Hi op, some bi ladies won't want to be a first, some will..so it depends on the lady.
The main thing I'd say is you don't have any pics of the man on your profile.
If he's involved, you would be best to add some pics of him too. Is he only going to watch or will he be joining you?.Maybe be clear on that in your bio and what any lady who meets you could expect.
Bi women are the most sought after people on here, so it's not easy to attract them apparently.
Lots of couples/men want an ffm, so you do need to stand out and show both of you off.
The best advice I've seen on threads like this, is go to a club. It seems to be easier to connect and meet ladies there, rather than just using fab.
Good luck. |
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By *WB85Man 3 days ago
Staffordshire |
I prefer people to go out and explore a little first before I get involved.
I've seen people arguing before during and after a first meet when things haven't been discussed properly. I don't wish to be part of that. |
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We do all have to start somewhere yes, been honest is important though.
It’s not something I’d want to delve into with the woman of a couple. But I’m sure there are some women that would be comfortable with that. |
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By *aandLoCouple 3 days ago
Southampton |
"We are new to this and looking for my first lady to have a play with.
Does admitting this is my first rodeo put people off?"
I've certainly found there's quite a lot of reticence on Fab from experienced bi ladies about meeting me as a 'beginner.'
However, in clubs chatting to women and couples it's not been an issue for FF play as part of a couple swap/group play. Perhaps that might be a good way to start for you. xx |
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