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Time to fill a boring Thursday afternoon.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in.  |
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Ah perfect, I have a couple of spare hours but must wait in for a delivery. Any questions, I am happy to answer.
Thanks OP for setting up, just what I needed today at a loose end (assuming there is any interest in messaging). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im in |
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That's a lot of money!!
We've discussed it before and we've always said that we would pay off our mortgage, buy our parents a house each/pay off their mortgages and then probably buy a pub.
Boring and safe but we look after our own first |
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Well I have a natural fascination of intimacy, so my top spot goes to being invited to watch a couple in their own environment on a special occasion - whatever that entails. So not strictly any one sexual activity |
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Would love to go to Hawaii. Party's on the beach and go with the flow.
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Our sex event would probably be a masquerade ball, in a castle or a large mansion. Big dance floor live music, free bar, games and entertainment and lots of sexual shenanigans. |
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Well it was being a submissive. Out of my comfort zone but actually incredibly enjoyable. Not my go to, but for the right person would find that a very enlightening avenue to explore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on then, lets join in the fun! Do your worst...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my most spontaneous sexual encounter was probably on a bumble date. Went out for drinks, i soon discovered if i breathed in her ear she would turn to jelly.
fast forward to her place and as she lent over her bed I had a sudden urge to lift her figure hugging dress, pull her thong to the side and rim her..... neither of us had done that before and she soon discovered it was the best thing ever.
we spent the night going crazy at each other. Luckily the alcohol numbed me somewhat and I could last all night. |
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Probably the sailing of the Titanic so I could tell them not to sail and we would be spared years later that God awful film |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was fun last time…. I’m in |
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My first ‘big cock’ experience. I was about 19. An older guy from work. He’d teased me for a while and one day he just sent me a pic. It was HUGE. Instantly I felt like I was literally alive to serve him. I had to. He deserved it. When we finally fucked it was pure release. |
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It would have been serving topless one night in the bar where I work at a charity fundraiser after jokingly saying I would if £300 was pledged. |
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over a year ago
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Well if my love for older ladies allowed me to pick a celebrity of my choosing it would have to be charlize theron, nothing beats a dirty blonde does it? |
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Big cock once a month for 5 minutes over 3 inch whenever I want it. |
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I don't ask ages but I would hazard a guess at 30 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Afternoon....in whilst waiting for a plumber (not a euphemism!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In - this is going to be great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alison hannigan and Karen gillan  |
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It would be meeting the sister in law, the hubby's sister, in a club one night and having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MotionDesigner
A mixed meet i arranged in a Barn near Sheffield in 2015 MMMFFFF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ricardo
I am bisexual - so a meet with a genuine Bi couple who accept me for who I am
J xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See previous answer above |
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A night when my pal and I shared my hubby |
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Definitely our one and only foursome. We'd had plenty of threesomes and soft swing moments but that extra person changed things. Took a while to get used to it but was a great night in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely our one and only foursome. We'd had plenty of threesomes and soft swing moments but that extra person changed things. Took a while to get used to it but was a great night in the end. "
Can't ask you a question - age block i am to old ....burnt out ....forgotten .....sad ....older man ........to be cast out and disregarded ......... but if I could ask you a question it would be ....
,,,,,, who with and where was your first meet ???
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Well I don't play with others so I'd have to think of a girl I'd want to see play with Debs and a guy I think she'd like as well (and who I would enjoy watching her play with).
Twistedtoo are very cute. So too are SandM25 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in should be fun |
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Debs' parents house. Parents away.
Mutual school friend invited over to dinner innocently. Offered a bed for the night in the spare room so he could drink.
Drinks flowed, conversation turned dirty. Led to Debs being blindfolded and restrained in bed as we teased and played with her. No idea how far it was going to go until I turned to find out friend giving her oral and promptly making her cum. Evolved from there and the rest is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knee high or thigh high boots |
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Great question.
There are a few, but I think the second attempt at Everest via the North face. A tragic end to a bold endeavour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Super question
I think it would be like katy Perry |
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For comfort on the bed, for naughtyness in the garden. |
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Well I am honour bound to say ABootyfullDay ha.
