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First gangbang expiriance.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Concerned that you found it stressful OP. It shouldn't have been.
I would suggest meeting people in a busy club. Choosing your fellas after having a chat and then heading to a private room where you can't have others trying to join you. Or meet the participants beforehand.
Sorry it wasn't how it should be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies how it was?So stressful for me."
My friend about 6 years ago on fab was about 25 and she told me she wanted or was curious about a gangbang but said she felt unsure and sometimes unsafe if something went wrong.
She asked for help so basically I took the bull by the horns for her and arranged one with her consent and made sure I was there when it happened.
Arranged 5 guys, all chosen by her, (I bottled it), on the night the guys where in the living room and I walked her in, all dressed for them. I remember her heart was beating fast and she was nervous. I put her on her knees on the floor and told the guys what they could and could not do and I was there if anything went wrong and what I say goes.
I told her to open her mouth and then each guy put their cocks in her mouth and she started sucking but after that, she changed and took control lollllll
Great night and recently I got a message from her saying she still thinks back.
It really depends on what kinda gangbang you want, spontaneous, or arranged, rough, dominant, sensual, controlling.
I've heard some disaster at gangbangs and sometimes you usually get one asshole guy but if someone is there whom you trust then it should be fine   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, the wait was worse than the experience.
If you’re unsure, I’d ask guys that you’ve already met before and feel comfortable being around.
Also, at first for me, it felt very in my face but a blindfold can remove the issue.
Have fun! |
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I think they are best when they just happen. Anything where it’s ore arranged is bound to get stressful. I have had a couple of orgies in the chams couples room. Started with couples then wandering hands and it went from there. By far the best way x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was really nervous beforehand. I had a bath and a small drink. Once the guys had arrived and things had started all the nerves went and I focussed on having one of the most spectacular experiences of my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suggest a spontaneous gangbang and a blindfold.....
Maybe a club or just invite guys you have already met....
But be sure to over invite... you will always have last minute cancellations.
So if you want 5 guys invite 15.... |
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We've had a couple of impromptu ones at Abfabs. The cinema was pretty much guaranteed for it, all you needed to do was go in there and sit down, tended to happen pretty organically after that.
I've been trying to find someone on here who can host for us. No luck so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies how it was?So stressful for me."
Hi,
I am sad to hear you found it stressful. A good gangbang should be all about the lady's pleasure.
You should control the action.
Maybe having another female might ease the pressure and stress?
If you are not happy just say stop. Any experienced Fabbers will understand.
Hugs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If 9 men count as a gang bang then it is lovely!!
I got cum d*unk  and fell asleep after but it was really very enjoyable. No need to worry.  "
Wow that is a lot of men at one time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies how it was?So stressful for me."
I think it depends if you're submissive or not, I am so for me he takes control, we discuss the rules before hand, my main one is he has to be within arms reach at all times. For me they usually they happen at a club he decides who can and can't, I decide when it's over, when I say stop it stops, never had a problem with any guys. |
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It shouldn't be stressful. My feeling is the same as other posters convey - once it gets going, it should be just natural and flow in a wonderful way. We humans seem to have a "hard-wiring" telling us how to do this - for both males and females - and you just know what you should be doing even if you have never been in one before.
I've been at all-cummers gangbangs with no gangbang-monitor (absolutely not recommended!!!) and all the guys totally behaved of their own volition while also fulfilling the female's wishes.
Should be a great experience. |
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"Ladies how it was?So stressful for me.
I think it depends if you're submissive or not, I am so for me he takes control, we discuss the rules before hand, my main one is he has to be within arms reach at all times. For me they usually they happen at a club he decides who can and can't, I decide when it's over, when I say stop it stops, never had a problem with any guys."
That's exactly what we did at a club last time. It was horny as fuck.  *Mrs |
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Nerves are natural. But stress can be rectified by having someone else organise the event. If its your first, start small with 3 guys plus your organiser (there to ensure your safety). We love them and will always look to have one in the pipeline now for our fix. We have a good female friend who likes to join us too which makes it more comfortable. |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
Many years ago at the very beginning of my swinging world journey, I found myself in the middle of an unplanned gangbang in a club.. It was only my second visit to a club... I had gone with a male friend.... I got chatting to another guy and we decided to go to the pool house, one minute I was just enjoying myself with him then the next there were 5 or 6 guys... I couldn't even tell you what they looked like... I remember lying there and thinking shit this is horrible but I am going to look stupid if I tell them to stop etc... You have to remember I was a newbie and very green... And at that point didn't realise I had the power.... When it ended I gave myself a good talking too in my head and decided I would look at it as a learning experience... I found my voice after that night and have never allowed anything like that happen again... I came away feeling like a piece of meat, even now I would not get involved In an arranged one... Each to their own and all that but it is most definitely not for me.... |
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Gangbangs are generally pretty much gauranteed at Greedygirls events at clubs, and ladies that attend go for pretty much that scene, lots of attention and action ..... or at porn cinema's !
