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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message?   |
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By *ifornowCouple
over a year ago
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You are never obliged to message anyone. People will view profiles for many different reasons and just because they do, it doesn't mean that they are interested in you. If they are interested then they may wink or write to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message? "
are you interested in them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few regulars who look several times a day, 2 can't message as they're not verified but that's easily rectified if they really wanted to contact me, the others could if they wanted to but I guess they don't. I look at profiles and fab pics but it doesn't mean I'm interested in a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a couple (fairly local) who check my profile 2 or 3 times a day..... They been doing it for months. Do I have a stalker?"
Check the trees opposite your house and red dots flickering around the room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message? "
Block them they are vampires that do this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message? "
You post in the forums a lot. People sometimes look at the profile of posters. It does not mean they fancy you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Have a very sexy couple from up North that views me every couple of days (for the last 3months)...but I cannot message them as I'm 2 years out of their age range   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see why people get arsey about it, I quite like the idea that someone looks at my profile repeatedly. It's a back handed compliment. Also the criteria and aggressive rants you read in some profiles is enough to make anyone who lacks a little confidence scared to message. I don't see what harm it does. But also for those who simply don't have the skills to compose an appealing message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few regulars who look several times a day, 2 can't message as they're not verified but that's easily rectified if they really wanted to contact me, the others could if they wanted to but I guess they don't. I look at profiles and fab pics but it doesn't mean I'm interested in a meet. "
You don't have to be verified to message....unless you have blocked the option? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a few regulars who look several times a day, 2 can't message as they're not verified but that's easily rectified if they really wanted to contact me, the others could if they wanted to but I guess they don't. I look at profiles and fab pics but it doesn't mean I'm interested in a meet.
You don't have to be verified to message....unless you have blocked the option?"
I know. I've blocked non verified members. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have people who look at me regularly. Some could message, some can't. It is a bit strange especially if they look daily and more than once a day but it's their choice but a shame they don't as I think we might get on but I don't message them as it's their choice and I respect that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't look to see who's looked any more but I used to have a few that looked every day several times but never messaged,my filters are open so they could message they choose not to so I would never make a fool of myself and message them first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just joined as a site supporter and had a little look at who looked at me. Actually after looking I would have preferred to have not known.  "
and theres that fact too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a couple (fairly local) who check my profile 2 or 3 times a day..... They been doing it for months. Do I have a stalker?"
Sounds like you are their wank material |
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