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over a year ago
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This is what we say. It's not a reason not to cheat in itself, love and commitment does that, but like youbsaid, why would anybody want to cheat when they can have all the fun they want together  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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this is the number one reason i/we stopped couples from messaging the amount of guys who are part of a swinging couple who felt it ok to ask if they can meet without there partner knowing is shocking
and its another reason we never give out our fab id when at swinging clubs |
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Most of the people who cheat on here claim to have some sort of sob story to justify it, but if they are quite capable of lying to their own partner then it's most likely they'll lie to randomers they hope to meet on here and the scene. |
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over a year ago
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"Many people are on fab to get sex as they don't get it from their partners who are no swingers but withholding sex "
What are the stats? From your research so far. |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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What goes on in someone's relationship isn't always as simple as people make out. I'm honest on my profile about my status. It's not a kink to me. But you'd be amazed how many get turned on by it. I cut these people off as not what I'm looking for. No one knows my total home status so they can't judge me nor do I expect to explain myself to anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people can have it all and it’s still not enough.
A guy from a swinging couple we met on our joint profile told us he misses the buzz he used to get out of doing something illicit.
Swinging doesn’t give him that thrill because it’s not a secret. |
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Cheating is a really selfish act where the highs is from creeping about behind someone's back. For the people who say but I don't have a choice, I'm in a loveless relationship etc, stop being a coward and tell them you want to sleep with others or just leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people can have it all and it’s still not enough.
A guy from a swinging couple we met on our joint profile told us he misses the buzz he used to get out of doing something illicit.
Swinging doesn’t give him that thrill because it’s not a secret."
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Some people just need that extra ego boost, thrill of the chase, having someone they shouldn't, I guess it's the excitement, I don't understand it though if there on fab anyway and can have fun together, I hate cheating such a horrible way to hurt someone, not only does it affect their ability to trust but confident too, selfish!
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"Some people can have it all and it’s still not enough.
A guy from a swinging couple we met on our joint profile told us he misses the buzz he used to get out of doing something illicit.
Swinging doesn’t give him that thrill because it’s not a secret.
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"If you were on FAB is there any need to cheat?
Why would someone need to if in the lifestyle….,"
Maybe their sex life isn't great and their swinging isn't a success either. The number of couples profiles where the "Male is available to meet" is astounding. We do wonder how many partners know of such statuses. |
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I can tell you that I (female) have been on FAB for over 10 years and the biggest reason that guys that are part of a couple on fab want to meet up with me on my own is, that after listening to a long list of things that the couple don't do or like it's inevitable that the husband does want to try, eg pegging, watersports, or rope work. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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it happens because one half of the couple wants more its that simple and they dont care how they go about it ..
now im sure its both but i can only say from male halfs before i shut down couples getting in touch with the block button i quite often had messages from male halfs of swinging couples who did not want there other half to know and a few would keep on and on ..now we have to bear in mind that some of these were fake profiles of couples run by single guys but its not all as ive seen these couples in clubs so there is a section of cheating swingers ..
why who knows im not here to judge i just want no part in swinging cheats as they to me should be the most sexually liberated ... |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't do cheating the truth comes out in the end, I've been cheated on loads in the past"
the real fact is nobody know if they've been or chatting with a cheat or not i refuse to judge as none of us know their situation women cheat just as much but because of the % of men its blown out of concept |
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"Cheating is a really selfish act where the highs is from creeping about behind someone's back. For the people who say but I don't have a choice, I'm in a loveless relationship etc, stop being a coward and tell them you want to sleep with others or just leave. "
But maybe it’s not that simple for people to just leave |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"Cheating is a really selfish act where the highs is from creeping about behind someone's back. For the people who say but I don't have a choice, I'm in a loveless relationship etc, stop being a coward and tell them you want to sleep with others or just leave.
But maybe it’s not that simple for people to just leave "
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't do cheating the truth comes out in the end, I've been cheated on loads in the past
the real fact is nobody know if they've been or chatting with a cheat or not i refuse to judge as none of us know their situation women cheat just as much but because of the % of men its blown out of concept"
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