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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Given the volume of bi curious women on here it’s created an interesting conversation for my partner and I.
She’s straight and has no interest in pussy but in the heat of the moment would have no issue with a woman going down on her.........however she’s worried that this would have to be reciprocated 
I’ve suggested that just so long as we’re upfront at the start it shouldn’t be an issue 
What’s the etiquette?
And before you suggest this means she’s secretly curious please think again......she really isn’t xx
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I personally wouldn’t go for women who has no desire to play with me. I also shut down that aspect of play if there is straight woman in a group play so it won’t happen in a heat of the moment as well.  |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
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In my humble opinion with the right person it shouldn't be an issue if they know what the "rules" are and are ok with what can't or won't happen it just may take you longer to find that someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not something I'd want to do. There's a term for it, pillow princesses.
If I'm playing with a woman it'd be because she wanted to play with me."
Exactly this!
And it's so easy to tell if a woman isn't into it.
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It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people.
Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it. |
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"It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people.
Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it. "
I've heard "bi playful" used for this sort of thing.
I tend to avoid it, because I've had experiences where I'm made to feel like an exotic creature putting on a performance. I'm not here for that |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people.
Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it.
I've heard "bi playful" used for this sort of thing.
I tend to avoid it, because I've had experiences where I'm made to feel like an exotic creature putting on a performance. I'm not here for that "
Yes it's really not for me.
I guess it similar the guys who are happy for somebody (potentially male or female) to give them a blowjob but they're not interested in reciprocating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not something I'd want to do. There's a term for it, pillow princesses.
If I'm playing with a woman it'd be because she wanted to play with me."
This for me too and vice versa. That we want to play with each other.
I am interested in bisexual and maybe bicurious women, though have had MF couple profiles message me asking if I'd be ok with her being a pillow princess.
Being upfront is best. They were upfront saying she was a pillow princess and I in turn replied that I was not interested in that setup.
There are also the terms bi-playful and hetero-flexible.
Some may say that you can be bisexual and only want to receive I guess.
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Personally I refuse to meet couples with straight women, and I’m wary about bi-curious because I’m not willing to be an experiment for anyone. I just feel like if the woman’s straight, what’s the point for me? What do I get out of the meet? Might as well just meet a single man. And I definitely don’t play with pillow princesses, or anyone who’s just using me to pleasure them without giving anything back. |
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"It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people.
Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it.
I've heard "bi playful" used for this sort of thing.
I tend to avoid it, because I've had experiences where I'm made to feel like an exotic creature putting on a performance. I'm not here for that
Yes it's really not for me.
I guess it similar the guys who are happy for somebody (potentially male or female) to give them a blowjob but they're not interested in reciprocating"
We both more than happy to reciprocate when we play like this, no problem there if people are happy to play bi with us we are happy to do the same, we just identify as straight as it’s only in a swinging scenario that we would do this, not on a one to one meeting if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your thoughts guys and to be honest you've basically said what I've been telling my partner all along. There has to be a mutual attraction and knowledge that the other woman wants to play. An intimate act has to be reciprocated in some way whether it be like for like or in the knowledge that it was mutually desired in the first place. Otherwise you might just as well be a sex toy or inanimate object which isn't fair. It's about mutual respect.
Though I would add it does surprise me how many just assume all women must be bi curious....an assumption that's never made about all men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys for the responses......still non the wiser 
A grey area "
I think the answer is that just like everything else , the key is pre play communication.
I totally get why it’s not for everyone but personally I wouldn’t have any issues with plying with a woman that didn’t want to reciprocate as long as I was happy that it was what she really wanted and not just something she was “putting on for the fella ” I suppose.
And of course it should go without saying that the communication doesn’t stop at the preplay but continues right through. If for whatever reason the woman changes her mind, that’s it, done, no biggie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I totally understand your comments
I’m straight and have no longing to go down on another woman. I did meet a couple once and she was bi and they both went down on me at various stages but she didn’t expect me to reciprocate
In the heat of the moment, I did kiss her and finger her pussy, but that was it |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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As long as you’re upfront with the people you try to meet, there’s no reason you shouldn’t find a woman who wants to give but not receive, other than they will be an extremely rare niche amongst an already very limited number of women on Fab - women who will meet a couple alone.
It certainly wouldn’t be something we’d seek ourselves, but Fab is a place where you can explore your particular fantasies and, if you are lucky, fulfil them. Hope you find what you are looking for. |
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