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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh there are lots like that on here ...
There was a woman on here who was 49 when she joined 2 years ago ... and came back this year with the same profile pictures and who is now 43
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"women are the culprits here more than men. ( stands back and waites for flack )."
I'll give you a good flacking next time I see ya.....you know damn well I'd never lie about being **coughs** 39  |
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I hate liars whether it's age,height or anything else
Surely they're not only wasting their time but everyone elses
The worst I came across was lying about their sex 
personally I don't like being omitted Coz of my age,my pix wer taken within the last month we'll most of em lol
I had to laugh this year a Turkish friend of mine said when he saw me.... Neil how cum every year you get younger n I get older lol 
I always say you don't stop playing because you get old,you get old because you stop playing...... Think about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have met old men who have admmited to lying about their age, they do it because they are hoping to meet a young girl. if i meet a man who i like, it doesnt bother me too much if he has lied about his age, you cant very well say anything about it to them can you? i mean, for all you know they arent lying, they have maybe had a hard life, so they look a lot older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women are the culprits here more than men. ( stands back and waites for flack )."
i always thought it was only women who lied about their age, until i started meeting old fellas off of sites like this. |
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By *xscotMan
over a year ago
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lying about age sex height weight is counter productive - if yu turn up and the 20 year old toy boy turns out to be my age - and heavier than me - most people would run a mile
mind you most run a mile when they see me - and my age is correct - lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to play with a couple who at the time said they were 48. A couple of months later they invited us to their joint 50th Birthday party! We didn't go and didn't see them again. It wasn't the age that bothered us, it was the lying. Funny thing is they still have an ad up and guess what - they're still 49! |
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"Oh there are lots like that on here ...
There was a woman on here who was 49 when she joined 2 years ago ... and came back this year with the same profile pictures and who is now 43
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On another site a man I met who was 57 to my 47 is now 49 to my 51! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as has already been mentioned before, what is the point? Its hardly going to endear you to anybody is it? They're hardly gonna jump into bed with your wrinkly ass and be grateful are they?
I once met somebody who was about 15 years and 6stone heavier than the pics she sent me, the nice added detail of a faint whiff of BO across the table had me clambering for the exit faster than the captain of that italian cruiseliner that went down!
Oh by the way, if any body would fancy accompanying this hunky twentysomething to a meet tonight, im off to a four couple whist drive but could do with borrowing a comode lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh there are lots like that on here ...
There was a woman on here who was 49 when she joined 2 years ago ... and came back this year with the same profile pictures and who is now 43
On another site a man I met who was 57 to my 47 is now 49 to my 51! "
We met a guy (on our old profile) that was 37 when we had our meet. He was 33 the following week, 32 the week after, then 38 and is currently 41 
Must be a good friend of Invictus and Funky seeing as though he has use of a time machine
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must admit it's mostly men that I've seen, but I'm not actively looking for ladies so I get a lot more male contact.
There's one guy from the Leeds area who has what seems like a dozen profiles ranging from 30's through to 50's. All with the same pics, some are even down as a MM couple. No pics of the other guy though.
I'd report, but effort...
There's also an 18-26 year old lad knocking around this area as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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occassionaly get messages from guys claiming to be around 40-ish and seriously doubt it from the pics at time...although who knows? maybe they just had a hard life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love it when someone says ....im the same age as you and there profile says they are 10 yrs younger ...i reply saying sorry i dont meet liars and they wonder what im on about !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Appreciate some ladies are sensative about their age, but I would actually rather know someone true age.
If I like the person - age has nothing to do with it so really may as well be open and truthful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Appreciate some ladies are sensative about their age, but I would actually rather know someone true age.
If I like the person - age has nothing to do with it so really may as well be open and truthful."
IVE BEEN SINGLE SINCE I WAS 49 I HAVE NEVER EVER LIED ABOUT MY AGE ....there are w whole lot of 49 yr old women on every site ive been on !!! |
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
I'd say women are far worse for this than men...as we all know men mature better than women anyway ..so why do we need to lie ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x
I'd say women are far worse for this than men...as we all know men mature better than women anyway ..so why do we need to lie ? "
i would dispute that ....im like a mature wine ,Im far better looking and sexier than i was 20 years ago and thats the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Appreciate some ladies are sensative about their age, but I would actually rather know someone true age.
If I like the person - age has nothing to do with it so really may as well be open and truthful.
IVE BEEN SINGLE SINCE I WAS 49 I HAVE NEVER EVER LIED ABOUT MY AGE ....there are w whole lot of 49 yr old women on every site ive been on !!!"
I actually like women around 49 so good for me! lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as they're not wildly out - I'm not too hung up on whether people knock off a year or two. Can anyone actually say that they'd be able to pinpoint someone's age by sight? I've seen some that look way older than their years (sometimes handy when meeting those a lot younger)as well as those that look significantly younger than their real age.
If there was an option to place yourself in an age bracket, rather than specifying your actual age - would it make a huge difference to anybody - or as is probably the case now, would you make initial judgements based on pics posted or sent, followed by a face to face meeting? After all - someone may be age they claim - and still not float your boat when you've gotten round to more than web based interaction.
