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Bi guys - why not team up with a bi mate and offer MM fun?
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So many threads with bi couples finding it difficult to meet genuine bi guys, why don't genuine bi guys team up with one of their male playmates and offer to come as a MM "couple"?
We've had a few meets with MM couples and the fact they know each other and have played before and willing to again makes for a really fun time, and no concerns about the guys being fake bi.
Takes the pressure off a single bi guy feeling he has to work twice as hard to please us both  Would save time and rule out all the fantasists who say they are bi behind a keyboard only too
Not many bi MM profiles in our area sadly. |
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I often have thought the same thing and have tried a few times to find a genuine bi male to team up with but with no luck
I dont often look to play with just another guy, and when I have they are gay or have just been one off with guys who aren't looking for regular fun or swinging
And then if I chat to bi guys on here about becoming mates and having a profile together, I end up having the same problems that couples have with finding genuine bi males, with all the keyboard fantasists. Plus the extra hurdle of a lot bi guys who might be up for it, aren't looking for other single guys so are hard to find
I'm chatting with a few guys at the moment that I'm hoping to meet soon who might be interested in teaming up so fingers crossed |
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"You mean like a BI ONE GET ONE FREE OFFER.."
lol. Sounds good to me!
Had a few emails from this thread, single guys saying if we find another single guy for them they'll team up with us. Really!!! Yeah, lets risk two unknowns and unproven bi guys - that'll negate the risk!
Looks like our wants are a bit niche  |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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I like the sound of that but I always say no to MM couples, just scares me abit being alone with two men who are friends. I'd rather find and arrange to meet two guys wether bi or not who don't know each other. What's the chances of picking two wankers right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like the sound of that but I always say no to MM couples, just scares me abit being alone with two men who are friends. I'd rather find and arrange to meet two guys wether bi or not who don't know each other. What's the chances of picking two wankers right "
Totally agree |
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There are a 2 MM couples profiles living near us, one of which is as you describe, friends who play together to meet other couples and singles who are bi or gay. They are not straight men trying to find gangbangs!!
I had never given it that much thought, but if you are a couple that prefers the couple's dynamic it makes a lot of sense to seek out MM couples.
We have more interest from the bi guys masquerading as straight than we do straight guys pretending to be bi. But struggle with finding the elusive bi MF couple... But have had a few messages recently so I guess they are coming out the woodwork at last! |
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"So many threads with bi couples finding it difficult to meet genuine bi guys, why don't genuine bi guys team up with one of their male playmates and offer to come as a MM "couple"?
We've had a few meets with MM couples and the fact they know each other and have played before and willing to again makes for a really fun time, and no concerns about the guys being fake bi.
Takes the pressure off a single bi guy feeling he has to work twice as hard to please us both Would save time and rule out all the fantasists who say they are bi behind a keyboard only too
Not many bi MM profiles in our area sadly. "
Just saw this thread and it got me wondering if it is actually something couples are looking for? I have discussed teaming up with a couple of other guys on here but never taken further as we didn’t think there would be an interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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the reason most bi guys get nowhere is they are not wanted or else they would have had meets ... bi guys who do well will just carry on but getting bi guys who get nowhere to team up will still get nowhere surely ...
a few years back there were quite a few mm couples they soon dried up because i guess it didnt work.
alot of single women wont feel safe bad enough trusting one maybe it will work with bi couples who knows judging by pass i doubt it..
at the end of the day its all down to attraction of sorts i guess and we all know 2 is harder than one...
#justmyopinion
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I’ve tried this. A mate and I tried meeting as a MM duo for three months, but I’ve found it didn’t
work for a major reason - it’s hard to find someone that both of us were equally attracted to.
Everyone he liked, I didn’t, and vice versa. We did a few meets too but I wasn’t feeling any of them.
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"the reason most bi guys get nowhere is they are not wanted or else they would have had meets ... bi guys who do well will just carry on but getting bi guys who get nowhere to team up will still get nowhere surely ...
a few years back there were quite a few mm couples they soon dried up because i guess it didnt work.
alot of single women wont feel safe bad enough trusting one maybe it will work with bi couples who knows judging by pass i doubt it..
at the end of the day its all down to attraction of sorts i guess and we all know 2 is harder than one...
#justmyopinion
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Who says most bi guys get nowhere? |
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By *for77Man 22 weeks ago
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"I like the sound of that but I always say no to MM couples, just scares me abit being alone with two men who are friends. I'd rather find and arrange to meet two guys wether bi or not who don't know each other. What's the chances of picking two wankers right "
You’d like to think that you could trust people. Especially here. Truth is, there’s psychos on here too. I agree with you. Meeting two mates may not be the best idea. I would say meeting at a club, or just going to a club to find your perfect scenario would be the safest bet. I always think of what situation I would like my missus to be in without me there. Would she be comfortable? She’s a strong woman and would never do anything she didn’t want but a safe place has to be key. Stay safe and have fun. |
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A very interesting thread for me. Since the wife of the couple with whom I had been enjoying mmf threesomes for the last six years departed suddenly, I've been toying with exactly this idea with the ex-husband (I'm a top; he's a bottom). Both of us really want to meet couples but I'm very unsure how much mileage there is in this idea. Sadly outside OP's age range. |
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By *for77Man 22 weeks ago
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"the reason most bi guys get nowhere is they are not wanted or else they would have had meets ... bi guys who do well will just carry on but getting bi guys who get nowhere to team up will still get nowhere surely ...
a few years back there were quite a few mm couples they soon dried up because i guess it didnt work.
alot of single women wont feel safe bad enough trusting one maybe it will work with bi couples who knows judging by pass i doubt it..
at the end of the day its all down to attraction of sorts i guess and we all know 2 is harder than one...
#justmyopinion
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Have to agree with this. I guess if the OP found a decent bi guy to build a friendship with might be an idea then turn it into an MMF. Having a good FWB might work. I’m married so setting up a decent MMF is easier but finding the right guy is challenging. |
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By *for77Man 22 weeks ago
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"the reason most bi guys get nowhere is they are not wanted or else they would have had meets ... bi guys who do well will just carry on but getting bi guys who get nowhere to team up will still get nowhere surely ...
a few years back there were quite a few mm couples they soon dried up because i guess it didnt work.
alot of single women wont feel safe bad enough trusting one maybe it will work with bi couples who knows judging by pass i doubt it..
at the end of the day its all down to attraction of sorts i guess and we all know 2 is harder than one...
#justmyopinion
Who says most bi guys get nowhere?"
She didn’t say most bi guys get nowhere. She said bi guys who get nowhere who then team up with another bi guy would surely get nowhere. |
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By *for77Man 22 weeks ago
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"I’ve tried this. A mate and I tried meeting as a MM duo for three months, but I’ve found it didn’t
work for a major reason - it’s hard to find someone that both of us were equally attracted to.
Everyone he liked, I didn’t, and vice versa. We did a few meets too but I wasn’t feeling any of them.
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That’s the problem really isn’t it. The attraction. I don’t there’s an hard and fast rule in this lifestyle. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 22 weeks ago
WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT |
Love a reliable MM profile whether straight (or ideally) bi 😈 Two strangers is fun but I love the dynamic of an established tag team who know how the other operates. Unlike some others on this thread I go with my instincts and am prepared to take a punt on MMs if I think they are legit |
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I have a good bi friend that we had a MM profile together seeking females and bi couples for fun.. We had some success but both got busy with work. We might need to get the account going. Hes fit and hung and bi. |
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