"What does this mean to you and are you looking for something more on Fab?"
To me, it means no kink or fetish. Just plain missionary position i suppose. That's not to say that can't be amazing or i can't get off without bringing kink into it.
Not necessarily looking for something more than vanilla on here. If i was looking for kink I'd toodle over to fet.
I have found a few kinksters on hete, some who share my kinks and fetishes, and thats cool.
But I'd not discount anyone for not being kinky. Vanilla doesn't always equal boring. |
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"Agreed vanilla sex can be enjoyable but for me i joined as i wanted to explore so much more
So what are you looking for?"
I was always interested in group sex and the different things that could be accomplished with more than one other person. |
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Was chatting to a married man on here once who had never had a blowjob. His wife said she would do it once they were married but that was 18yrs ago and he is still waiting. I thought this was rather sad. |
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Vanilla to me is just minus the kink and fetish.
I personally do not think it means just missionary and certainly don't believe it to be boring of lack imagination.
We're all different though and each to there own.
Sensual sex can be classed and vanilla but is still very much a turn on
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Probably not the correct definition but I see vanilla as 1 on 1 sex within a relationship and theres nothing wrong with that at all. Bring someone else into the mix, or start having sex outdoors, adding a little kink etc then it becomes a bit more flavoured. |
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I'm not ashamed to say I enjoy vanilla sex. Just sensual, passionate sex between 2 people with a connection who want to pleasure each other. I see it as sex without the kink, but still hugely enjoyable if done right. |
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"Must be hard in a marriage/relationship if one person has a strong urge to try something new and the other person is against it."
You’re so right OP. A long term relationship ended due to this. Nothing else but For this very reason. And here I am today on fabs loving life at clubs. The best thing I ever did. I was vanilla but now I’ve converted. |
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"Agreed vanilla sex can be enjoyable but for me i joined as i wanted to explore so much more
So what are you looking for?"
Agreed. For us we’re looking for sexual connoisseurs, so passionate, sensual vanilla is fine if it’s great but exploring kink and boundaries is also important |
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We have started a podcast... (the link is on our profile text) and was hoping we could have some ideas on what to cover when it comes to vanilla sex and how people can take that huge step in regards to inviting people into their bed 
Paul and Char xx |
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