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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Aberdeenshire |
Switch for both of us too.
Why? Lots of reasons. The main one is probably because we don’t like to do the same thing every time.
Do you eat the same thing from your favourite restaurant each time, or try different meals?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd always thought of myself as more of a switch. Turns out that I'm more a Dom. Ive always been into kink, even from a young age. Pre internet I remember seeing some pictures of Betty Page in an alternative comic when I was about thirteen. Found the idea of rope play fascinating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which describes you?
What was your introduction to this lifestyle and are you looking to serve or be served"
Mr-Sub
Mrs-Switch (Dom with males/Sub with females) |
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I'm a bottom heavy, sadistic submissive with slave-like traits if you want to throw labels at it. 
I'm quite good at being just one thing at a time though, but I can switch in the same scene if that's what's wanted. With the right person. In this respect I am pansexual.
My default setting is submissive. For me, it's about pleasing someone else. I'm not submissive to everyone though. I'm a very strong person and don't suffer fools.
I started out purely submissive but after a couple of years got into a relationship with a switch guy and being submissive, wanted to please him so, had a go at topping him (under his instruction that first time) and discovered that I'm actually quite good at hurting men (consensually) and giggling 
I'm not looking to serve per se, but it would be good to find a dominant alpha male for adventuring and exploration into the deepest, darkest corners of Wonderland. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our profile says it all.multi layered but I'm owned sub at the end of day. C loves a good alpha male but is a switch. Usually we normal tho lol and busy gardening right now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Switch. Both of us.
What got you into it"
Because I can be a perfectly submissive little sex kitten to the right person... or I can be the sort of Domme that’ll leave begging. Just depends on my mood and the person I’m with.
Hubby is a switch with me, but would only ever be sub to women. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Submissive by nature but very selective in who I give that submission to - and whilst I don't switch and definitely can't Dom I can happily play on an equal level in a mutually fulfilling "kink play" scenario.
To truly bring out my submissive side though I have to "feel" submissive to someone and that doesn't happen very often. |
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"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off
A true Dom would see the wretch suffer "
A true dom looks after his sub! |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood "
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me "
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off
A true Dom would see the wretch suffer
A true dom looks after his sub!"
(Whispers) I know, I was in character...  |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode "
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed |
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"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off
A true Dom would see the wretch suffer
A true dom looks after his sub!
(Whispers) I know, I was in character... "
Oops, I'll get my dom to punish me  |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed"
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene "
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a switch, but it always depends on who I am playing with and my mood.
I may be completely sub to 1 person.
Completely Domme to another.
Or may be with a person who we switch roles with regularly. |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot... "
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Boots shouldn't be reserved just for brats  "
Agreed. But in the case of a naughty little brat that doesn't tow the line... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be "
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady "
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission "
Dont push me, you may regret that... |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that... "
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here "
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!... |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!... "
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience "
We'll see about that young lady. We'll see. You've obviously not been broken in properly... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience "
Patience isn’t needed with presence. |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence."
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them |
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"100% sub x
I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch  "
Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them"
How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all... |
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The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Boots shouldn't be reserved just for brats
Not at all. A boot is often a treat x"
It kinda depends who is wearing it and what they're doing with it.... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them"
Every right to test, consequence is a great balance. |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them
Every right to test, consequence is a great balance."
Hit the nail on the head, I fully know the consequences of my actions. And it's good at a sub to understand that rules are rules |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them
How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all... "
Oh I can be the perfect sub, just depends on the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100% sub x
I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch
Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood? "
Im primal prey if playing with a primal hunter. If he can control me through strength and getting in my head then I submit.
With a normal BDSM Dom im totally submissive provided hes incredibly experienced. I cant just submit to anyone who may have a bit of an in charge personality xx |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them
Every right to test, consequence is a great balance.
Hit the nail on the head, I fully know the consequences of my actions. And it's good at a sub to understand that rules are rules"
And it is a stunning scene, You sound great fun and a good girl.... well sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them
How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all...
