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By *JB1954 OP Man
over a year ago
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need some help or answers.Last Sunday while in chat, contacted by couple, who i had lost contact with when MSN, was shut down. chatted to them, on fab in chat, then on YM, Then on kik. since last messages, their kik is showing S, their YM is showing idle. on fab, i added to hot list, this shows not been on line since Sunday, did name search and profile came up. my question is have i been blocked on kik and YM, But not on fab which seems odd. any one suggestions etc. |
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"need some help or answers.Last Sunday while in chat, contacted by couple, who i had lost contact with when MSN, was shut down. chatted to them, on fab in chat, then on YM, Then on kik. since last messages, their kik is showing S, their YM is showing idle. on fab, i added to hot list, this shows not been on line since Sunday, did name search and profile came up. my question is have i been blocked on kik and YM, But not on fab which seems odd. any one suggestions etc. "
That's an awful lot of contact. Try writing them a letter? |
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By *JB1954 OP Man
over a year ago
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lol yes tried to ensure would not lose contact like last time, yet i know chat on here and YM was on their laptop. KIK was on tablet. if she had blocked me, why not fab also, bit cannot work out. also never seen YM stay on idle that long,we changed to kik when laptop needed charging. |
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Maybe they are having a break from you. Sounds like you are a bit needy of their messages. To think they blocked you must mean you feel insecure about your friendship . The fact it goes to S and shows offline means they are not online so maybe no wifi . I'd be more concerned for their health than if they had blocked you |
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By *JB1954 OP Man
over a year ago
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That is why asking, know kik shows S for reason, never seen YM show idle for length of time.as far as i am aware, logs off if laptop etc, losses power. so more worried something not right. so has anyone seen YM show idle for over now four days ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Drop 'em a message on here (or text if you have their number) then leave it. If they're ill or away they'll get in touch with you when they can. If they don't want to talk to you, no amount of bothering and badgering will change their mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just means they haven't bern online....simple. Idle doesn't mean you are blocked on YM.
S on Kik means it has been sent but not received...again. Likely they just haven't been online. Maybe their internet has gone down....don't stress about it...you will have a coronary at this rate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree totally,it comes across stalker material.Maybe you scared them off which happens a lot when some fellas get a reply.Just move on and dont hound them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say that If I was that couple and read this thread I would be hitting those block buttons right about now.
If they are able to communicate, and wish to, they will do. |
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"Drop 'em a message on here (or text if you have their number) then leave it. If they're ill or away they'll get in touch with you when they can. If they don't want to talk to you, no amount of bothering and badgering will change their mind."
This. Anything more is just plain creepy/stalker-ish, on top of what you have already said. |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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When someone you've only really made contact with through online's communications go quiet why not leave it there.
Sniffing them out on here, there, everywhere. Seeing if they've logged on here, on there and then coming in forums with the stats and what should I do questions could give people, other cpls/fems an impression 
Fakers, wasters, liars & bulls#itters aside. When someone, anyone has to go offline, retires to their space in silence or simply decides someone aint for them so aint going to be meeting you have to respect that. That's how it should be towards others, thats how others should be towards you
Anything else and someone's going to hmmmm and get uncomfy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They contacted him on fab chat and spoke to him on YM and Kik. He's only wondering if he's been blocked not asking for help to track them down and beg them to see him. God,you lot do love making a mountain out of a molehill  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They contacted him on fab chat and spoke to him on YM and Kik. He's only wondering if he's been blocked not asking for help to track them down and beg them to see him. God,you lot do love making a mountain out of a molehill "
I'm glad you wrote that. I kept thinking I'd really missed something here. It all seemed very mutual to me - no stalking at all. I'm guessing they are just away on holiday with no internet |
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By *JB1954 OP Man
over a year ago
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I have not posted for couple of days. This due to most above being non helpful. Also to the abusive mails I received from others. Thanks to the few above and sent mail who Actually answered about yahoo. I have had contact now from them. Actually apologising for not contacting me. There was a family emergency which happened on day of chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have not posted for couple of days. This due to most above being non helpful. Also to the abusive mails I received from others. Thanks to the few above and sent mail who Actually answered about yahoo. I have had contact now from them. Actually apologising for not contacting me. There was a family emergency which happened on day of chat. "
I'm happy thats all it was - if you know what I mean. You never came over as stalkerish to me. Hopefully you'll all have a good time now |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"I have not posted for couple of days. This due to most above being non helpful. Also to the abusive mails I received from others. Thanks to the few above and sent mail who Actually answered about yahoo. I have had contact now from them. Actually apologising for not contacting me. There was a family emergency which happened on day of chat. "
Forums replied/opinions be they right, wrong, indifferent, misconstrued or sometimes edgy are one thing. But abusive private emails  Good to hear that sad as feck mature adult swingers are still frequenting the site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why talk in so many places ? i only have those options for my best mates fab chat mostly stays on fab with the exception of a few ladies i keep up with on here and phone |
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It does seem weird to have so many avenues of chat with one couple.
OP, I hope you've learned to not take everything personally. At the end of the day real life comes first, don't assume that because someone hasn't got back to you they've disappeared off the face of the earth! |
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By *JB1954 OP Man
over a year ago
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"It does seem weird to have so many avenues of chat with one couple.
OP, I hope you've learned to not take everything personally. At the end of the day real life comes first, don't assume that because someone hasn't got back to you they've disappeared off the face of the earth! "
Yes I am thick skinned , but some of mails received were very personnel and perhaps I should have reported to admin. I am not like that. Just sad that so called couples / females who are keyboard warriors , did not dare mail sent me did not put reply on forum . Would have been most probly automatic ban. In this day and Internet age people use various means of contact , so I have most, some very hardly used. Again thanks to those who were genuine in their answers and did give answer I asked for . Some on the forum just like as I have seen , just want to have their option be correct , just to cause an argument |
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