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Why do some women stereotype all younger single males?
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Its ridiculous. Before even texting or meeting some, they already label you negatively and expect respect.
Respect is mutual, the fact that you think you can just base me on some "age stereotype" is rude to me cause I'm a unique individual, and some ladies are fond of it.
Had to get it off my chest. I have met some wonderful mature ladies and i wish there were more of them.
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"What are you talking about then?
Apparently someone had raised up something similar. Not exactly but quite. Check this forum
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/949918 "
People have preferences and maybe you aren't what they prefer. We all have different tastes and are looking for different things. Perhaps you aren't targeting the right audience. |
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"What are you talking about then?
Apparently someone had raised up something similar. Not exactly but quite. Check this forum
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/949918
People have preferences and maybe you aren't what they prefer. We all have different tastes and are looking for different things. Perhaps you aren't targeting the right audience."
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Sorry we are in our right to think someone the same age as our children just doesn't feel right. I'm sure you are a lovely individual but you can't dictate other people's feelings Yes there are women I'm sure enjoy that, and good for them. For me, it feels wrong we are entitled to decide what we like and don't like |
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"Sorry we are in our right to think someone the same age as our children just doesn't feel right. I'm sure you are a lovely individual but you can't dictate other people's feelings Yes there are women I'm sure enjoy that, and good for them. For me, it feels wrong we are entitled to decide what we like and don't like "
People shouldn't be rude tho we just say no thank you happy fabbing |
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"Sorry we are in our right to think someone the same age as our children just doesn't feel right. I'm sure you are a lovely individual but you can't dictate other people's feelings Yes there are women I'm sure enjoy that, and good for them. For me, it feels wrong we are entitled to decide what we like and don't like
People shouldn't be rude tho we just say no thank you happy fabbing"
This is much much more better than what some women say to younger male. Thanks for the courtesy. Happy fabbing |
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Because we all stereotype other people to an extent.
We do for sure. In our experience men under about 40 have a certain attitude towards people of our generation that means we won't get along. Now we know that not all men of that age group are like that and we will happily socialise with anyone and everyone. For the purposes of fab however we have to apply some method of setting our preference where she is concerned so we resort to stereotypes.
Some people even use a stereotype as their usp |
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It’s just a way to filter mate. Unfortunately many people have had bad experiences conversing with younger single males, so they just apply a blanket filter. There’s thousands upon thousands of people here, so there has to be some sort of method to reduce the work of going through unwanted messages etc.
It’s unfortunate, but it’s just how it is. |
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I’ve been on here on and off since I was in my twenties. People wouldn’t meet me cos I’m too young then. Now I’m upto my eyeballs in fanny I’ve had to get a PA. Don’t worry you’ll soon be 30! |
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I’m joking by the way... honestly it’s hard to do but if you want to have success talk to women in the real world. That’s what I learned as I got older. On sites like fab it’s 10,000 guys for every one girl. Speak to girls in your social circle, ask a girl on a date, get chatting to people when you’re out and about you’ll have a much higher success rate. Just don’t be a creep. I went for a socially distanced drink with a girl I randomly got talking to in a local shop a few weeks ago. Nothing happened but we had a laugh and I made a new connection. |
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"I’m joking by the way... honestly it’s hard to do but if you want to have success talk to women in the real world. That’s what I learned as I got older. On sites like fab it’s 10,000 guys for every one girl. Speak to girls in your social circle, ask a girl on a date, get chatting to people when you’re out and about you’ll have a much higher success rate. Just don’t be a creep. I went for a socially distanced drink with a girl I randomly got talking to in a local shop a few weeks ago. Nothing happened but we had a laugh and I made a new connection. "
That notorious dating app that begins with a T has been far, far more fruitful for me than fab has for meeting other singles. But it’s not really a surprise. Fab is a swinging site after all! |
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