But if you didn't want to bring your own breakfast in bed back up, then poached eggs and one crispy slice of bacon, coffee and some wonderful company to natter with and feel a bit of body warmth |
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I’d win gold at rewatching tv shows and snacking, super lazy 
Or maybe at learning peoples life stories, my job makes me very nosy and people open up to me easily |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
London / EA |
Ask away.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two options
1. A female who enjoys Ws action
2. A MF couple with a Bi Male
J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone got distracted lol |
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I’d change the world somehow to make it a happier and positive place….not sure how though 
Hehe ooooo when a guy is a good driver…or good at diy…or when a manly guy is showing a sweet side when he’s around kids  |
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Haha I do enjoy the socials…aside from being with someone I was planning on meeting I don’t actually hook up at socials. Wildest thing I’d do is drink shots of tequila and get smooching folk  |
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I’ve not measured cocks/toys so not sure….nothing too big though, I prefer average and tbh click size isn’t something I’m super bothered about before meeting someone |
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We've met a few. All meets on fab have been at our house. Others are prospective meets who have been spoken to at length to align likes/dislikes etc. Most of them were pre-covid and never got round to seeing them. |
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Debs 100%
Cute, charming, devious and after 18 years in banking she'd know the lingo too.
I'd play lookout and be the getaway driver instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A woman in glasses is a normal/innocent it frames the eyes turn on for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An invitation to watch a couple play, particularly if I suspect they are bi.... |
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It has to be the hubby's bum. Quite a peachy bum. The hubby is not here but I'm sure he would say boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Celebrity 3 some Would have to be scarlet johanson and jessica beil |
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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
In for a bit but only mr answering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex in the window of a high rise hotel |
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Top is KinkyCJ for club updates |
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Ideal date
Out for a few drinks maybe mini golf for a laugh then if there’s a spark back for a lovely dinner and see how it ends |
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Well there are quite a few
HGsLB, Daisy Miller (new entry) MrMrsW2022 and Jessica Grace to name a few
And anything they wanted |
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Kinkiest thing we've done?
So far Mr pissing in me while we fucked. We've experimented alot so we have done and enjoyed many but that was a first for both of us |
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Fucking tremendous! It took a long time to get my brain to do what it was told, but once I actually relaxed the piss flowed and it was heaven. Came bloody soon after as well. Magic!!!! |
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over a year ago
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I'll play for a bit
Marie xxx |
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Our riskiest sexual experience was a bdsm one. I better not go into detail
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As a couple it would have to be our first swap a long time ago. 2 friends came over for a meal and a few drinks, a game of truth or dare got out of hand |
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Yes I've had a gangbang i was blindolded the most I've had in my gangbang was 9
Mrs |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
She can be as loud as she wants but when He climaxes nothing comes out. |
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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
We enjoy same room sex with lots of other couples so a full on orgy isn’t out of the question if it felt right at the time. As for mix probably all couples with a few extra single ladies |
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The riskiest place I've had sex is on some tank tracks while a live exercise was on.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 times over a 2 hour session
J xx |
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I actually haven’t watched anyone yet…I’m quite innocent |
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Can't go wrong with bowling and drinks for afters |
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Well, outside of the norm things that turn me on.
Neck kissing (both ways) and being patronised and called a good boy as I orgasm. The latter was one of those strange ones that I had no idea was thrilling until it happened |
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over a year ago
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She says being on fab and attending partys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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DP is top of our fucket list right now |
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over a year ago
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Having sex in a club with the door open has been our riskiest sexual experience so far
M&M xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My biggest turn on is someone playing with my hair.
Mark's is playing with his ear.
Not very sexy I know
M&M xxx |
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over a year ago
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During lockdown, like most couples I presume did, we sat down and talked about a lot of things.
Not sure how but swinging came up and we both decided that when we come out of lockdown we'll go to a club and see how it goes.
Exactly 30seconds after our first visit, we knew that this was what we wanted
M&M xxx |
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Hmm I guess being blindfolded in a hotel room waiting for my meet was out of my comfort zone |
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Oooo Matt Bomer (I’ll pretend he’s not gay ) and maybe John Krasinski |
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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
Twenty celebrities to join us for foursome would be felicity Kendal in her good life days and probably Jonny depp in his early days (probably a bit controversial now) |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Probably being railed in a woodland! |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Kissing for us is absolutely fundamental to any sexual experience, so no! |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Unfortunately it’s probably too taboo for here! |
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A dress and heels if I only had 5 mins to get ready for a social
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I am in xxx |
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I don’t think there’s anything really that I didn’t think I’d like before doing it…I haven’t experimented too much though |
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Taboo…I guess being blindfolded and playing with someone before actually meeting them face to face  |
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Oooo they gotta be a good kisser but mouth mainly….neck though is just lush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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I don't really care who knows as am not ashamed of this lifestyle |
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Instant turn on is a good kisser everytime. No matter where I am kiss good and u got my hard |
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I’m in, send me your burning questions.
