Its rare to even chat to anyone on fab occasionally a no thanks from a profile with a few photos. However a female with no photos and minimal information gets the fakedar alerted. She claims her job is too important for any photos so how the hell can you meet someone invisible? TIA for any response |
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"I get that but if they want to meet its helpful to know what they look like surely  "
Yes it is but if they aren't prepared to show you you're not compatible.
You'll waste your time continuing to engage. |
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If someone says they want to meet you but you have different criteria for establishing they're who they say they are you're not compatible.
If someone says they are meeting it doesn't mean they will meet everyone who asks. That isn't a personal insult it just means you're not compatible.
If someone one is unwilling to verify themselves to you somehow it should be ringing alarm bells |
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A simple way of looking at things on here....
"If in doubt..... dont"
As in dont waste your time, dont make arrangements to meet if they arent engaging in a way you need before you are are willing to meet, dont share too much about yourself... "Do" move on because there are plenty more profiles to choose from. |
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We'd have moved on to be honest.
If someone doesn't want to share photos with us so we know what they look like, then that's the end of the interaction with us. We need to see someone to guage our attraction to that person physically, and if that's like playing a game of chess it just doesn't make sense for us to chase it |
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