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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Have a real love of femdom play/pegging but seems very hard to find on here any thoughts? All feed back appreciated x
Try a different website?
Know of any?! 
Fetlife"
was going to suggest the same site but a lot on there a pro and will want payment |
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"Have a real love of femdom play/pegging but seems very hard to find on here any thoughts? All feed back appreciated x
Try a different website?
Know of any?!
Fetlife was going to suggest the same site but a lot on there a pro and will want payment "
It's often the way. Friends with a few Pro Dommes and in their private sexual lives then are all very sub.
The only people i have met in female dom/ male sub romantic relationships, did not seek each other out for that, they fell in love and that side of things developed that way.
There are many femdom club nights, maybe that would be a good place to meet femdoms not seeking financial reward?
But I am not really qualified to say really. Maybe some of the femdoms on this site may be able to offer advice? |
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Dommes are very thin on the ground, unfortunately. Demand greatly outstrips supply, which is why some of the professionals can command such premium prices – I used to know one who charged £3,000 an hour.
I've also found that a lot of women who bill themselves as dommes are in fact just sadists, which is very much not what I'm looking for.
I concur with the poster above – a different pro domme I knew was in her personal life extremely submissive.
Femdom events can be very hit and miss. I went to one last year where literally zero women attended. I had a nice night chatting to the organisers, but that wasn't what I was looking for either.
If anyone comes up with an answer to this conundrum, please let me know! |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Have a real love of femdom play/pegging but seems very hard to find on here any thoughts? All feed back appreciated x
Try a different website?
Know of any?!
Fetlife was going to suggest the same site but a lot on there a pro and will want payment
It's often the way. Friends with a few Pro Dommes and in their private sexual lives then are all very sub.
The only people i have met in female dom/ male sub romantic relationships, did not seek each other out for that, they fell in love and that side of things developed that way.
There are many femdom club nights, maybe that would be a good place to meet femdoms not seeking financial reward?
But I am not really qualified to say really. Maybe some of the femdoms on this site may be able to offer advice?"
Yeah I've had a sub/domme relationship and thanks for your input much appreciated x |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Dommes are very thin on the ground, unfortunately. Demand greatly outstrips supply, which is why some of the professionals can command such premium prices – I used to know one who charged £3,000 an hour.
I've also found that a lot of women who bill themselves as dommes are in fact just sadists, which is very much not what I'm looking for.
I concur with the poster above – a different pro domme I knew was in her personal life extremely submissive.
Femdom events can be very hit and miss. I went to one last year where literally zero women attended. I had a nice night chatting to the organisers, but that wasn't what I was looking for either.
If anyone comes up with an answer to this conundrum, please let me know! "
It seems I'm not alone lol |
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By *llesmere OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"for me finding a good sub is difficult as most men think they are submissive but when it comes to it, they act in a non sub way where everything is only on their terms with many limitations  "
I'm a very genuine sub and have been in a sub/domme relationship for 4 year untill about a year ago. I realise i can say whatever here as there only words but i genuinely grave to give over my control/body and mind to a domme x |
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"for me finding a good sub is difficult as most men think they are submissive but when it comes to it, they act in a non sub way where everything is only on their terms with many limitations "
Definitely this. Obvs. not a Domme myself, but C and I very much enjoy femdom play from time to time, and she's looked for subs both here and the aforementioned fetish site. 90% of the messages she gets are people looking for a kink dispenser, not a proper D/s dynamic (which is fine, if you're upfront about it), and in those cases you're best paying for exactly what you want. Otherwise yes, it's likely you'll only find what you're after within the confines of some form of relationship. |
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