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"Were going to a swingers club in February. Any pointers would be appreciated."
Relax. Take your time to get a feel for the place. Smile. Be friendly to everyone and don’t worry that by doing so will make it seem that you’re up for it with people you don’t fancy.
Be clear with each other what your boundaries are and if anything happens, take time to go somewhere quiet to check the other was ok with what happened.
Finally; remember that this is supposed to be fun. If it isn’t; stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And be aware that the club will not be full of wall to wall sexy people, just normal people with fewer clothes on. Possibly having noisy sex at very close quarters.
You need to be pretty sure you like watching.. |
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Be pro-active...
If you just find a seat and watch the world go by then you'll probably leave feeling that you've wasted your time, but if you make the effort to approach people and chat, then you'll have a great time regardless of whether you play.
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