I'd rather base my decisions on looks/personality/compatibility than just a number.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Appreciate some ladies are sensative about their age, but I would actually rather know someone true age.
If I like the person - age has nothing to do with it so really may as well be open and truthful.
IVE BEEN SINGLE SINCE I WAS 49 I HAVE NEVER EVER LIED ABOUT MY AGE ....there are w whole lot of 49 yr old women on every site ive been on !!!
I actually like women around 49 so good for me! lol
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but thats no good if all the 49 yr old women are lying about their age !!!which was my point ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can and do get mistaken for being 10 years younger than I actually am (hoorah for good genes) but never lie about it - firstly because I'm a crap liar but mainly because I'm shallow enough that my ego loves being flattered by people's surprise when people hear I'm 40 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh there are lots like that on here ...
There was a woman on here who was 49 when she joined 2 years ago ... and came back this year with the same profile pictures and who is now 43
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol there's a man on here who says he never lies about age yet on his couples profile he has drank a magic drink that makes him younger lol would reply direct but I blocked him and against rules and I get banned enough as it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" lol there's a man on here who says he never lies about age yet on his couples profile he has drank a magic drink that makes him younger lol "
They say Guinness is good for you...
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must admit I'm quite happy to admit my age as get told I do look younger good genes and proud to say I'm looking forward to being 50 next year cos who knows what the future holds  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My problem is that i've looked older than my age since I was 15! I used to get grief for buying a kids ticket on the train and even now, at 36, I don't think a lot of people on here believe I'm that age but what can you do. Not a lot but agree that I fuck pretty good for an old guy!
I'm NOT reaching for the Grecian 2000 though! |
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" lol there's a man on here who says he never lies about age yet on his couples profile he has drank a magic drink that makes him younger lol would reply direct but I blocked him and against rules and I get banned enough as it is "
Look again |
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"there's no point in lying - it serves no purpose.
I find being honest works best - and was complimented on my honesty earlier.  dont tell lies"
I don't here and I'll always answer truthfully if asked a question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've walked away from meets when they turn up looking 10 years older than their picture, their reasoning for doing it........
"well I thought we would still play cos at least I turned up"!!!
Errrrrrrrrrrm no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now put 40s in profile coves my age , Its a number i am more then a number and get fed up with them always on about it saying ooo you don't look that so i have them guessing .. As get alot of men mailing just on about stuff like that gets on my tits , lol i would take off all together if i could . |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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I don't see what all the fuss is about! The number of people on here (and on this thread! ) who have posted to the effect that they don't like labels and are now complaing about a number!
We had a meet at the weekend and the lady was new to us although the guy wasn't. We had no idea how old she was so I mentioned age in out conversation. I thought she was about 48/50.. Turns out she was actually 59! And she is cracking!
Look at a profile, ask for an up to date picture or to see on cam if you have doubts, if you like, who cares how old they are?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 24 but have a right babe face it does not come across in pics as much. People think I'm 18 or under can get annoying.
Only good thing when I'm in my 30s ill look in my 20s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to be in my forties , I know what I like and want now , and definitely better for the experiences that I've had , don't think I could last more than 5 mins in my 20's , now I've got more stamina and actually enjoy sex !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I now put 40s in profile coves my age , Its a number i am more then a number and get fed up with them always on about it saying ooo you don't look that so i have them guessing .. As get alot of men mailing just on about stuff like that gets on my tits , lol i would take off all together if i could . "
I would direct them to to specsavers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
we get our share of guys in there 30's that look like my dads pals lol. i ain't daft either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it happens in all walks of life not just here,
there are TV celebs models actors etc who have been 39 for about 6 years that i know of...
then it switches when they get to 60 and they go on about 'i am 60 you know!!' thinking they look a lot less.
it is one of the things in life you cant change.... your... D O B. so just live with it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never quite undestand the logic of putting up someone else's photo, taking 10+ years off your age or trying to make out you are a couple when you are a single bloke.
Unless you have no intention of meeting of course cos you sure as hell get found out then ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes how did you guess lol
It really was just a wild guess , I never perved on your photos , honest , I'm a male , therefore incapable of lying
hes into this chinese rope thing we r still looking for a self help group to get him out of the knotts hes tied i just step over him bless him xx"
lmao @ 'just step over him'. |
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"yes how did you guess lol
It really was just a wild guess , I never perved on your photos , honest , I'm a male , therefore incapable of lying
hes into this chinese rope thing we r still looking for a self help group to get him out of the knotts hes tied i just step over him bless him xx
lmao @ 'just step over him'. "
well someone has to walk the dog and i cant take out 2 dogs and a bloke on a rope its just wrong xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always honest about my age, I'm a typical guy. 44 years old, body of a 60 year old (at least it feels like it) hormones of a 14 year old, mind of a 3 year old.
there ya go.
Suck my Balls Mr Garrison.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive noticed someone we met keeps changing their age lol.
