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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a disabled child who is housebound and looked after by other family members when I’m either at work or socialising. My only sin is no family members know I swing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read it as meaning they will only meet in their local area at another's house/hotel/club. "
This 
People see travel and think youll want to go to London |
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"I read it as meaning they will only meet in their local area at another's house/hotel/club. "
This. Not everything is as nefarious as some assume on here.
Some people don't drive, have kids at home or just preffer not to use their own home to meet complete strangers.
If in doubt, ask for clarification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it says can accommodate/ travel, some people assume that means they will invite any weirdo stranger to their house after 1 message, or travel from London to Edinburgh to fuck someone.
It puts off idiots. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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I can't accommodate as I'm in a houseshare. As much as I would love to have my own place, but unfortunately, it's a luxury I cant quite afford at the moment. But I do enjoy meeting people at clubs of course and for those I connect really well, I have no issues of booking a hotel. I just love when people assume I can't because I'm married lol does make me chuckle  |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
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"If it says can accommodate/ travel, some people assume that means they will invite any weirdo stranger to their house after 1 message, or travel from London to Edinburgh to fuck someone.
It puts off idiots."
This ^.
When I had can accommodate and travel ticked I had profiles messaging me asking if they could bring someone round and they would let me watch them fuck.
It’s my choice who and when I let people into my house if I decide to.
I am also happy with the situation I am now so I have can’t (wish it could be changed to won’t) accommodate and can’t travel ticked to limit the number of people getting in touch.
I would like to think I’m not a waster or a dreamer |
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Some people just enjoy clubs and parties.. lots of reasons why people might not want to travel or accommodate.... we would not accommodate as we like to keep our swinging fun separate to home life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't accommodate because I have kids. When I'm out the house they are being looked after at home. I'll not have people there when they are 'asleep' etc.
When I was only meeting at clubs I had couldn't accommodate (as above) but also couldn't travel. However I might leave it as that like others have pointed out might deter people thinking I will travel out of area (even though I specify local in my bio). |
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