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Clubs and wearing of masks
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all it seems that clubs is the way to go if you’re a novice like me So I may just indulge at least to gain experience. I assume this as there is here a certain amount of etiquette required so my question is Masks are they acceptable I’d wear one for the sake of being discreet. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Only time I have seen masks worn was at a masquerade ball. It was too hot and everyone took them off at some point during the night.
Just go and show your face. You are not hidden on the site and if you met anyone at a club, they would be unlikely to broadcast the fact they saw you there, cos they were there too.
It's not illegal you know ! |
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Fully-fledged masks or masquerade masks, no. It would just look ridiculous. Who do you intend to hide from? Will you keep it on when playing! Lace masks, yes. They complement the outfit and the person is still recognisable. |
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre. "
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only time I have seen masks worn was at a masquerade ball. It was too hot and everyone took them off at some point during the night.
Just go and show your face. You are not hidden on the site and if you met anyone at a club, they would be unlikely to broadcast the fact they saw you there, cos they were there too.
It's not illegal you know ! "
Yes that’s the type of mask I’m thinking of 
Fair enough all your comments are positive and useful
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed. "
Add it to the list of weird things said about swingers then! |
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed.
Add it to the list of weird things said about swingers then! "
It's a loooooonnng list  |
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed.
Add it to the list of weird things said about swingers then!
It's a loooooonnng list "
Have you seen Real Life Wife Swap? That chucks in a few on the list... |
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed.
Add it to the list of weird things said about swingers then!
It's a loooooonnng list "
I feel a thread coming on........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed.
Add it to the list of weird things said about swingers then!
It's a loooooonnng list
I feel a thread coming on........ "
Get on it Stingly |
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed.
Add it to the list of weird things said about swingers then!
It's a loooooonnng list
I feel a thread coming on........
Get on it Stingly "
Done. |
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I took a chap on his virgin voyage to a club. It was fancy dress so he decided to wear a mask to help with his nerves. Once he got in there he felt like a plonker bless him.
Swingers, like normies, only tend to wear masks at masquerade balls or highway robberies. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I took a chap on his virgin voyage to a club. It was fancy dress so he decided to wear a mask to help with his nerves. Once he got in there he felt like a plonker bless him.
Swingers, like normies, only tend to wear masks at masquerade balls or highway robberies. "
This and also made me chuckle |
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Whilst the threads given people a chuckle, let's not forget, there's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer and too much piss taking can put people off asking questions.
And if we don't ask questions, we don't learn anything.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd not be interested in someone who hides their face in a club scenario. It would look bizarre.
There was a programme on tv a few years ago and it interviewed some swingers in masks. Think people assume we all wear masks in clubs. Bizare and ill informed. "
Was that the dogging one where they all wore animal masks? That was just weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We treat clubs as we would if going to a vanilla club night out but with the chance to get naughty while we are out and not have to hope the kids are still out when we get home.
So a mask or anything that a person may do that is properly odd or sleazy would make us uncomfortable.
It’s a night out with similarly minded people, be open and enjoy it you don’t have to hide
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We treat clubs as we would if going to a vanilla club night out but with the chance to get naughty while we are out and not have to hope the kids are still out when we get home.
So a mask or anything that a person may do that is properly odd or sleazy would make us uncomfortable.
It’s a night out with similarly minded people, be open and enjoy it you don’t have to hide
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst the threads given people a chuckle, let's not forget, there's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer and too much piss taking can put people off asking questions.
And if we don't ask questions, we don't learn anything.
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Soooo sensible.
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Sometimes. |
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"Whilst the threads given people a chuckle, let's not forget, there's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer and too much piss taking can put people off asking questions.
And if we don't ask questions, we don't learn anything.
Soooo sensible.
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Sometimes. "
I strive to be inconsistent.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if it has been mentioned (too lazy to read all the posts), masks are more likely, in my opinion, to be worn at ‘fetish’ meetings, latex, leather, cosplay, etc. |
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Was that the dogging one where they all wore animal masks? That was just weird. "
I thought it was hilarious. They all seemed so uncomfortable with dogging I wondered why they felt they should do it. |
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Have you seen Real Life Wife Swap? That chucks in a few on the list..."
It certainly does. Pretty sure it's still on Netflix, there were only three episodes. The overall tone of the show is very condescending, and as is usually the case regarding shows about 'unusual' lifestyles, the narrator basically just mocks everyone featured on it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if it has been mentioned (too lazy to read all the posts), masks are more likely, in my opinion, to be worn at ‘fetish’ meetings, latex, leather, cosplay, etc."
Correct! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you seen Real Life Wife Swap? That chucks in a few on the list...
It certainly does. Pretty sure it's still on Netflix, there were only three episodes. The overall tone of the show is very condescending, and as is usually the case regarding shows about 'unusual' lifestyles, the narrator basically just mocks everyone featured on it.
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It amuses me to watch - they think they're so clever poking fun at these 'weirdos' when they clearly have no idea and I like seeing Libs on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all it seems that clubs is the way to go if you’re a novice like me So I may just indulge at least to gain experience. I assume this as there is here a certain amount of etiquette required so my question is Masks are they acceptable I’d wear one for the sake of being discreet. "
You have profile open for any person in the public to view with clear face pics! And your concerned about being discreet!! Ironic don’t you think |
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Never seen one worn in 15 years of swinger-clubbing here in UK and on the continent. People just don't care about being seen, we both like to see the expressions on faces while they're playing, anyway. |
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"Whilst the threads given people a chuckle, let's not forget, there's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer and too much piss taking can put people off asking questions.
And if we don't ask questions, we don't learn anything.
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Philosophical and kind hearted but er wrong
There are plenty of daft questions |
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"Whilst the threads given people a chuckle, let's not forget, there's no such thing as a daft question if you don't know the answer and too much piss taking can put people off asking questions.
And if we don't ask questions, we don't learn anything.
Philosophical and kind hearted but er wrong
There are plenty of daft questions "
Plenty of *daft answers too.
*daft isn't the word I wanted to use. But that one would win a holiday |
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Op I'd say wear exactly what you want to wear and feel comfortable in.
You stand a much greater chance of being recognised from your profile on here than in a club simply because there are many more members of fab than attendees at a club on any given night. |
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"Op I'd say wear exactly what you want to wear and feel comfortable in.
You stand a much greater chance of being recognised from your profile on here than in a club simply because there are many more members of fab than attendees at a club on any given night."
You've got quite a reputation for being sensible. |
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"Op I'd say wear exactly what you want to wear and feel comfortable in.
You stand a much greater chance of being recognised from your profile on here than in a club simply because there are many more members of fab than attendees at a club on any given night.
You've got quite a reputation for being sensible. "
Yeah I sometimes wish I didn't  |
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