Oh I can be the perfect sub, just depends on the situation "
And I'm sure when you're perfect you get spoilt rotten x |
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"100% sub x
I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch
Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood?
Im primal prey if playing with a primal hunter. If he can control me through strength and getting in my head then I submit.
With a normal BDSM Dom im totally submissive provided hes incredibly experienced. I cant just submit to anyone who may have a bit of an in charge personality xx"
That's the important bit getting into your head. Thanks for answering I'm really nosey sorry |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience
Patience isn’t needed with presence.
I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them
How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all...
Oh I can be the perfect sub, just depends on the situation
And I'm sure when you're perfect you get spoilt rotten x "
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I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat |
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat "
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful |
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"100% sub x
I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch
Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood?
Im primal prey if playing with a primal hunter. If he can control me through strength and getting in my head then I submit.
With a normal BDSM Dom im totally submissive provided hes incredibly experienced. I cant just submit to anyone who may have a bit of an in charge personality xx
That's the important bit getting into your head. Thanks for answering I'm really nosey sorry "
I love talking about BDSM and Dom/sub play. Ask me any questions you like xx |
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"100% sub x
I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch "
I think that’s true, most play a role not themselves. To me it’s more about being with someone who lets you be your true self , the agreements you have, when lived out for a while often determine the kind of sex you end up doing |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful"
This is a simile.
Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.
The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...
And a smile on her face.
And the Doms make the play.
Mmmmm
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful
This is a simile.
Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.
The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...
And a smile on her face.
And the Doms make the play.
Mmmmm
"
Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful
This is a simile.
Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.
The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...
And a smile on her face.
And the Doms make the play.
Mmmmm
Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power. "
And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.
Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.
Well done you. |
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful
This is a simile.
Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.
The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...
And a smile on her face.
And the Doms make the play.
Mmmmm
Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.
And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.
Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.
Well done you."
Yes to all of this! If a Dom can take me from fighting back to soft and vulnerable it is easily the most peaceful I ever feel. |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!... "
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
"
That is me being stern. Ive no tolerance for brats who try it on... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
"
Yes you should, depends on the scene you are playing.
It’s a dynamic a verb not a noun.
Every one is different.
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
"
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"100% sub x
I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch
I think that’s true, most play a role not themselves. To me it’s more about being with someone who lets you be your true self , the agreements you have, when lived out for a while often determine the kind of sex you end up doing "
Yeh but there is a very strong element of roleplay involved isn't there? I mean you have to have the kinky streak to start with but you do get into character a bit when you're in the zone dont you?... Depends how much imagination you have and how good you are at improve I suppose...  |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another. "
The little tarts, they love it... |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another.
The little tarts, they love it... "
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission
Dont push me, you may regret that...
There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here
(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...
You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.
Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another.
The little tarts, they love it...
Busted "
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady "
I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you |
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful
This is a simile.
Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.
The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...
And a smile on her face.
And the Doms make the play.
Mmmmm
Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.
And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.
Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.
Well done you."
That's why I like good after care from my dom he pulls me into his side and holds me whilst I come back down to earth |
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I am a sub looking to serve.
I can't really pinpoint what exactly brought me into this lifestyle. I have fantasised it for many years and I just plunged into it when I got a chance. |
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you"
You're welcome to try wench. But I must warn you, I schooled in the eighteenth century... |
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Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you
You're welcome to try wench. But I must warn you, I schooled in the eighteenth century... "
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"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood
Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me
That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode
Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed
Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene
The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...
Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be
Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady
I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you
You're welcome to try wench. But I must warn you, I schooled in the eighteenth century...
My mouth is not just for verbally defying you"
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?
I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat
Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful
This is a simile.
Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.
The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...
And a smile on her face.
And the Doms make the play.
Mmmmm
Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.
And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.
Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.
Well done you.
That's why I like good after care from my dom he pulls me into his side and holds me whilst I come back down to earth"
I like to create a mental “safe space” take her there when I’m with her, and solace when she is not.
Drop is an odd effect that hits both parties. |
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