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Do men masterbate before meets?
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I don’t. If the level of sexual tension is high and I don’t think I’ll last as long as I’d want to, I tend to move from penetration (where I’m more likely to cum) to something else. I also try and focus on something else to reduce the likelihood (the mind is after all the most powerful sex organ). |
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over a year ago
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Tbf if i feel like i'm about to cum i'll just stop and have a water break, some food, maybe see what's on Sky. Then when i've settled i'll go back to work. She's usually asleep anyway to be honest  |
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"Tbf if i feel like i'm about to cum i'll just stop and have a water break, some food, maybe see what's on Sky. Then when i've settled i'll go back to work. She's usually asleep anyway to be honest "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"
We've had several guys with this and the other obvious problem, not all single guys either.
Maybe they should find another hobby? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"
Some medications including viagra can affect a mans ability to ejaculate.
We know women can enjoy sex without achieving an orgasm, the same is true for men. I don’t dwell on it. As long as people have fun thats all that should matter. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"
I never have wanked before a meet.
By the same token there are times when I've not 'finished' either. Sometimes it's like a switch in my head. Switch to off and I can go for ages and still not cum. It's not down to the person I'm with, I can retain an erection, just never finish. I know when it's not going to happen. I enjoy the physical act and sometimes that's all I need without the physical ending. |
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"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"
I did have that issue once, on my first ever meet here with a couple. Sex was great, but I think it was just nerves stopped me getting there. They were very kind and considerate and invited me back where there was no such issue, several times, on the repeat. |
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"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"
I’ve had occasions where I’ve not been able to finish, none of which were the result of bashing one out beforehand. Sometimes it’s nerves, sometimes stress. Pressure to do so, either real or perceived, can affect it too.
It’s not necessarily that those guys had a ‘tactical wank’, but I know some guys do do it in order to last longer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a weird thing to do, some guys cum before their meets to last longer, but the poor woman and her defibrillator cant get that thing working afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No can’t say I have ever before a meet, Previously though I had trouble ejaculating due to having a restricted foreskin. Then got circumcised and it no longer a problem. I’m guessing unless they’ve said they masturbated before a meets and you think they where telling the truth, then there can be a number of reason why they struggle. Anxiety, stress or other mental health issue, fatigue, medical issues, medicines etc. None of them are a reflection on anyone else it just not widely discussed. That were the problem really stems from. I think really men still can’t talk about having any issues. For a lot of men I think it is still very difficult to even acknowledge as there is still the stigma that anything effecting the penis is a bad reflection of their manly-ness when most of the time it has nothing to do with either, it stems from something else. |
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"i dont get why guys worry about cuming to quick its no biggie just a little rest then of you go again surely ??"
Guys worry because most can’t control it. A lot of people are very negative towards men that cum quick like they have a choice about it.
It can be very stressful for the guy. |
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"As above, do men masterbate before meeting, ?"
Absolutely not! I've never had a problem with cumming too quickly and besides, one of my ladies would be quite cross if I were to do that as she wants it all for herself.  |
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"Tbf if i feel like i'm about to cum i'll just stop and have a water break, some food, maybe see what's on Sky. Then when i've settled i'll go back to work. She's usually asleep anyway to be honest "
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"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"
Just a thought, but maybe that’s not the guys fault?
What’s the common demonstrator here ?
Maybe pelvic floor exercises or change your technique..
Maybe they didn’t fancy you in person?
Just been devil’s advocate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As far as I know, most people don't. But I have premature ejaculation problem. So I do it before meets. But sometimes my mistress doesn't allow me to do it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont get why guys worry about cuming to quick its no biggie just a little rest then of you go again surely ??
Lots of guys cum once and then theyre done for the day. "
Do they well i must have been lucky because rarely ive met a guy who only cum once ?? |
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