When we contacted him I was certain he was in his 40s then when I went to verify him his profile said 36. I didn't think much of it tiniest assumed I'd mistaken his age and we liked him do didn't matter. Then a week or do later his profile said 29 and yesterday it says 48  must be trying to fit age groups that people want but come on how can you be 29 one day and 48 the next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
Ok you got me, I'm not 30! |
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"Ive noticed someone we met keeps changing their age lol.
When we contacted him I was certain he was in his 40s then when I went to verify him his profile said 36. I didn't think much of it tiniest assumed I'd mistaken his age and we liked him do didn't matter. Then a week or do later his profile said 29 and yesterday it says 48 must be trying to fit age groups that people want but come on how can you be 29 one day and 48 the next "
What age does he actually look then. ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have noticed some friends suddenly loose a few years
maybe its a celebrity age."
Its so funny when people change their age and think its fine. The excuses they come up with to justify it are hilarious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't really matter to us how old someone is as long as theres an attraction and we get on.
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Thats how i look at it 20/30/40/50/60/ i dont care but there has to be somthing i like to meet and like you say attraction if thats not there no matter what age thay are i would not meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont have a problem with age its the fact theyve lied about it
I met a guy who said he was 46..when we met he looked a lot older but i thought maybe he'd had a hard life..we went for a drink and when he opened his wallet i saw his bus pass 
I suppose you can sometimes get away with lying about your age but he also said he was 6'2 on his profile when he was actually only about 5'6 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met 3 guys over the years who have all knocked at least 5 years off their ages, pointless really as I'd have met them anyway but won't again because of the lie, I hate that more than anything else. |
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
we look at some of those profiles and think " if they are really that age then we must be teenagers "
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"It doesn't really matter to us how old someone is as long as theres an attraction and we get on.
XXXX"
True.. I am not attracted to older men nor men with any sort of beer belly .. young men are overweight too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are much older than our profile ages. But if we don't lie where would 75 year olds get a chance ? "
yes if you looked good and can still love having sex .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who is 75 I cant see any photos of 75 yr olds "
Thay are not 75 really just having a bit of fun here xx i am feeling 20s today , Never know i may pull one , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a 104 but got an arse transplant form a 20
year old..... Pity it was a donkeys arse. Does everyone really really tell the truth? This is my arse though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
I am listening to the Lebonan
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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because so many profiles have little lies and untruths in them we scrutinize all contacts. Any sniff that the profile isn't 100% genuine has us reaching for the block button.
If we can be bothered to be truthful, why shouldn't people that want to meet us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
we get told we're younger. Well she does lol. Cheers. But ive seen guys older looking by miles. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Some really strong comments about something so unimportant! I also cannot understand the "If they lied about their age, what else have they lied about?" statement! Why would they have lied about anything else, just because they were economical with the truth about age..
I like the idea from above somewere, take the ages off and if you like em, meet em!
Another thing that I find odd, especially from people who don't like others telling lies about their age.. Both partners being straight, but prefering to meet orally Bi guys! Now that to me is a lie about Bi-Sexuality! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 19. In triogesimal.
Age is just a number. Any number, depending on which system you use.
In fact, use Roman numerals and age can be letters too!
XXXIX. |
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"Anyone else get messages from people whose profile and actual pics have at least a ten year age gap? C'mon fellas...we can tell you're not 30! Lol x"
we see this a lot, we often look at pics sent and think "if you are that age then we must be teenagers" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im 53 dont any reason to lie about it,
its upto other people if they like me or not.
age dont mean anything i've seen people in there 20s who look mutch oldder & others in there 60s who look younger you cant go by age,its who the person is that matters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the idea from above somewere, take the ages off and if you like em, meet em!
Another thing that I find odd, especially from people who don't like others telling lies about their age.. Both partners being straight, but prefering to meet orally Bi guys! Now that to me is a lie about Bi-Sexuality! "
To both of those! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not sure age is the most lied about thing on here. Id say in my experience whether someone is a smoker is the most lied about thing... Ie a lot of ppl say they dont and do. I wud neva smoke before meeting a non smoker and i dont accom, but i dont lie and say i dont smoke. To my knowledge being a smoker has never put anyone off, in fact lots of ppl who "dont meet smokers" hav met me, so ppl really no need to lie, admit yr evil addiction lol. Then we can all hav a fag afta wev cum lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 19. In triogesimal.
Age is just a number. Any number, depending on which system you use.
In fact, use Roman numerals and age can be letters too!
XXXIX."
true , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets be honest in the world of FAB and the system of varifys we have if someone meets and is not genuine we are going to know about soon enough id guess lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some really strong comments about something so unimportant! I also cannot understand the "If they lied about their age, what else have they lied about?" statement! Why would they have lied about anything else, just because they were economical with the truth about age..
I like the idea from above somewere, take the ages off and if you like em, meet em!
Another thing that I find odd, especially from people who don't like others telling lies about their age.. Both partners being straight, but prefering to meet orally Bi guys! Now that to me is a lie about Bi-Sexuality! "
Have come across loads of "straight" guys who then ask if my OH do oral on men |
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