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By *PS81 OP Man 1 week ago
Ashton |
I'm approaching couples and single women, but what should I put in my first message?
sometimes I wonder..
- should I keep it short, post a face pic and not waste both our times if there's no attraction?
- should I write a long message talking about their profile? or myself?
- do I include my likes in the first message?
anything else? any suggestions?
obviously I read profiles first and acknowledge certain points, but I never know whether to make the first message a long one or not.. and I know that everyone is different so it's not a one size fits all type jobby, and I also know that couples might have different opinions to single women.. and even if some men can give some advice on what works for them?
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"Iv been here a couple month now and weather I'm filthy or intelligent in a message I'm getting unread or deleted... iv no idea what's the issue "
I think if you read some of the profile advice threads then took a look at your own, you might spot a couple of things that might be putting people off.... |
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"You already have face pics on your profile so there's no need to send one. Pay them a compliment and comment on their profile to show you've read it. "
This is good advice 
Very short messages = no ta
Very long messages (cut and paste jobbies) = no ta
Empty profiles with zero effort = no ta
As has been suggested above, read people’s profiles, comment in your message on a pic or aspect of their profile to show you aren’t just randomly spamming every profile here without even reading it … which sadly some people clearly do! |
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