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Is this normal?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are a verified genuine couple who has had 3 verifications from longtime members of fab. We have arranged to meet couples after exchanging face pics early on we have chatted alot thereafter and organised to meet, the couples are often people with many verifications, so we feel we're doing everything right, and yet we have been let down on our last 6 meets. We are trying to stay positive but can't deny it's proving difficult right now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is not a lot you can do about it in afraid, looks like your just having a run of bad luck. With new people we mainly agree to meet at clubs much easier

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We find that some people do like to talk the talk I'm afraid x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sorry you have had a bad experience. I've never let anyone down. But as a single person I only have me to worry about. I imagine if you are messaging couples one of them may change their minds ?

But never give up x

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By *ocmulletMan over a year ago

Colchester

Yes I would say a run of bad luck ...had it as well ..

Some People i think like the titillation more than actually going through with a meet unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't give up! Meets wills happen when everything falls into place

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm glad people seem to think it's bad luck, we've done the works, socialised at clubs etc.

Just soooo frustrating, I look at our profile and think, it looks normal, but are we missing something lol

Thanks though guys xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm glad people seem to think it's bad luck, we've done the works, socialised at clubs etc.

Just soooo frustrating, I look at our profile and think, it looks normal, but are we missing something lol

Thanks though guys xx"

your profile looks good just abit of bad luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Surfingcouple

You look wonderful. The only thing I'd say is loose the last paragraph on the profile... just resign yourself to the fact that some people are gonna be rude and try your best to ignore it. Keep your profile 100% positive... it'll improve your chances imo. Also I'd be tempted to take out the bit about your man being dominating. It just raises a question mark... how dominating? Far better to be chilled and easy going and only mention the dominating aspect if it seems appropriate to a specific meet. Finally... just wanted to say we'll probably be doing Secrets a few times so we very much hope to bump into your both when we're down your way as you look utterly irresistible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrange to meet for a drink first, then if they don't turn up or one of you decides not to play- you've not wasted an evening and you can still go home and have fun together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We just use fab to chat and forumise. Can't be bothered with all the time wasting on here. When we want to play we just go to a club. Play. Play play some more. Then we go home and play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens at times don't let it put you off. From the pics we can see on your page, you look hot, if only we were closer lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrange meets at Croyde when it's blowing offshore....meet at the Thatch

Win win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You seem to be doing everything right...just come across a few muppets. Block them and move on!

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