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"Yeah I agree, the balls are the most sensitive.
Surely the head of the cock is most sensitive? "
It’s going to depend on the individual and what works best for them, I expect
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"Care to share your bj tips and techniques to give a guy that amazing bj?? Perhaps you've had verifications saying best bj ever, care to share your special skills?? "
I love giving head…and J loves me doing it to him. Top tips - enjoy what you’re doing, ask him to show you how he likes his cock to be touched, play with the balls - lick and suck them too while you stroke his cock, if he’s up for it play with his ass too. Kiss and stroke round the base of the cock and inner thighs. Oh, and eye contact… 
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"Care to share your bj tips and techniques to give a guy that amazing bj?? Perhaps you've had verifications saying best bj ever, care to share your special skills??
I love giving head…and J loves me doing it to him. Top tips - enjoy what you’re doing, ask him to show you how he likes his cock to be touched, play with the balls - lick and suck them too while you stroke his cock, if he’s up for it play with his ass too. Kiss and stroke round the base of the cock and inner thighs. Oh, and eye contact…
Mrs "
I'm liking the detail here xxx |
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Enjoy it.if you aren’t enjoying it, it isn’t going to be enjoyable for them. focus on the head for a bit , kissing and licking. Have good suction. Use your lips to shield your teeth. Lots of spit and use your hands. |
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"Enjoy it.if you aren’t enjoying it, it isn’t going to be enjoyable for them. focus on the head for a bit , kissing and licking. Have good suction. Use your lips to shield your teeth. Lots of spit and use your hands. "
^Listen to her she’s hot af |
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Enjoy it, that's hot on its own. People are different, ask them what they like.
I'm personally not interested in eye contact, it doesn't do anything for me.
If I'm giving one I'll use my tongue to stroke their cock in my mouth separately to the motion of sliding it in and out of my mouth. Mind your teeth and use different pressure to enhance the in and out sensation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is different and the best person to ask and communicate with is the person you are doing to or with.
For example there are things I like and don't like that others will disagree with.
I don't like my balls being sucked, I definitely don't like anyone spitting on my cock but I do like a slow hand job whilst I'm getting sucked.
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"Everyone is different and the best person to ask and communicate with is the person you are doing to or with."
^ This
For example, I personally love my balls being played with. However, I have given BJs to different men for whom it did absolutely nothing (though the vast majority do seem to really enjoy it!). |
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"Care to share your bj tips and techniques to give a guy that amazing bj?? Perhaps you've had verifications saying best bj ever, care to share your special skills??
I love giving head…and J loves me doing it to him. Top tips - enjoy what you’re doing, ask him to show you how he likes his cock to be touched, play with the balls - lick and suck them too while you stroke his cock, if he’s up for it play with his ass too. Kiss and stroke round the base of the cock and inner thighs. Oh, and eye contact…
Mrs "
That hits the spot  |
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"Ladies should spit on it, then add the twisted hand action that follows the mouth up and down. Guaranteed to have a hot cock cumming quick.
Nope. A spit turns me off big time! "
Yeah same, I find sloppy porn blowjobs really off putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Care to share your bj tips and techniques to give a guy that amazing bj?? Perhaps you've had verifications saying best bj ever, care to share your special skills??
I love giving head…and J loves me doing it to him. Top tips - enjoy what you’re doing, ask him to show you how he likes his cock to be touched, play with the balls - lick and suck them too while you stroke his cock, if he’s up for it play with his ass too. Kiss and stroke round the base of the cock and inner thighs. Oh, and eye contact…
Mrs That hits the spot "
I aim to please… 
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to take my time, use my lips and tongue as well as taking it in my mouth. Love kissing thighs and sucking balls too. Running my hands upto his nipples and playing with them as I suck, as well as rubbing his arse cheeks |
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By *arl JamesMan
over a year ago
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Fair enough, girls that can talk dirty are hott as well, when I see girls that continue to give the guy pleasure even when he has cum are experts lol.
I think some girls finishing performing the act when they are ready not just because the guy has cum lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This forum thread is absolutely brilliant 
It's often been suggested over the years that we could do training sessions.
Haha.. A mini UK tour in small venues for a more hands on  lesson
Heehee even refresher sessions
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By (user no longer on site)
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From many of the times I've been with other females & mfcouples, the mention of whether someone is good at sucking cock.. Without doubt the majority of females seem to feel that it's a bit of an effort that is more pleasurable for the guy. The guy can occasionally sense this.
When I was in my early 20s I met a man who introduced so many sexual experiences to me in a way that made them pleasurable to both.
All these years on & the enjoyment I get from Giving seems to increase the enjoyment of the person Receiving.
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"From many of the times I've been with other females & mfcouples, the mention of whether someone is good at sucking cock.. Without doubt the majority of females seem to feel that it's a bit of an effort that is more pleasurable for the guy. The guy can occasionally sense this.
When I was in my early 20s I met a man who introduced so many sexual experiences to me in a way that made them pleasurable to both.
All these years on & the enjoyment I get from Giving seems to increase the enjoyment of the person Receiving.
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I think that's a big tip that the giver has to enjoy giving, the receiver enjoys it so much more xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really have any tips as such because every penis owner is different.
Some people absolutely loathe their balls playing with. Some dislike spit, deepthroating, gagging. Some people really enjoy long firm sucking, with extra focus on the head, and if you let them fuck your mouth? Fireworks. Others enjoy a more gentle, long licks with plenty of eye contact.
