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Thinking about deleting my profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been contemplating on closing down my tvclair profile for sometime now been finding it hard to get meets as of late and TBH I don't think I can pull the look off like I did in the past (an age thing)lol Was thinking about starting a profile just as a guy Any other TVs/CDs gone thru this or are struggling to get meets or couples n females. Just thought I'd get it out ???????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you can have more than one profile. hide the tv one while you see if you like the new man one
bear in mind that tv's will get a fair amount of interest but single men.... probably zero..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd also suggest hiding rather than deleting - at least you leave your options open, especially as you have veris on that profile. Have heard lots of guys complain that they deleted their profile and have then had to start over when they came back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd also suggest hiding rather than deleting - at least you leave your options open, especially as you have veris on that profile. Have heard lots of guys complain that they deleted their profile and have then had to start over when they came back. "
Yeh I didn't think of the veris. Good thinking Thanks for the advice guys x. Going to have a think then make a decision on what to do xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From your pics I think you do great at pulling off the look! Has something happened to knock your confidence?
I agree just hide your profile and see if you come back to it. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been considering this myself OP. You are not alone in having a titful haha. But better to hide your profile, and set up another. If you enjoy your new profile better, you could always delete your old one then  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From your pics I think you do great at pulling off the look! Has something happened to knock your confidence?
I agree just hide your profile and see if you come back to it. Good luck x"
. I think it's just an age thing with me at the moment Maybe knocking me a bit. And thank you for your kind words xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been considering this myself OP. You are not alone in having a titful haha. But better to hide your profile, and set up another. If you enjoy your new profile better, you could always delete your old one then . "
yeh I am going to have a ponder then make a decision on what I am going to do. Hide my profile is a good option xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i'd be more likely to meet a single guy than a tv, although i do meet both.
if your pics are recent you are doing a good job of pulling off the look."
. Thank you for your kind words xxx the most recent was last month set of pics and the rest are all in the space of around 2 yr xx |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Only you can decide... Whatever you choose have fun. 
If you want to see how hard it is for a single guy post an "I'm thinking of leaving thread" as a single and see those responses.. grass ain't always greener |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i'd be more likely to meet a single guy than a tv, although i do meet both.
if your pics are recent you are doing a good job of pulling off the look.. Thank you for your kind words xxx the most recent was last month set of pics and the rest are all in the space of around 2 yr xx"
you're welcome.
yeah you look fine.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all think about it when the level of crudity and messages that clearly just regard you as a tick list easy piece of meat get too much for your self respect .
Hide . Take a break |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think we all think about it when the level of crudity and messages that clearly just regard you as a tick list easy piece of meat get too much for your self respect .
Hide . Take a break "
why should I hide |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we all think about it when the level of crudity and messages that clearly just regard you as a tick list easy piece of meat get too much for your self respect .
Hide . Take a break why should I hide "
She meant hide your profile, not you hide |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think we all think about it when the level of crudity and messages that clearly just regard you as a tick list easy piece of meat get too much for your self respect .
Hide . Take a break why should I hide
She meant hide your profile, not you hide "
god yeh. I totally misread their message Feel a right idiot now xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This doesn't sound like it's about your profile, more about you and dressing.
This is a common feeling among the 'community'. Have you heard about 'purging'?
TVs and cross dressers often doubt themselves. Perhaps because they're not happy with their look or because they feel bad about what they're doing. They throw away all the stuff they use to 'transform' and think they'll never do it again.
I'll tell you know that they pretty much always do dress again.
What you're feeling is normal. Common place.
If you need to, take a break. Don't throw your stuff away.
Hide your profile and open one as a man and come back to it when you're ready.
I had my doubts too. Dressing is just a symptom of my condition. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This doesn't sound like it's about your profile, more about you and dressing.
This is a common feeling among the 'community'. Have you heard about 'purging'?
TVs and cross dressers often doubt themselves. Perhaps because they're not happy with their look or because they feel bad about what they're doing. They throw away all the stuff they use to 'transform' and think they'll never do it again.
Yeh I have purged a few times and always regretted selling my things then having to start all over again a few months later. TBH honest I don't dress that often now compared to last year. If I were to dress it would be for a meet which doesn't happen very often lol xxxc
I'll tell you know that they pretty much always do dress again.
What you're feeling is normal. Common place.
If you need to, take a break. Don't throw your stuff away.
Hide your profile and open one as a man and come back to it when you're ready.
I had my doubts too. Dressing is just a symptom of my condition. Xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This doesn't sound like it's about your profile, more about you and dressing.
This is a common feeling among the 'community'. Have you heard about 'purging'?
TVs and cross dressers often doubt themselves. Perhaps because they're not happy with their look or because they feel bad about what they're doing. They throw away all the stuff they use to 'transform' and think they'll never do it again.
