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Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIA |
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"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer
Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.
Just be honest and be interested good luck . "
Tried all that. Need a miracle lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIA"
have some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker  |
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"Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker "
maybe I should try that I  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try attending a few socials x"
What they said.
You have been on for at least two years. By seems never been to a group social. Swinging is as much about chatting and socialing as it is the sex if not more. No couple or single is going to think much when see profile if looks like not effort to mix is being put in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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like people have said try socials or clubs. I think the real secret is just be nice be willing to have good conversation and not be pushy. these things have worked for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer
Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.
Just be honest and be interested good luck . "
This
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By *y93Man
over a year ago
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I have to say socials and clubs got me started. It was so easy to meet and chat with people in those situations some of which lead to play, without those meets I doubt my profile would have gotten very far just on fab itself. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer
Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.
Just be honest and be interested good luck .
Tried all that. Need a miracle lol"
No, you need to make an effort and attend socials and/or clubs and start networking. Good luck. X |
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"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer
Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.
Just be honest and be interested good luck .
Tried all that. Need a miracle lol
No, you need to make an effort and attend socials and/or clubs and start networking. Good luck. X"
Yeah totally agree to this advice - it was only after a few club nights that people noticed us so to speak and then comes verification which then also helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe don’t start with sexy chat, think of it how you’d approach someone in person. That photo of you in the mask is scary lol
If someone is really suggestive in their first message it can be offputting to some but u know others like it. Generally being yourself, making sure you’ve read the profile and discussing something from it works but they also have to be attracted and that can be the hard part on here. You may find you do better with clubs. Good luck! - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are times when we are planning a meet and welcome a decent message from verified fellas and couples. There are also times when we are horny and just want a "rent a cock" for some mmf.
I imagine a lot of guys who may be perfectly good looking guys miss out on these meets as they've been blocked for not reading profile.
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By *lubberMan
over a year ago
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"Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIA"
Is that a serious question? Are you after profile advice too?
The 'trick' is the same as in the pub or the coop, find somebody who finds you appealing and interest them, it's no different to real life, because it is real life. You can't just message people and expe t them to want to have sex with you if they don't fancy something about you. Unless you're in a club then it's more to do with atmosphere if the other person is at least OK looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be polite be patient and take no for an answer
Don’t sound desperate as it’s such a turn off for a woman , don’t send repeated messages.
Just be honest and be interested good luck . "
That's not it either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker "
That's definitely not it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same as everywhere, be yourself.
No point being anyone else, you'll be rumbled as soon as you met anyway.
Go to your local socials, join in on the forums, be respectful and don't expect anything. "
You should have stopped with be yourself. No one likes someone trying too hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not going to lie, the pic of you in the clown mask is probably hindering more than its helping. Same with the pic of you in the helmet and biker gear. "
Agreed. Bit scary ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker
That's definitely not it"
it is youre in denial  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is that clown outfit and mask going to turn the ladies on? It looks a little creepy to be fair. Maybe have a look at changing some pics too? Good luck hope you find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the trick? Don't be a dick 
Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.
What pics do you recommend. ?"
Have you read the above comments, OP? The mask one isn’t the best to be honest ... |
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"What's the trick? Don't be a dick
Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.
What pics do you recommend. ?
Have you read the above comments, OP? The mask one isn’t the best to be honest ... "
It's my Halloween outfit lol but yes I know people don't seem to like it ?? |
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If you're a man, and really single, then you need to be the Ferrari of men! You need to be above average across the board! This is swinging, this is sexual fun and fantasy! This is test driving a Ferrari around the Nürburgring! Not driving a Ford focus around the m25... |
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"If you're a man, and really single, then you need to be the Ferrari of men! You need to be above average across the board! This is swinging, this is sexual fun and fantasy! This is test driving a Ferrari around the Nürburgring! Not driving a Ford focus around the m25..."
Yep. This is what I want. Obviously those looking for more will settle for less  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here.
Being appealing to your target audience
Scary pic gone. It was Marionette from Five Nights at Freddie's and not a clown "
With the best will in the world, most couples on Fab aren't going to look at your pics and think "Oh thats a character from a videogame" they're going to look and think you're dressed up as a psycho clown.
Your profile is your market stall. It's where you set out everything you have to offer to potential buyers. As such, if you want people to bite, you've got to make it appealing and sexy. If you want to post pics of you cosplaying as your favourite videogame characters, then more power to you, but if you want to meet up with people, you need to make yourself seem like the sort of guy they would want to meet up with. |
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"What's the trick? Don't be a dick
Jokes aside, your pictures are not great.
What pics do you recommend. ?
Have you read the above comments, OP? The mask one isn’t the best to be honest ... "
Exactly.. plus you trying to cover the tattoos - just colouring over them is not a nice look.
Surely you can upload pictures in clothes which could be more esthetically pleasing... |
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Thank you for all the tips. Got rid of the scary outfit and biker ones. Yeah I should try a club, having the guts to go will be a good start. May go to Asylum Halloween won't be wearing the clown outfit. |
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"Hello
What is the magic trick on getting a meet on here. I have tried sexy chat , none sexy talking about profile and interests and just nothing.
Posting in forums. I get plenty of offers from guys but not after that.
Help please TIAhave some pics with cake in them and tell them in write up youre a great baker "
This could work! |
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