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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't get hard due to cancer.my wife still needs sex.I am ok with her wanting sex.and have said to meet people for sex.she is why but wants to do it.problem is I want to watch as she has sex.
I am a c/d |
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There is no reason why you can't have a couples profile.
Lots of couples meet men and the husband/partner doesn't play, he just watches.
Just put into your profile that this is what you both want from meets. It would probably be advisable to say you are a cross dresser too as some guys may not want to meet while you are dressed.
Going to a club would be a good way to find this too. If you choose a night where single men are allowed you will have the opportunity to watch while she plays. |
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"I can't get hard due to cancer.my wife still needs sex.I am ok with her wanting sex.and have said to meet people for sex.she is why but wants to do it.problem is I want to watch as she has sex.
I am a c/d"
Right... who is that a problem for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its a problem at all. There's a lot of decent people on here who would understand your problem, plus it's a swingers site so really no one ahould judge. Personally if you were closer I would love to help you guys out.
Can you not look into medical treatment. Sure they so something for your problem, implant, pump etc...
Good luck guys |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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I know from having cancer myself that sex was the last thing on my mind plus I physically couldn't, not without me causing more problems.
So focus on getting better, if your wife loves you she'll understand unlike my ex that did it anyway!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alternatively mate, consider one of those prosthetic devices that effectively gives you a pump up penis. As I recall they replace one of your testes with a small pump and replace the erection tissue in your penis with a "balloon" of sorts that means you can still get hard regardless of blood flow or anything like that.
I don't know what your situation is, and whether or not it's something you would be interested in but I found the idea fascinating when I read about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depending on the type of cancer look on the respective website.
There are tips for maintaining a good sex life, whilst having cancer. Macmillan offer good advice on their website.
Alternatively, bite the bullet and speak to your gp about it. It's not an unusual problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is bladder cancer and had prostrate taking out as well.
Spoken to gp so going down the road off tablets at the minute.if they don't work have to see a specialist.
But watching my wife with another guy really turns me on.she doesn't want me to watch though.?? |
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