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Honest mistake, and the lot of a genuine single Guy.
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"It does say on your profile that you have been verified by 2 men. "   genuinely missed to remove man verification  | |||
"So, on holiday, and contacted a couple who live in resort and I know, from previous visits here, are active on the scene. I got turned down as I had Bi on my profile which was an honest mistake, and, quite frankly, I have no idea when or how it got changed from straight. Now I know that for a lot of Ladies and Couples, Bi Guys are avoided, and that’s fine as far as it goes, their choice. But my point here is that it was a genuine mistake, but I’m now being treated as ‘fake’ or not genuine, and treated as just another single Guy out to get what he can however he can it. A lot of it about as I understand, but some of us are actually nice Guys, polite, and above all, genuine. " I'd actually think you were bi fun to the fact you've been verified by men, I'm fine with meeting bi men but not liars. | |||
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"So, on holiday, and contacted a couple who live in resort and I know, from previous visits here, are active on the scene. I got turned down as I had Bi on my profile which was an honest mistake, and, quite frankly, I have no idea when or how it got changed from straight. Now I know that for a lot of Ladies and Couples, Bi Guys are avoided, and that’s fine as far as it goes, their choice. But my point here is that it was a genuine mistake, but I’m now being treated as ‘fake’ or not genuine, and treated as just another single Guy out to get what he can however he can it. A lot of it about as I understand, but some of us are actually nice Guys, polite, and above all, genuine. I'd actually think you were bi fun to the fact you've been verified by men, I'm fine with meeting bi men but not liars. " | |||
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"Yes you’re all correct, verified by a couple of Guys, both who attended small parties at my house, doesn’t mean I actually played with them. As for cross dressing, not quite sure how that makes me Bi, just a kink I have. To be Bi you’d have to have sex with someone of the same sex, used to be at least. But thanks everyone, rather nicely you’ve actually all made by point for me. Just another Guy, lying to get what he wants, apparently! "I don’t care personally whether you are gay, bi, straight or anything else my lovely. Just gently pointing out one of the reasons others might look at your profile and assume you weren’t straight. In fairness to that couple your profile states you were Bi, had been verified by two guys and have an interest in cross-dressing. Can’t blame them for the conclusions they came to. V | |||
"As you are in an honest frame of mind why not display the two veris you have from men? " This is actually a great idea. Would clear up any future misunderstandings. V | |||
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"They may have said you being bi was the reason but there may have been other reasons they said no. Don't worry about it. "Men lie to get a fuck". Can't blame people for not believing. " This actually happens???? | |||
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"As you are in an honest frame of mind why not display the two veris you have from men? " This... | |||
"Yes you’re all correct, verified by a couple of Guys, both who attended small parties at my house, doesn’t mean I actually played with them. As for cross dressing, not quite sure how that makes me Bi, just a kink I have. To be Bi you’d have to have sex with someone of the same sex, used to be at least. But thanks everyone, rather nicely you’ve actually all made by point for me. Just another Guy, lying to get what he wants, apparently! "Flip the situation around and see how you’d feel. That usually makes it clear. If you’ve got bisexual on your profile and have been verified by men, it’s not exactly silly to assume that your profile is accurate is it? | |||
"As you are in an honest frame of mind why not display the two veris you have from men? This..." Why not display all your verifications, then we can see if you have had any bi play with the males of couples too. | |||
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"I'm playing devils advocate here but the guys could have left the site... I've a fair few veris leave. " Then others will assume from the information contained? | |||
"I'm playing devils advocate here but the guys could have left the site... I've a fair few veris leave. Then others will assume from the information contained?" *available | |||
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"Was talking to a couple just now and they won't meet me as I'm a bi TV. It's all a genuine mistake guv. I'm a straight hairy arsed bloke and no idea why my profile says bisexual, why there are a 100 pics of me as a Tgirl and all those verifications verifying the fact. I've just no idea how that has happened. In the spirit of me being honest it's all lies I tell ya, lies " | |||