But what I would say is make sure you're listening. Not just to what they're saying but how their body responds to your different moves. Pay attention to them. And don't just enjoy it. If you're doing it, worship that cock like it's the most beautiful thing you've ever had in your mouth. Believe it is.
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2nd this! You can tell if someone isn't enjoying it which can be off-putting.
A suckle kind of suck on the head or just under it feels amazing
If anyone would like someone to practice on I'll happily volunteer  |
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"I guess most girls like to give and receive in the 69 position so they get stimulated and more comfortable than being their knees "
You guess incorrectly. MANY women and a good number of men dislike "69" due to the split focus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My best tip is this
Ask the guy your sucking what he likes and enjoys?
Everyone enjoys getting sucked differently
I love to totally worship a cock kiss it lick it stroke it gently play with the balls swirl my tongue round the bellend and then deepthroat it etc .
But not every guy likes that |
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"I don't really have any tips as such because every penis owner is different.
Some people absolutely loathe their balls playing with. Some dislike spit, deepthroating, gagging. Some people really enjoy long firm sucking, with extra focus on the head, and if you let them fuck your mouth? Fireworks. Others enjoy a more gentle, long licks with plenty of eye contact.
But what I would say is make sure you're listening. Not just to what they're saying but how their body responds to your different moves. Pay attention to them. And don't just enjoy it. If you're doing it, worship that cock like it's the most beautiful thing you've ever had in your mouth. Believe it is.
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Hi Meli thanks for your input, I think your advice to worship the cock is sound advice indeed as I think that's what a good bj is all about, thankyou xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess most girls like to give and receive in the 69 position so they get stimulated and more comfortable than being their knees "
Not for me, I much prefer being on my knees. Something about feeling submissive makes me feel really horny
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Care to share your bj tips and techniques to give a guy that amazing bj?? Perhaps you've had verifications saying best bj ever, care to share your special skills?? "
having my balls cupped when I'm abiut to cum makes me explode.
No teeth...... and sync your wanking hand with your mouth...mmm |
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I’d say most important is that you’re really in to it - they’ll get off on you getting off about ducking their cock! Lots of attention to the balls, gentle sucking or a little nibble along with cupping and massaging them in your hands. Wetter is usually better (so I’m told!) but ask him what he likes because not every guy is the same. Listen to the sounds he’s making and react to his body, I love flicking my tongue over the underside of the top of his cock. Go between long slow sucks and faster sucks. I also recently learnt how to properly dele throat so I can literally swallow the husbands cock and he bloody loves it!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most guys love it sloppy. Men who find it hard to come always do it a different way - sit down, stand up, lay down etc. Get comfty and don't tense. Works every time. Others cum so quick. When its wet easier to slide down and deep. Lots of playing with the bell. |
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"Most guys love it sloppy. Men who find it hard to come always do it a different way - sit down, stand up, lay down etc. Get comfty and don't tense. Works every time. Others cum so quick. When its wet easier to slide down and deep. Lots of playing with the bell."
Thanks Cheeky lady for the sloppy tip, sloppy sounds the way to go x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Eye contact, sucking while making sure my tongue is pressed up against the cock and licking it. Playing with the balls and licking under the testicles. Always letting them cum where they want |
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"Eye contact, sucking while making sure my tongue is pressed up against the cock and licking it. Playing with the balls and licking under the testicles. Always letting them cum where they want "
Im sold |
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"Eye contact, sucking while making sure my tongue is pressed up against the cock and licking it. Playing with the balls and licking under the testicles. Always letting them cum where they want "
Thanks Jezzy, great tips. Interestingly the first to tip on Cumming which is surely the ultimate goal of a great bj x |
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"Following the success of this thread I'm considering starting a thread for tips on giving oral to pussy.... "
Please do as majority of men are totally clueless they forget to give attention to the clit for a start.  |
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"Yeah I agree, the balls are the most sensitive.
Surely the head of the cock is most sensitive? "
Yes, but when licking pussy do you only lick the clit, or do you stick a tongue inside her, lick her buthole, lick all around the pussy lips, finger her and grab hold of her ass and pull her towards you? Make her wriggle, squirm and if she squirts all over your face make sure you lap it all up like a man dying of thirst. Then maybe, just maybe, she will do the same for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Enjoy it. If you’re enjoying it then person receiving will too.
Also don’t forget your tongue, lips, throat, hands, mouth and saliva are all there to be used… none of this frozen stiff, minimal effort in and out of the mouth stuff that some people think is good
Personally I love it when the person sucking me seems desperate and hungry for it. It drives me wild |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To follow up on the don't neglect the balls tip. Be careful they’re sensitive actually the whole damn area is sensitive haha.
Some women do stuff to my dick that I would never dream of doing a to a pussy. Be gentle some of you are crazy down there. It’s not fun sometimes haha |
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"Don't neglect the balls."
Ask the guy first. Some (i.e me) don’t really like our balls being played with.
On another note, for the love of all that is good sn holy, no teeth, please!
Final note, use your hands as well as your mouth, lips, and tongue. Enthusiastically, but not over exuberent. You’re trying to give pleasure, not start a camp fire. |
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For me it's listening to what makes the person I'm with tick most and do that!
Switch up the tempo, pay plenty of attention to the areas the recipient responds to most, lots of eye contact, tongue swirling the tip, don't be ashamed of the amount of drool but use it as a tool, noises are okay if they respond well to them whether it be moaning or gagging, worship it....
I'm going to stop there  |
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