking about things, which is a good sign as far as I can see. Good luck and I look forward to further updates! |
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