It's always relaxed and never seen any guys misbehave or be pushy, great fun all around. |
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I'd say it depends if it was a planned gangbang or one that just develops into one due to it just happening like that.
I have had an arranged gangbang and that was fun as i knee what was coming....
On the other hand in a club i started riding a guy reverse cowboy in a small dark area... Made too much noise and then got surrounded by hard horny men who all wanted some... That was stressful and hot and very mental! After a few guys i had to run away to cool down! |
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When I 1st joined FAB 8Yrs ago,I was immediately messaged by a party organiser from Leeds.We chatted on line & on the phone & after 3 weeks he's organised me a GB at a lovely 4 star hotel in Sheffield.
5 gorgeous young guys turned up,all of which I'd previously approved of by pix
Well,all I can say was Tuesday 23rd August 2010 7.40pm to 10.50pm LOL was possibly THE BEST 3HRS + of my entire life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies how it was?So stressful for me.
My friend about 6 years ago on fab was about 25 and she told me she wanted or was curious about a gangbang but said she felt unsure and sometimes unsafe if something went wrong.
She asked for help so basically I took the bull by the horns for her and arranged one with her consent and made sure I was there when it happened.
Arranged 5 guys, all chosen by her, (I bottled it), on the night the guys where in the living room and I walked her in, all dressed for them. I remember her heart was beating fast and she was nervous. I put her on her knees on the floor and told the guys what they could and could not do and I was there if anything went wrong and what I say goes.
I told her to open her mouth and then each guy put their cocks in her mouth and she started sucking but after that, she changed and took control lollllll
Great night and recently I got a message from her saying she still thinks back.
It really depends on what kinda gangbang you want, spontaneous, or arranged, rough, dominant, sensual, controlling.
I've heard some disaster at gangbangs and sometimes you usually get one asshole guy but if someone is there whom you trust then it should be fine "
sounds fun and well organised x |
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"For me, the wait was worse than the experience.
If you’re unsure, I’d ask guys that you’ve already met before and feel comfortable being around.
Also, at first for me, it felt very in my face but a blindfold can remove the issue.
Have fun! "
isnt the blindfold bit a bit scarey though? i scared about it full stop lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a guy who is helping me plan a GB...It will be my first. (ignoring the sex party MMMFFMFMF's because this is different)
We are choosing the guys now, and maybe one extra girl too...
Looking for the right venue. Was thinking about Being in the countryside to save on venue hire.
Have a big house but am nervous about letting that many guys know where I live, even if they are vetted...
I am looking forward to it though! I trust GB minder to get the right folks. Just wish there was an app that helped organise it. The fab inbox is rammed!!! |
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Always need to be stress free..enjoyable..we done loads..as we are team of 3 or 4 guys. Key is to talk..discuss things beforehand...then getting the girl..cpl to chillax..drinks flirt laughs..then build up and take turns or go full speed..usuall the moans and screams of ecstasy is just awesome.
There is tge other side where they want it bang on..rough hard nonstop...too many senarios..but overall..great..we just love it ..and always hungry looking for more..hot naught ladies..wives |
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Something J fancies giving a go one day. We've had group meets & enjoyed, & have played at clubs. But I just can't imagine the effort you'd have to go to to find enough reliable guys to turn up on the night! Just don't think we can be arsed!
Anyone organising in Cardiff, let us know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having arranged several the word stress is not one that has ever come up. The only circumstances I could see this as the case would be if arranged by the husband with a reluctant wife? |
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Had many GB's over the years and I have to say I really enjoyed everyone of them. Some more than others but still enjoyed them all.
It's always down to the guys who attend, so if you are thinking of having/joining one then please do your homework beforehand. |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
All gangbangs should be relaxed and enjoyable to all parties. I remember my first gangbang in Filton Bristol about ten years ago. I won't say that I was nervous but I was very excited at the prospect and before we began the men chatted with the lady before going upstairs with her. Her hubby was there and filmed the whole raunchy evening.
