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over a year ago
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So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business?  |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business? "
A social is always on the cards first. It shows interest and may be a commitment to go further.
And, I like to see, hear and smell the person I am going to devour. |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business?
A social is always on the cards first. It shows interest and may be a commitment to go further.
And, I like to see, hear and smell the person I am going to devour."
Yeah I think it's a good thing but obviously not for everyone unfortunately  |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business? "
I suppose it depends on the people. Some on here I would meet in a heartbeat due to pics, vids and verifications.
Others I would want a social to be sure there is an attraction in person |
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By *u41Man
over a year ago
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Depends on the person some people want a quick fuck other people want a long-term friends with benefits new strings attached sort of thing.
They are hard to find but worth waiting for |
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We always have a social,
Great way to check there's attraction between the 4 of us and a connection.
If not no pressure and you can all go your own ways.
I couldn't play without meeting the couple first and feel it would be too awkward to just meet straight to get down to it. People look different in the flesh etc.
Do what works for you and never do what you're not comfortable with
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If they don't agree to a social end all conversation.
Some people do go straight to a meet, if your comfortable with that do it. This is a swinging site after all not an group meeting for shy people |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business? "
Face to face sorts out the loosers no good getting to it and their breath stinks or if they are more interested in there phone than you. |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business? "
Always have a social first. Seems pointless without there being a connection |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business?
Face to face sorts out the loosers no good getting to it and their breath stinks or if they are more interested in there phone than you."
Yep that's why I ( Bebop) suggest a social as anyone can say what they want through typing but face to face totally different ball game excuse my pun  |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business?
Face to face sorts out the loosers no good getting to it and their breath stinks or if they are more interested in there phone than you.
Yep that's why I ( Bebop) suggest a social as anyone can say what they want through typing but face to face totally different ball game excuse my pun "
No punny business in here please  |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business?
Face to face sorts out the loosers no good getting to it and their breath stinks or if they are more interested in there phone than you.
Yep that's why I ( Bebop) suggest a social as anyone can say what they want through typing but face to face totally different ball game excuse my pun
No punny business in here please "
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We tend to dive straight in with single guys, but would prefer a social with couples. Main reason is that we don't get many opportunities and even a social takes it out of Char and she needs a few days rest, so it seems a waste of a "chance" if we limit ourselves to not playing on a first meet. |
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"We tend to dive straight in with single guys, but would prefer a social with couples. Main reason is that we don't get many opportunities and even a social takes it out of Char and she needs a few days rest, so it seems a waste of a "chance" if we limit ourselves to not playing on a first meet."
Fair play |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business?
I suppose it depends on the people. Some on here I would meet in a heartbeat due to pics, vids and verifications.
Others I would want a social to be sure there is an attraction in person"
Exactly this for me too! |
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"So we have had been chatting to a few people and have been really interested in chatting and have agreed that having a social is a good idea just to see how we get on etc.. then when it comes to making arrangements for the social they don't bother getting back to you. So would you prefer to have a social first or just get down to business? "
Some want guaranteed play with people they've never met! Surely there has to be some sort of social, even just to see you fancy each other? Some don't see it that way though! |
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