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''can i ask you a question''
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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''can i ask you a question''
so im seeing this in my inbox most days now from first time message senders to me ... ..i dont answer them as the last one i did answer came back with a sick question.
so question is do you get these pm's..
do you answer ?
do you delete ?
and to the people who send them why ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would delete it is just being lazy and trying to see if you are kind enough to reply.
If you have a question then ask it, but we all know the question would just be deleted so therefore the charade is played by the sender as a chancer |
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Foxy you post a lot in forums and often speak a lot of sense. I suspect that whilst there are some who want to message something inappropriate in response to your first contact others may well genuinely want your opinion. I would play it by ear and respond or not as you see fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"''can i ask you a question''
so im seeing this in my inbox most days now from first time message senders to me ... ..i dont answer them as the last one i did answer came back with a sick question.
so question is do you get these pm's..
do you answer ?
do you delete ?
and to the people who send them why ?"
I'm not even nosey enough to ask...
BLOCK!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Mrs has the fastest block button finger in the west when it comes to these! I keep going to view the profile of the message and its blocked cos she beet me too it ha ha |
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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Soooo many desperate knobheads trying what they can to get a response thinking that might lead to attraction and a meet.
It’s just like junk mail, it keeps evolving but once the novelty has worn out it eventually gets blurred into the background.
I’d love to reach out to ladies and couples I like the look of but frankly I am drowned out in the noise. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I normally start with a How's your day been or how's your week been? I know it's cliche but you find out a lot from that and take the convo in whatever direction they answer. Well, some may answer, some don't. Unless I'm asking the wrong questions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I normally start with a How's your day been or how's your week been? I know it's cliche but you find out a lot from that and take the convo in whatever direction they answer. Well, some may answer, some don't. Unless I'm asking the wrong questions "
off topic but again these question hows your day / week are every other message so i just delete them too |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"''can i ask you a question''
so im seeing this in my inbox most days now from first time message senders to me ... ..i dont answer them as the last one i did answer came back with a sick question.
so question is do you get these pm's..
do you answer ?
do you delete ?
and to the people who send them why ?"
We just answer with a simple 'No'   |
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We get them! I think the issue is it’s hard to stand out as a single guy, I kinda get it, like the copy and paste message thing they have to say something to start the convo but i agree it’s not very imaginative! What gets my back up when they copy and paste a message which clearly hasn’t read the profile! The ones that really boil my blood are I’ve checked out your profile…. Then says something clearly shows they haven’t! |
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I get messages from women that are not this imaginative:-
Hey hun!
How’s you!
You ok!
Nice cock!
Sooooo lazy ! They must think all guys on fab are so desperate that the merest communication from any form of the opposite sex will have them jumping out there seats.
Shite is not gender exclusive on here ladies |
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