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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
I have my face as my profile picture but as a zombie I’m happy I’m fairly unrecognisable (people who know me will recognise me). I am not bothered if face pics aren’t visible (mine are not usually) but I share fairly quickly if I’m chatting.
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We are happy to provide face pics as part of a chat, but we keep them all private now, after losing control of some pictures previously. And yes I agree, you must have an attraction to warrant taking things further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are happy to provide face pics as part of a chat, but we keep them all private now, after losing control of some pictures previously. And yes I agree, you must have an attraction to warrant taking things further."
This.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they a must for you or ok to keep to private for friends or private messaging?"
Not a must but if someone wants to take things further than messages it’s a must for my wife but then it’s all set out in our profile that is only there to help and not hinder.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are a must for me and obviously I am happy to show my face.
I have no secrets from anyone and really don't care if someone steals them tbh, I know the risk being on the internet  |
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"We keep ours private.
Thing that annoys us is people asking for face pic who have none themselves "
We send ours with a 1st message if others have theirs on public. If others contact that don't have their public asking for face pics we tend to delete if their message doesn't contain one. Similarly if we're the ones asking we send 1st.
Never expect others to do what you won't 1st. |
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"We keep ours private.
Thing that annoys us is people asking for face pic who have none themselves
We send ours with a 1st message if others have theirs on public. If others contact that don't have their public asking for face pics we tend to delete if their message doesn't contain one. Similarly if we're the ones asking we send 1st.
Never expect others to do what you won't 1st."
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We both have our faces on show and when looking for someone to play with we would like and expect the same as in them sending said pictures to us. This is not blind date after all and without face pictures there cannot be a mutual attraction. Yes this is a site for nas sex but most couples and single wimen will not meet people without being able to see them simple. If you were on a vanilla dating site and were looking for a partner I don't think many people would arrange to meet someone without seeing what they looked like before let along a site that is to meet people for sex. |
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"We are happy to provide face pics as part of a chat, but we keep them all private now, after losing control of some pictures previously. And yes I agree, you must have an attraction to warrant taking things further."
That’s what I feel like is the danger on here sometimes, you can feel like someone is genuine but they end up not being as you’d expect. Thankfully the majority of people I’ve spoken to over the years make it a better place |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"Mine is on show from experience i would not meet a couple or female again without first seeing them. I prefer to meet in clubs obviously not at the moment due to covid."
Missing all things filthy kinky clubbing.  . Definitely the best place to meet new friends. If the pictures and chat don’t quite make it in the flesh then it can still be a super fun night.
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We are happy to share face pics after a couple of messages but we don't have them publicly. Its our secret and hopefully it helps it stay that way and keeps our privacy. However, we do appreciate the need for them which is why we send them if asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people don’t have public face pics for the similar reasons, privacy, loss of control of images etc. The list goes on.
For some of us this is a secret little life we have that we don’t want publicly exposing. “Ha ha, your a swinger” in the workplace isn’t a good look.
I have chatted with someone and after a while it became apparent that we may know each other professionally. We just left it there. No face pics shared, both our secrets intact.
I feel it’s only worth sharing face pics once I have got chatting and it feels like it may lead somewhere. “Face pic on first message or you will be ignored” kind of frustrates me. How may people miss out on potential good times because of this?
No initial face pic doesn’t necessarily mean you are taking to the elephant man  |
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"We both have our faces on show and when looking for someone to play with we would like and expect the same as in them sending said pictures to us. This is not blind date after all and without face pictures there cannot be a mutual attraction. Yes this is a site for nas sex but most couples and single wimen will not meet people without being able to see them simple. If you were on a vanilla dating site and were looking for a partner I don't think many people would arrange to meet someone without seeing what they looked like before let along a site that is to meet people for sex. "
I think above said it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not a must for your profile but I do like to see who I’m talking with. I always send my face pic on a first message it’s polite even if you’re message is ignored. |
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There must be a face picture to see if there is an attraction or what's the point in chatting?
Our face pics are in our friends folder...we do not accept blind friends requests because of this... These pictures are reserved for people we have met.
We are happy to send a face picture on a message if the person we are speaking to are of interest. |
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"There must be a face picture to see if there is an attraction or what's the point in chatting?
Our face pics are in our friends folder...we do not accept blind friends requests because of this... These pictures are reserved for people we have met.
We are happy to send a face picture on a message if the person we are speaking to are of interest. "
Yeah always send a face picture in the first message, may as well know from the start of I would be of interest to the recipient or not!
Just don’t have them in the public area as you never know who’ll be looking? |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Previously, when I was on here, I used to have a couple on show.
This time around I have kept them private. Has it made a difference? Previously I was reasonably successful, this time, not so. But then last time we weren't in a global pandemic. |
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I have mine in friends only or I will happily send in a message, but don’t have them public as I work with people who are not very tolerant and are particularly ruthless when it comes to shaming people |
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