We had done it a couple of times and will do more. She was and still is worried about the angle and movement. But if anything that actually shows her how much effort and skill is put in by a man to make her feel good during sex.
Love honey do a great strap on kit that has a small black tool for starting then a blue one with an optional vibrator in it.
I purchased it as a suprise and had a chat with her about understanding each other and the effort we both put in to many sexual acts. Pegging is just one of a few things where we will do a role reversal and it really helps appreciate what a partner does to please us.
Maybe a conversation like this will help discuss this but also other things she might want you to do and together you may learn more about each other more than you expect. |
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By *ickD80Man 3 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
If she’s told you that she doesn’t want to do it then that should be the end of it, you absolutely should not be trying to find ways to encourage her to do something that she’s told you she doesn’t want to do. I was ‘encouraged’ to do things i didn’t want to do by one of my ex’s and it’s still triggering for me to think about it….using the word ‘encouraged’ is just a way to disguise that it’s actually manipulation.
You really need to respect other people’s boundaries and stop trying to encourage people to do things just because you want them to, that goes for any relationship in any aspect of your life. It’s a selfish thing to do to anyone but especially to your girlfriend as you’re the person who she should be able to trust the most and feel the safest with. How can she trust you and feel safe with you when you’re trying to manipulate her into doing things she doesn’t want to do? |
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