She was very receptive and took all of our cocks with delight all rubbered up needless to say.
The whole evening was very memorable and I have been to a few other gangbangs since and I have always enjoyed the experiences.
I wouldn't have to be asked twice to attend a gangbang. They really turn me on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am an arranger of gangbangs and they have always been the most stress free incredible experiences.. Any ladies wanting to ask questions or even sort one, please get in touch x |
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Also there are some amazing guys on here who love to arrange GB's and if they are well established then they always have the right attendance as they have trusted players and they are prepared to do all the hard work so all we have to do is turn up.
Lazy I know but it's bloody hard work as mentioned earlier in this post. |
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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
My first gangbang I was very nervous there was another girl there and about 10 guys we put a show on for the guys and they slowly moved in lol was a very horny experience so much I've done few now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d love one but hubby not keen so If he ever agreed I’d like to pick the guys and have someone there to make sure things go ok. Because I like it quite rough, I wouldn’t want things getting too brutal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had a few over the years. They are all different, but all have been fun for her. Just as the events are all different, so are the men. Ranging from 2 minute wonders to bedroom heroes who offer every possible position and then come back for more when the others have nodded off.
At the end of it Mrs J was so excited that a polite cough next door seemed to make her cum all over again! |
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i remember my first time gangbanging.
it was me, doughboy and dooky.
We were driving around looking for the crenshaw mafia who had killed our beloved friend ricky
When we finally spotted them, I just couldnt do it and had to walk away. 
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Any ladies or couples wanna try this ?
I've arranged a few now at mine and all perfectly safe with decent clean guys .
Give me a shout if you would like to sort one out soon .
I'm just off M6 junction 11 |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish) |
R is always nervous at the start before the action gets going but that is natural. Once she starts playing she gets incredibly horny and loves every minute (and inch) of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also there are some amazing guys on here who love to arrange GB's and if they are well established then they always have the right attendance as they have trusted players and they are prepared to do all the hard work so all we have to do is turn up.
Lazy I know but it's bloody hard work as mentioned earlier in this post. "
as a happy voyeur I've organised a few and enjoyed them with no trouble or agg at all, always happy to organise for the right people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Accomodating for gangbangs & small orgies,with massive lounge and 2 play rooms in north west London from early December until June for single ladies and couples. Also will be doing shoots of many varieties..... would be great to hear from INTERRACIAL lovers.
Please single guys only get intouch if you have a female or couple to share and play with....
Also want to hear from togs....... thanks |
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"Also there are some amazing guys on here who love to arrange GB's and if they are well established then they always have the right attendance as they have trusted players and they are prepared to do all the hard work so all we have to do is turn up.
Lazy I know but it's bloody hard work as mentioned earlier in this post. "
Well if there are any of these selfless types our way ...get in touch!
Definitely something we want to tick off our 'to do' list. |
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"Also want to hear from togs....... thanks "
I'm an amateur photographer looking to get some experience doing nudes. Obviously there are a lot of people who would fit that bill, but I've got feedback on some of my work so far, but can't really show it because it's been of people I know. Can't message you because we're not meeting at the mo due to Liz dealing with a leg injury and I've let our site supporter status lapse. |
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We’d like to do one in theory but the logistics seem too difficult. We hardly ever go to clubs and don’t accommodate either.
I think just inviting random people will mean that either they don’t turn up or she might not be attracted to them. Just because it’s a GB does that mean the lady should lower her standards?
We’ll keep talking about it. One day maybe! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
My first was absolutely spontaneous in a club, so there was no time to be nervous or stressed. I had five nice guys tag team me and I loved it and had more orgasms than I can remember. I would certainly recommend a club for first timers - there are always willing guys from which to take your pick. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"Ours was stress free
Was on a public bed in a club
Was just us
Then a Mmf and then it just flowed from there on
Was a great night and definitely not the last "
the perfect way to start , and a good approach , after some time you can start "from scratch" (wink) |
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Love to have one outside of club scene
More of an improptuos one with at least 4 other guys including bi men
All concerned would be previously known by ways of socials etc
Not an opening for messages please |
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By *aFee RougeWoman
over a year ago
Luton, Bedfordshire |
"Ladies how it was?So stressful for me.
My friend about 6 years ago on fab was about 25 and she told me she wanted or was curious about a gangbang but said she felt unsure and sometimes unsafe if something went wrong.
She asked for help so basically I took the bull by the horns for her and arranged one with her consent and made sure I was there when it happened.
