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By *G44Man
over a year ago
Chesterfield |
"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Of course why not. You should never expect anything even in that situation. Hell I have been in circumstances that I wasn't even aware that someone liked me and then the next thing I am being jumped on |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Of course! The majority of my meets all started with a no-expectations social meet first.  |
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Depends on the person and circumstances.
Not likely to meet a woman from here without the intent of trying to fuck her because of the nature of the site though.
I don’t personally need or want another friend. |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Yes.
My wife and I do social events often. We both play separately as well as a couple but neither of us go to those with any expectations. Even individyally, if someone says "social" we treat it as just a social. If that's all it is, that's fine. If it's not, bonus but we never go in with the assumption somethings going to happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Absolutely. That’s a massive part of the fun. Meetings new people with a kink. And it might lead to other stuff on another occasion so time well spent. But even if it didn’t fun to meet others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Yes. A social for me (and us) is the chance to see if there is a spark. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done many a time. Actually prefer having a social with the agreement that nothing more happens. I think this gives a woman or couple a better experience without any pressure. If they want more we can arrange a play meet, if they don't then there's no awkwardness and no hard feelings. |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Yes, I’d probably want a social before a fuck, and anyway, I like a challenge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
100% yes, and have done a number of times previously |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Absolutely yes, I’d love to, chatting to a lady is what I’m missing so much in life.
And who knows what might happen after that. |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
We have done a few times, it's great to meet new people.... and old ones too I suppose.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Wud be difficult but yes i cud |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Yes. This lifestyle is about making friends as well as having good fun. Do yes we would meet just for a social. |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
100 percent, it’s about the social side too but what if she changes her mind and you say no ahah, what man ever said no , right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
yep i like having a laugh with people some of my favourite meet ups with folks i didnt have to get my cock out for altho the majority i did get a snog or a grope out of it at least
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet?
Yes, I’d probably want a social before a fuck, and anyway, I like a challenge."
A challenge?! How incredibly creepy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet?
Yes, I’d probably want a social before a fuck, and anyway, I like a challenge.
A challenge?! How incredibly creepy. "
I was thinking that. Unfortunately this is the kinda comment that puts people off. To say yes but then obviously have other intentions |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Once, in the past, but only because it was in the town centre. Wouldn't have travelled for one.
Frank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet?
Yes, I’d probably want a social before a fuck, and anyway, I like a challenge.
A challenge?! How incredibly creepy.
I was thinking that. Unfortunately this is the kinda comment that puts people off. To say yes but then obviously have other intentions"
And to see it as a 'challenge'..... there's an R word for that. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Of course, that is what social meets are for to get to know one another. We have had some great nights out with others even though there was never any chance of sex at the end of the evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No problem with that here.
A social is a good way to sell your self as a profile and a few pictures can never show others what your really like in person with no pressure to play |
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Absolutely... I've even suggested this a few times. Never been taken up on the offer though. |
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Social is the very beginning of the journey with that person and I like the excitement, the body language and the not knowing, so I fully expect the social to be a sexless outing.
On the flip side a social can be the ending of any expected engagement so I never take anything for granted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple answer to the question is yes.
But how can you guarantee no sex? You may think that going in, but what if you really get on etc or the person males you weak at the knees and simply turns you on so much you can't help yourself? |
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"Simple answer to the question is yes.
But how can you guarantee no sex? You may think that going in, but what if you really get on etc or the person males you weak at the knees and simply turns you on so much you can't help yourself?"
That did happen for me a few years ago. Got chatting to someone on another site, arranged to meet at a coffee shop, both of us completely sure that’s all it was. Within the hour we were parked up down a quiet lane having a lot more than coffee. And so began almost 3 years of fantastic sex. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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Absolutely Yes
It does not always go the way you want it to, started chatting to a lady on here a few years ago, after a while it emerged that not only did we live in the same village but only 200yds apart, I suggested she pop round for coffee and cake to see if we were compatible with each other, 18hrs and an overnight stay later she went home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow more answers than I expected and very refreshing at that.
I was genuinely asking as I seem to have been unlucky when putting up a social meet on here. I quite often get badgered for a promise of sex and hence my post.
Thank you for your answers!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, certainly; I really wish that more people would do this. I would be very happy to meet men, women, and couples socially, regardless of their own sexuality and without any expectations.
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Yes. Plenty of dates are like this. It's fun just getting to know people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Yeah absolutely, I have lesbian mates as well |
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"Wow more answers than I expected and very refreshing at that.
I was genuinely asking as I seem to have been unlucky when putting up a social meet on here. I quite often get badgered for a promise of sex and hence my post.
Thank you for your answers!
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I certainly go to a social with no expectations at all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you attend a social meet with another member of fab in the full knowledge there is no chance of sex during that meet? "
Depends if there is an opportunity of sex at a future meet. |
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