"As you are in an honest frame of mind why not display the two veris you have from men? This... Why not display all your verifications, then we can see if you have had any bi play with the males of couples too. " If you are referring to me, all of my verifications ARE on display... | |||
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" If you are referring to me, all of my verifications ARE on display..." I was referring to OP | |||
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"Was talking to a couple just now and they won't meet me as I'm a bi TV. It's all a genuine mistake guv. I'm a straight hairy arsed bloke and no idea why my profile says bisexual, why there are a 100 pics of me as a Tgirl and all those verifications verifying the fact. I've just no idea how that has happened. In the spirit of me being honest it's all lies I tell ya, lies "Looks like someone has hacked your profile - you may get some sympathy shags from that | |||
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"Was talking to a couple just now and they won't meet me as I'm a bi TV. It's all a genuine mistake guv. I'm a straight hairy arsed bloke and no idea why my profile says bisexual, why there are a 100 pics of me as a Tgirl and all those verifications verifying the fact. I've just no idea how that has happened. In the spirit of me being honest it's all lies I tell ya, lies " | |||
"Ok Guys, so firstly, thanks for the input, went exactly as I expected! So the truth of the matter, two periods where I was ‘Bi-curious’, hence one of the guys veri (the other was from a Bi Guy at a small party at my house, we didn’t get involved). Both ‘experiments’ left me unfulfilled, so from that perspective, straight, the bisexual statues was a genuine error on my part, hence the OP. I was quite active on here up to about 3 and a bit years ago, what I’ve found in the months since I’ve been back is that the site is different now, harder to get meets, and the forums are not as much fun as they were, far to many people ready to jump on a topic and pull it apart and put negative comments (and that’s not just a response to this thread but a general view), keyboard warriors I suppose. I’ve had a profile for nearly 6 years now, and it saddens me that I’m seriously contemplating deletion. This used to be fun, meeting or not, but it seems times have changed. Thanks again, in a perverse way, it’s been fun this last 24 hours or so, I’m going to sit back and enjoy the comments that this post will bring, then I’ll be gone. I’ll speak to you all in a week or so under my new profile no doubt ?????????? I wish you all well, play safe, stay safe K" I really dont think it's any different, people keep saying it's going downhill, it's no fun anymore.... Maybe that's just your personal frame of mind? Perhaps a break is what you need, come back with a fresh perspective. A couple rejecting you for a mistake, if that's what it was, on your profile isn't the end of the world. | |||
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"Ok Guys, so firstly, thanks for the input, went exactly as I expected! So the truth of the matter, two periods where I was ‘Bi-curious’, hence one of the guys veri (the other was from a Bi Guy at a small party at my house, we didn’t get involved). Both ‘experiments’ left me unfulfilled, so from that perspective, straight, the bisexual statues was a genuine error on my part, hence the OP. I was quite active on here up to about 3 and a bit years ago, what I’ve found in the months since I’ve been back is that the site is different now, harder to get meets, and the forums are not as much fun as they were, far to many people ready to jump on a topic and pull it apart and put negative comments (and that’s not just a response to this thread but a general view), keyboard warriors I suppose. I’ve had a profile for nearly 6 years now, and it saddens me that I’m seriously contemplating deletion. This used to be fun, meeting or not, but it seems times have changed. Thanks again, in a perverse way, it’s been fun this last 24 hours or so, I’m going to sit back and enjoy the comments that this post will bring, then I’ll be gone. I’ll speak to you all in a week or so under my new profile no doubt ?????????? I wish you all well, play safe, stay safe K" Passive aggression always an attractive trait...  | |||
" If you are referring to me, all of my verifications ARE on display... I was referring to OP" Oh ok. Thank you | |||
"If it smells like a fish. And it tastes like a fish. Then it must be a fanny" Nice ! | |||
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" So the truth of the matter, two periods where I was ‘Bi-curious’, hence one of the guys veri (the other was from a Bi Guy at a small party at my house, we didn’t get involved). Both ‘experiments’ left me unfulfilled, so from that perspective, straight, the bisexual statues was a genuine error on my part, hence the OP." All this seems to do is to confirm that the OP has not been completely open an honest. There is also a bit of a contradiction in referring to "both experiments" but saying you did not get involved with one guy. Either that or a lack of good judgement. Sorry to be negative, but it is difficult to see a positive. | |||