I'll tell you know that they pretty much always do dress again.
What you're feeling is normal. Common place.
If you need to, take a break. Don't throw your stuff away.
Hide your profile and open one as a man and come back to it when you're ready.
I had my doubts too. Dressing is just a symptom of my condition. Xxx"
Rachael is right.
What ever you decide to do Clair,please DO NOT purge!!
I had to kill Samantha of last year and everything went straight into recycling bin at Asda...and in talking £0000's.Not a single picture even survived of someone so dear to 'me'.
Samantha will always be apart of me,and Clair of you,and purging will only get rid of the physical things not your feelings.
Im so happy now that im building here back up,treating her to some lovely things to replace what was dumped.Its not the money thing i think off after the purge but how much please having her about that makes it all worth while |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been contemplating on closing down my tvclair profile for sometime now been finding it hard to get meets as of late and TBH I don't think I can pull the look off like I did in the past (an age thing)lol Was thinking about starting a profile just as a guy Any other TVs/CDs gone thru this or are struggling to get meets or couples n females. Just thought I'd get it out ????????"
i coudnt message you for advice. Never mind  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been contemplating on closing down my tvclair profile for sometime now been finding it hard to get meets as of late and TBH I don't think I can pull the look off like I did in the past (an age thing)lol Was thinking about starting a profile just as a guy Any other TVs/CDs gone thru this or are struggling to get meets or couples n females. Just thought I'd get it out ????????i coudnt message you for advice. Never mind "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Claire I have been having the same problems and think of doing the same and getting rid of my profile and trying to find some naughty fun through other routes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been contemplating on closing down my tvclair profile for sometime now been finding it hard to get meets as of late and TBH I don't think I can pull the look off like I did in the past (an age thing)lol Was thinking about starting a profile just as a guy Any other TVs/CDs gone thru this or are struggling to get meets or couples n females. Just thought I'd get it out ????????i coudnt message you for advice. Never mind "
Denise I have tried to message you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we all think about it when the level of crudity and messages that clearly just regard you as a tick list easy piece of meat get too much for your self respect .
Hide . Take a break why should I hide
She meant hide your profile, not you hide god yeh. I totally misread their message Feel a right idiot now xx "
Don't stress about it ! We all misread . The Internet message has no time or facial expression . We did mean : hide your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one will be bothered if you do close it!?."
I think you'll be surprised how many people will miss her if she goes, but thanks for your insensitive input anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one will be bothered if you do close it!?."
No one? You think you have the authority to speak for everyone? You speak only for yourself, so a little tip would be to change the 'no one' to 'I won't be bothered'. This thread disproves your spiteful retort, otherwise it would be a dead thread, with nobody commenting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one will be bothered if you do close it!?.
No one? You think you have the authority to speak for everyone? You speak only for yourself, so a little tip would be to change the 'no one' to 'I won't be bothered'. This thread disproves your spiteful retort, otherwise it would be a dead thread, with nobody commenting."
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"No one will be bothered if you do close it!?.
No one? You think you have the authority to speak for everyone? You speak only for yourself, so a little tip would be to change the 'no one' to 'I won't be bothered'. This thread disproves your spiteful retort, otherwise it would be a dead thread, with nobody commenting."
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been contemplating on closing down my tvclair profile for sometime now been finding it hard to get meets as of late and TBH I don't think I can pull the look off like I did in the past (an age thing)lol Was thinking about starting a profile just as a guy Any other TVs/CDs gone thru this or are struggling to get meets or couples n females. Just thought I'd get it out ????????"
A bit of a mix really, I have left before, lost the verifications a few people I did actually look forward to exchanging more than one line messages and now I'm back.
Another thought is to have a profile on the other site the fab guy one, there's more than a few there. A sort of lazy TV option where a pair of panties or a pop sock will do
Xxc
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was not meant to be an insult it's a fact If you close your account people will just move to another one.  "
It sounded like one from here, and that's not a fact at all. I don't know about OP but we build up connections with people on here and there have been a few people I've missed when they've gone UNLOS, not necessarily even people I've met but those I've enjoyed chatting to. You have no idea who will or won't miss the OP but from the way they post I suspect you're dead wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one will be bothered if you do close it!?.
I think this thread has proved that people do care actually. Your venom isn't needed here"
Sure the same could be thought of the poster of the top line here ?! |
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"No one will be bothered if you do close it!?.
I think this thread has proved that people do care actually. Your venom isn't needed here
Sure the same could be thought of the poster of the top line here ?! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do they delete it. I am so mad at myself for deleting mine "
I am sure they set up another profile before they do....just in case they cant handle life on the outside |
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