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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Wife wants me to dominate her so need advice from similar couples

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Wife wants me to dominate her so need advice from similar couples"

Read. There are loads of blogs and sites about dominance and submission.

Talk to her. Find out what she actually wants because everyone's interpretation of being dominated is different. She may want a steamy tie and tease session or she may have some secret fetishes that she might need help pushing her boundaries with. Dominance might not be for you.

Talk and read. That's my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wife wants me to dominate her so need advice from similar couples

Read. There are loads of blogs and sites about dominance and submission.

Talk to her. Find out what she actually wants because everyone's interpretation of being dominated is different. She may want a steamy tie and tease session or she may have some secret fetishes that she might need help pushing her boundaries with. Dominance might not be for you.

Talk and read. That's my advice. "

no one can really give you to much personal advice as its so specfic to you...

Read up on things together.. decide what you want to try and explore together

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wife wants me to dominate her so need advice from similar couples"

In my experience,

be patient,

communicate clearly what it is that turns you on and what the boundaries are,

be prepared to have a few stumbles and a few laughs as you are trying out new things,

be prepared for surprises,

try it if either doesn't like it try something else,

negotiate,

be open-minded,

look out for each-other,

be prepared to learn about eachothers desires by swapping roles a little because by receiving it as well as giving it the actions can speak louder than words so that you both might gain an insight into the others role

Most of all - communicate

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire

After all of that.....

Communicate some more

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for advice

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