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Chams on a Friday help we are trying to be brave :-)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We have only ever been to Chams a Saturday night which is of course couples only after 7:30pm

Now we would like to try a Friday night as Alice would love some fun with the guys

The problem is we do not know want to expect we just have this picture in our heads of loads of guys following us around and being pestered all the time

Please tell us it's not like this

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

There could be an element of that, but it's unlikely to be relentless pestering.

Maybe try 6pm on a Saturday first - then you know it's only for a finite amount of time...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There could be an element of that, but it's unlikely to be relentless pestering.

Maybe try 6pm on a Saturday first - then you know it's only for a finite amount of time...?"

Yeah we have thought about doing that but then we think we may get pestered even more by the guys desperate for some fun before they have to leave

. Sorry it's just how our minds work we are just being very paranoid lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

You're entitled to be cautious, but that seems the ideal way of testing the water. If it did get a bit much you could escape to either the couples-only room, the couples changing area, or just a private room - and wait til they'd all gone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah does sound like a good idea cheers for that

We would love to hear from couples who have been on a Friday night to tell us what's it really like

We love the Saturday nights at Chams but just want to try sometimg different for our next vist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Friday and Sunday are my favourite evenings. You do get the occasional guy who's everywhere you are, but mostly they're pretty clued up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Friday and Sunday are my favourite evenings. You do get the occasional guy who's everywhere you are, but mostly they're pretty clued up. "

Cool thanks for that Brightbabe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Friday and Sunday are my favourite evenings. You do get the occasional guy who's everywhere you are, but mostly they're pretty clued up.

Cool thanks for that Brightbabe

Sunday might be a good time for you as it's quieter than a Friday, bit more chilled, but still plenty of guys if you want to play.

If you're ever there and reckon you can spot me - make sure to say hi!

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By *s_4_uCouple over a year ago

nottinghamshire

We been to chams a few times have never really been pestered and mrs us is gourgeous if i may say so mysely and dresses to impress. 1 weired guy kept being a little annoying made it clear we werent interested then he left us. dont worry you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... we do not know want to expect we just have this picture in our heads of loads of guys following us around and being pestered all the time

Please tell us it's not like this "

I started at a swingers club on a Saturday, and like you, I was very apprehensive about Fridays, fearing hordes of pushy single guys. When I finally plucked up courage to go on Friday, I found I had been worrying about nothing. The single guys were generally friendly and polite, and now I love my Fridays.

So don't worry about it - just go! If I could do it as a single girl, then you two will have no problems as a couple. Also, my club is La Chambre, which is an excellent club, but Chameleons has an ever better reputation for its polite and respectful single men.

Happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all we are going to go for it :

We will let you know how we get on ,should be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you want a friday night at chams which are my fave try there party weekends they are so much fun there is a list on their web site and its great fun to dress up, Plus you get a more even number of guys and gals. And the guys are great full of respect and not so much of the wolves hunting in packs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you want a friday night at chams which are my fave try there party weekends they are so much fun there is a list on their web site and its great fun to dress up, Plus you get a more even number of guys and gals. And the guys are great full of respect and not so much of the wolves hunting in packs."

Yeah all the Saturday nights that we have been to Chams are the party nights and when we pick a Friday it will be a party night for sure as like you will love them

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By *BW38jWoman over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

im a single women who goes to chams alone. i do get followed but its ok. cant wait for the 11th . costume ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thought we would resurrect this thread instead of starting a new one

We have picked a date for our first Friday night at Chams

We both are really looking forward to it

The reason for this post is we would love to maybe meet up with a couple who we also be going on the Friday , it's next Friday 25th Feb

So if any other couples who Will be then please get in touch

Dave & Alice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was there last friday i felt like a porn star x lolol love that club

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By *iamondladyWoman over a year ago

titsville

I go to the club frequently on my own and never had a problem with the single guys at all. I sometimes wonder if the guys in a couple make more of it than there is. Because surely if a single guys were going to hassle ladies they would go for the single ones first and as you can read from all the single ladies above this doesn't happen to them either. Or am I missing something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes I think we are just worrying over nothing and we are both really looking forward to it especially Alice

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By *im halpertMan over a year ago

redditch

fridays are fine-you may get followed a bit but no thanks is usually enough.most of the single men are respectful there -have fun!its usually a good mix of couples and single people weve gone on a lot of fridays xx

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By *im halpertMan over a year ago

redditch

we may be there on 25th feb xx

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By *anetandNickCouple over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Chams Darlaston is definitely one of the best places if you're looking for a little extra - there are often some very attractive guys.

One thing to bear in mind, is that since we're all different, the guys are never exactly sure what to do. Some girls like a very gentle approach, whereas certain others (guess who!) most enjoy a big jostling crowd.

So my advice is, once you've got your group of guys together, get them organised, and tell them exactly what to do. Then they can relax, they know they won't offend.

Have fun!

Janet

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can get a few guys following and generally being irritating, but a firm 'no' generally works. As a couple, get your bloke to be close if you are playing with single guys to ward off any you don't want to play with you. if you are at all nervous probably best to avoid the round room - it seems to be generally accepted as the gang bang room and can be pretty full on! Go for it and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i was in the round room having fun loads looking wanking over us playing that was fine ....i find the singles there are very nice .. couples are lovely too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cheers all sooooooooo cannot wait for a week Friday now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We haven't been on a Friday or a Saturday, both work them unfortunately

But we've been a monday - Bi night. Even though we're both bi, we hated it, we were followed and pestered by guys!

Been on a wednesday, tbh honest it was the same deal, worse even, as some where playing with phones.

Been Sunday's a few times now! Our favorite, plenty couples and a good few sexy guys, it seems more relaxed, or maybe we are

We would imagine a friday is similar, as its the weekend.

Hope you enjoy whatever you decide.

A&J

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