Just none about that strange burning sensation you’re feeling though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The back of a bus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Buy a big house and garage, fill it with my dream cars, donate to charity and live my life lol |
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By *on655Man
over a year ago
Zetland |
I love lingerie on women, serious turn on. Favourite kind would be a silk type bra and thong combo along with suspenders and stockings. Maybe throw in a pair of heels for good measure |
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over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Ohhhh tricky! Probably lazy bitch for Kitty if it’s her and a guy and girl on top for The Boy as a solo in a three or moresome we like variations of doggy so that! |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Early in our relationship we did a lot of sex out the back of pubs by the bins! |
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over a year ago
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Oo I’d say for me it was the largest of the butt plugs I have and for someone else was probably a vibrator |
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By *on655Man
over a year ago
Zetland |
Keep eye contact from the get go, let them tell me what they like then explain in detail how I will do what they like. |
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No, would loves to try it one day! That’s my fantasy |
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over a year ago
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I'm in |
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I'd relive our oily wrestling match, it was so much fun and very hot after
Mrs |
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Watersports, hated the thought but now I enjoy it and we do it regularly
Mrs |
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I've been dvp'd but not creampied at the same time, maybe one for the future
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Little spoon usually though if I’m falling asleep with someone then I hate it, I’d rather be the big spoon for sleeping |
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Hmmm if I could relive my first meet that would be lovely but I think that’s because in my head I’ve romantised it
It was a really nice night and lots of nice feelings and new things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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Not so much in a role play way no….not sure it’s something I’m able to do as I’d end up giggling too much and breaking character |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Bury St Edmunds/Clacton |
We're in |
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over a year ago
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Is a high heel fetish a thing? Seeing a woman wearing nothing but high heels is a damn good sight |
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The pub first. I'd be wearing miniskirt boots and some sort of top. Braless as I never wear one and if skirt showed VPL no knickers |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Yes is the short answer Kitty has been my American porn star and I’ve done a panto villain! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes give this a go! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably our first ffm which was amazing with a lady who was in here for a while but left for personal reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Evening all. Sounds interesting, I'm in. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Bury St Edmunds/Clacton |
Gotta be a gangbang, with C in full control of my partners
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s got to be when you fully trust a partner and can be your full kinky self with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blowjob in a disabled loo, in a shopping centre.
Didn't realise my partner had left some cum on her cheek. Walked out into an angry queue. Hopefully they didn't spot it! |
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Hopefully to be pegged by a lady soon! |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Bury St Edmunds/Clacton |
Probably in a nightclub after one too many but I don't remember any specific instances
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mark would have reverse cowgirl and i choose doggy
M&M xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on then |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
There isn't anything left on our bucket list we want to do. Perhaps as a repeat more parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first couple I met for FFM she was amazing at making sure I had fun. She was like the director and actor of the threesome |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in. First time playing so ask away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy at work but it'll just complicate matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
We met and played with a couple in their late 20s a couple of years ago. Oldest is around our age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some very good answers, I’m still in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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Had 3 at the same time so will answer them all in one! Mr is answering.
A night with couple we met. All fpur of us really clicked and there had been weeks of anticipation, would go back to that night in a heartbeat.
Both of us already can! If i had to choose 1 particular person though right now it would be a guy I kissed on holiday last weekend (not someone from fab)
We havent actually had a social except for an event, usually just meet up at Chameleons and see how things go |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Ahh go on then, why not, I'm in |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
always in the kitchen at parties |
Probably giving a lady her first bdsm experience and The Boy having a full experience with her as kitty spanked her! |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Not very adventurous for on here but sex on the beach is one and a large orgy at a club. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Nothing taboo apart from personally... I was 1 of 3 women at a gb that was almost all, much older men... I like younger ones,so ya know |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Top of my bucket list is a big, possibly oily, orgy |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Youngest 18,a few years ago... Now, my limit is probably a bit higher now but all depends on the man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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am in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Margot Robbie and Idris Elba |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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French knickers
Team up with F and dom the M |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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Probably Galapagos islands
The most surprising thing really is how relaxed we are with (and enjoy) seeing each other give and recieve pleasure to/from others |
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Very hot answers |
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