Arranged 5 guys, all chosen by her, (I bottled it), on the night the guys where in the living room and I walked her in, all dressed for them. I remember her heart was beating fast and she was nervous. I put her on her knees on the floor and told the guys what they could and could not do and I was there if anything went wrong and what I say goes.
I told her to open her mouth and then each guy put their cocks in her mouth and she started sucking but after that, she changed and took control lollllll
Great night and recently I got a message from her saying she still thinks back.
It really depends on what kinda gangbang you want, spontaneous, or arranged, rough, dominant, sensual, controlling.
I've heard some disaster at gangbangs and sometimes you usually get one asshole guy but if someone is there whom you trust then it should be fine "
Now that turned me really on. Lol
I'm still to get my mmf but I think then I'll probably want to try it ! |
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Started my journey at the end of last year when Adam arranged a hotel room and invited guys, the usual time wasters and no shows on the day left me with Adam and four guys I changed in the bathroom and was summoned to the bed lol, the rest is history !
My last one was arranged for me at a house I changed in a spare room before entering the arena what can I say I enjoyed every aspect of it .. make sure it’s run properly set your guidelines and enjoy |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
nottingham/ derby |
Bloody hard work n not easy as it looks keeping all entertained,in sync and happy this was mmmf, tiring hard trying to concentrate on your own pleasure a cock in each hand or mouth and being fucked, trying not to bite accidentally, and not knowing who is going to react, its great, but think three for me is enough |
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I'm longing for my first one. Had 5 guys at once in a club but now want to try planned and private. Am starting small with 2 guys in November and have found a hotel which is easy to get lots of people into. Hope to make it a regular thing. |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
Curious about them. To be fair if u have a social before and have a sensual one it may be good but it only takes nerves or one idiot and it could be a bad experience. Know the guys and if it feels uncomfortable dont do it. Make it clear on the onset. If no expectation or pressure ur more relaxed about it and more likely to enjoy I imagine |
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Next on our list! Mrs has had 3 at once and we did a 7-man bukkake last month so we’re hoping for a decent turnout. Hard work to organise and lots pull out, so to speak, but good fun if it works Mr. |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Next on our list! Mrs has had 3 at once and we did a 7-man bukkake last month so we’re hoping for a decent turnout. Hard work to organise and lots pull out, so to speak, but good fun if it works Mr. "
Bukkaki. Something else my partner and I have discussed. Hope it works out for u
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"Next on our list! Mrs has had 3 at once and we did a 7-man bukkake last month so we’re hoping for a decent turnout. Hard work to organise and lots pull out, so to speak, but good fun if it works Mr.
Bukkaki. Something else my partner and I have discussed. Hope it works out for u
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The bukkake was amazing! Invited 20, got 7 so it was pretty wild. Mrs loves being the centre of attention so she was in her element. Messy fun all round! |
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tbh think most stressful bit is arranging a gb you get so many asking to attend bit per cent wont turn up , think most get off on the thought ,can understand nerves ect but if not turning up or that slight bit of doubt don't email for the meet. we had 5/6 bgs and not yest has the full quota turned up. |
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I can't remember my first. As I've had 1 or 2 gb's. . I have my birthday gb at Gems 23rd Nov. More shameless self advertising. I really want to beat my personal best of around 15. I would have taken more, but run out of men!  . I really am a greedy girl and love a good gangbang. |
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"I can't remember my first. As I've had 1 or 2 gb's. . I have my birthday gb at Gems 23rd Nov. More shameless self advertising. I really want to beat my personal best of around 15. I would have taken more, but run out of men! . I really am a greedy girl and love a good gangbang. "
Noted.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"tbh think most stressful bit is arranging a gb you get so many asking to attend bit per cent wont turn up , think most get off on the thought ,can understand nerves ect but if not turning up or that slight bit of doubt don't email for the meet. we had 5/6 bgs and not yest has the full quota turned up. "
I think the easiest ways to ask if somebody help you at a club. The people are already there, you can choose who you like to. Invite, and take over a room to do whatever you want to do.
The club maybe able to provide a member of staff to help keep you safe and your boundaries respected. Plus you don't have to worry about hotels, people coming and going, or letting people in in the middle of the action plus no shows is a mute point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we've tried to arrange privately, booking a hotel and then getting the guys its always been at most a 50% rate of men actually turning up, despite confirming with them earlier in the day.
Now, we prefer clubs for this. Had a MMMMF in quest last night, and hoping for more than that next week! |
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