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What’s wrong with the profile?
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I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? "
We see this quite often.
There is no issue, they simply aren't interested in you.
Surely you know that?? |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? "
More photos. Try the Lobster approach. |
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Agree with above don’t use AI, and your age may play a part.
The bio is vague and actually contradicts itself in parts. It also suggests you’re impatient for meets which on here can translate as “I will stalk/ pressure/ demand immediate meets”. We all love sex, but a lot of women need a bit more than a wam, bam, thank you mam. What can you offer? What’s different about you compared to the others? What are you looking for body/ sex wise?
For starters |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? "
A few things why we’d would not be interested with a meet.
1) you’re still very young (you’re actually out of our age range) but I think you’re still young for a lot of people on the site.
2) you have hardly any pics, and there is just no reason for that in this day and age.
3) Your profile wording gave me the ick if I’m honest, that’s a personal thing and that won’t be the same for everyone
4) “ you don’t have to be perfect” I don’t know, I can’t decide if that is condescending, arrogant, or thirsty but it rubbed me up the wrong way. Again that’s personal, that won’t be the same for everyone.
5) you have no verifications, you mention in your message they are hard to get but in reality they are really not. If you were really serious about meeting people you would attend a local social or a club. There you could talk and engage with people and you would get verifications, it isn’t that hard.
Personally I think that you get out of this site what you put in to it and it doesn’t seem to me that you’ve put that much effort in, or enough that you can seem entitled or expect to get instant results anyway. |
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By *CExeCouple 4 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
Vague profile text, 1 photo and you can't accommodate.
Write a bit about yourself, not the wishy washy guff you have that says nothing.
Add some photos, though you've not fallen into having 100 nob photos which is good.
Explain why you can't accommodate otherwise folks will assume you're attached and playing away. If that's actually the case, say so.
Get chatting on the forums and cams, get to some socials and keep an eye on the meets page. I was your age when I started out and still am friends with and play with folks I met back then. |
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Is your bio AI? As that’s absolutely how it reads.
What someone writes in their own words on their profile is essential to me. It doesn’t have to be long, but it has to express your personality, and it has to make sense at the very least.
I can’t understand what you’re getting at in most of what you’ve written there. Delete and start over - just be natural. |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? "
There nothing wrong with your profile it’s that there are so many men on here for couples and woman to choose from , plus also some will say no verifications they will not meet plus a lot of couples want to meet other couples and not single guys. I got to admit fab is not has good has a few years back for what ever reason |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? "
Something that tells a LOT about you is that you've posted for advice yet not taken any on board or even acknowledged those that have tried to help.... |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue?
We see this quite often.
There is no issue, they simply aren't interested in you.
Surely you know that?? "
There was really no need to be quite so rude there.
Sone people... |
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"I understand the lack of pictures - is that all?
Also verifications are like jobs - you can’t gain experience with out a job and every job wants you to have experience 🙄
Im not inexperienced and I understand women on here get thousands of messages but even still - im clean and fit so what’s the issue? "
The main issue is;
You’re on a site with very, very, few single ladies using it. You can have the ‘best’ profile in here, but if there’s nobody hitting the tennis ball back over the net, you’re just practicing your serve…..🤷♂️
I use other apps to meet women, neither of which utilise a ‘Trip Advisor’ verification system, and it doesn’t stop me getting meets.
Just be you, project yourself from your profile in here, and be patient. Never think Fab is all there is. It really isn’t! You will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons, than you will in here.
Look at Fab as an escape from ‘normal’ life, a fun way to pass the time, don’t take it seriously, and never think there’s something ‘wrong’ with you. It really is down to the numbers in here, mostly; the lack of them. Good luck bud 😎👍 |
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By *G05Man 4 weeks ago
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Hey guys just looking to make my profile a bit better does anyone have any tips or advice I can’t post any videos as I haven’t had any veris yet and I know that’s a big red flag for a lot of people thank you  |
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"Hey guys just looking to make my profile a bit better does anyone have any tips or advice I can’t post any videos as I haven’t had any veris yet and I know that’s a big red flag for a lot of people thank you "
Best to start your own thread. People will offer advice without quoting and no-one will know who it's being offered to. |
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"Hey guys just looking to make my profile a bit better does anyone have any tips or advice I can’t post any videos as I haven’t had any veris yet and I know that’s a big red flag for a lot of people thank you "
What profile??
You haven't actually written anything.... |
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By *CExeCouple 4 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
"Hey guys just looking to make my profile a bit better does anyone have any tips or advice I can’t post any videos as I haven’t had any veris yet and I know that’s a big red flag for a lot of people thank you
What profile??
You haven't actually written anything.... "
🤣 less is more and all that.... |
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