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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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were having our 1st couples meet on sunday , and were bricking it on what to say or how to get thigs started. were not shy just worried if it all goes terribly wrong . |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"were having our 1st couples meet on sunday , and were bricking it on what to say or how to get thigs started. were not shy just worried if it all goes terribly wrong . "
don't worry - the nerves are all part of the fun - you'll figure it out when the time comes - just don't over-think things
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Inform the couple about your nerves / anxieties, if need be, ask them to take the lead, the majority of us suffer from some form of anxiety on a meet, what you don't want is for any anxieties to take control, leaving the couple thinking “we're not for them”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are the couple you are meeting 'more experienced'? If so I think they will take the lead but remember it's your home and your comfort for play. Don't go along with something just because you want a success story. I am sure th ebutterflies will have disappeared when the ring of the bell arrives... a lot of the worry is heightened anticipation which is natural. Just treat it as a social meet and do all of the same things you would do if you were inviting guests in the usual manner. Hope you all have a lovely time whatever the outcome xxx |
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u will be fine, if it helps wear something sexy (perhaps the missus) to show ur wanting some fun. And i agree with the previous post, make a joke about you feeling a bit nervous. Dont forget good eye contact and lots of smiling encourages the other couple too.
Relax and have a sexy time
good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just treat it like a normal social meet-if that is possible.
I think evereryone is nervous of meeting new people but obviously added "pressure" for you guys.
Don't drink too much otherwise things can go wrong!
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